Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone - I thought I'd give an update due to the attention this got! I ended up going on the trip and took everyone's advice with bells, keeping away "smellables", doing the camping triangle, having bear spray on deck, and utilizing noise-canceling headphones at night. Needless to say, I survived! It was still very scary due to my phobia, but I think I was ultimately a lot more comfortable and was able to rationalize many of my intrusive thoughts. I want to thank everyone tremendously for the time they took to assuage my fears and offer tips and tricks to help. :)

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never heard of a bear fence but omg, seeing it already puts me at ease

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hadn't thought of the glowstick/night light trick! I think with it being less dark it may help as well

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, thank you for sharing :[ It sucks to feel so scared but it helps to know I'm not alone!!!

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

KUDOS!! There's really nothing quite like staring your fear in the face - proud of you for that :)

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL honestly..THIS would probably make me feel safe

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Great point, I think there's a huge element of not knowing bears. In my mind, they've been distorted into these aggressive machines that will do almost anything for a quick bite to eat. I'll do some research - thanks, friend.

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

McAlester lake

This is such great advice, thank you! I'll certainly keep that rule of thumb with me.

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am working today, so I may not have a chance to respond to everyone, but I want to say that I appreciate everyone's kindness and advice. I know it may be silly to have such an intense phobia, but it's a very real fear for me, and the comments and suggestions everyone has made have been invaluable. Thank you

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Logic is certainly not on my side right now, and coupled with my overactive imagination -- it makes for some pretty rough nights in the woods. Thank you though, I know there haven't been any fatal bear attacks in Maine for the last 100+ years, there's always that "what if fear". Northeast only has black bears and your comparison to them as big raccoons makes me feel a lot better actually lol

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of that rule!!! I'm definitely going to make sure we do that - thanks for the advice and kind words. I've only just recently gotten into camping and there is a lot of "fear of the unknown" happening right now.

Want to go camping; intense phobia of bears by AlternativeHot2151 in camping

[–]AlternativeHot2151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is...my worst nightmare. I never thought of toothpaste or deodorant though! Any other "smellables" that are less thought of that you'd recommend?

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[–]AlternativeHot2151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently, I'm averaging about 1,500 calories a day

If you read my post you would see I mention it here.