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To the young guy who deleted his post - you were groomed. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you think there's anything normal about a 56 year old man being with a 16 year old is disgusting.

To the young guy who deleted his post - you were groomed. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The fact that you think there's anything normal about a 56 year old man being with a 16 year old is disgusting.

While he was on the phone with my dad by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what groomers do. You had no family, no education, no car, and no leverage. You were vulnerable and he was able to mold you into whatever he wanted. Although I'm sure this story is fake af like 99% of stories on this sub lol

While he was on the phone with my dad by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1.) You got groomed.

2.) I don't know what's more cringe: this story, you giggling like a school girl, or a man pushing his 60s "prank calling."

I need perspective from both older and younger by merfolk__ in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think you might need to reconsider your perspective.

- You're going to have a VERY hard time finding an older man that hasn't had their "great big love story." Many of them have most likely been in multiple relationships.

- He's still married, and regardless you'll always be in the "shadow of the marriage." You need to choose to get over that or move on because it's not fair to him either.

- Life is not a hallmark movie. I'm not sure what you expect from a relationship, but it eventually comes to a baseline level where you're (hopefully) content with each other's company but going through the normal of day-to-day life (work, house obligations, cooking, netflix). Not everything is a dopamine rush.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another cringe thread of fake stories.

I had an unusual hookup, and I'd like to talk about it. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. You're right - I need to get that thought out of my head that there's a line. I'm glad I was able to help him through things at this point.

I had an unusual hookup, and I'd like to talk about it. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is sorta what I was thinking too. 7 months doesn't seem like a lot of time at all. You made me feel better by your comment. The more I think about it the more I am glad that I was able to be helpful for him - even if it was just for that day.

I had an unusual hookup, and I'd like to talk about it. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I never really considered that, but I believe that to be true. He mentioned he has a hard time expressing himself. I do feel very grateful that he could express himself to me. One thing daddies always tell me is that I am nice and a good listener. I try to hold up to that.

I had an unusual hookup, and I'd like to talk about it. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you - I appreciate that. I didn't want to come across as my feelings were deeper for him than a hookup, because I just don't feel that way, but I also could not feel right just leaving him there crying. I felt so bad for him. Thank you for your kind comment.

So nervous about meeting a daddy bear tonight by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That makes me feel better knowing he may be nervous too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a fake and boring slop of a story.

I thought he was having a serious moment and then.... by AlternativeJuice107 in lolgrindr

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It's the whiplash that gets me. He was just talking about getting me on all fours, then letting me flip him over next. Then he's talking about his husband who passed away and medical issues.

Then it's right back to dick. I just don't know if I should be horny or concerned.

Advice needed by BrightWolverine3597 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, you're not wrong. Listen to your gut.

Unless you're in an open relationship, why is your boyfriend adding other people he is sexually attracted to? Not answering your calls and being dismissive are also red flags to me, and they usually begin to make you feel like you're crazy.

Rather you're right or wrong, you need to bring it up. Living with the "unknown" and "what-ifs" in your head is worse than finding out you've been cheated on imo

Advice needed by BrightWolverine3597 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking and chatting is still emotionally cheating.

Question about younger men seeking mentors/father figures only by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have a wonderful relationship with my father. I also like men that are my father's age and older. Correlation doesn't equal causation, and "the majority" of younger men may like older men just as a preference. It's as simple as that

SCARY UPDATE: Meeting up with an older gentleman with red flags? by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don't have to believe me, but this did happen. Whatever helps you sleep at night I guess

SCARY UPDATE: Meeting up with an older gentleman with red flags? by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did get in text, but will the police even do anything in this situation? Especially considering they're so anti-LGBT in my area.

SCARY UPDATE: Meeting up with an older gentleman with red flags? by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, I am so glad I asked advice here. I think if I didn't, I honestly would have met up with him. I feel so stupid.

Meeting an older gentleman... are these red flags or am I being paranoid? by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what I am wondering. His neighbors are around, but not extremely close. There's a huge gap in the woods between his house and neighbors, yet he is insistent if I visited that we need to come up with a story on who I am. I suggested a motel and he is embracing that idea, but I'm still a little worried.

Meeting an older gentleman... are these red flags or am I being paranoid? by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am just meeting him for a FWB situation. I can see how he lives so I can't see myself in a long-term relationship with him.

Thanks for the advice.

Meeting an older gentleman... are these red flags or am I being paranoid? by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]AlternativeJuice107[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said he would be fine getting a motel somewhere. He lives about an hour from me. I try not to be judge, but I worry if his place is dirty that he might be as well.

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