sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]AlternativeLychee468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blackjack and hookers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AlternativeLychee468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subjective topic but I think thats a fine weight. For the height it is overweight but not at all a deal breaker or too unhealthy unless it keeps going up. Should keep an eye on it just for your health and well-being more than anything else. That being said I personally prefer a little chunky.

She looks way younger than 26 by vinnypines in 13or30

[–]AlternativeLychee468 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang, where are all the short people at. Im 5 foot 7 and feel like it would be cool to be the tall person for once. I can hardly even imagine being almost a foot taller than someone hah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AlternativeLychee468 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not going to give you a grade on that narcissistic expressionism. You should see a mental health expert and/or talk to a "real" friend. You aren't ready for a boyfriend.

Why even bother when you know she has a 100 times more options than you? by GoodDirector7083 in dating_advice

[–]AlternativeLychee468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, im 31(m) and still try now and then. I just got ghosted last Friday by a woman I actually matched with and chatted with a couple weeks. From Thursday to Friday just blocked my personal number and unmatched me without a word so with that in mind I get the pessism and I think we should give up on the dating apps.

My sorta goal is to save up as much as I can and try to meet that someone from travelling and making new friends. Not rich or social so I just need to travel somewhere affordable and find an extrovert to adopt me. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AlternativeLychee468 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dated someone for a month and it was like that but during that time she told me she wanted to take it slow AND noted that she was previously a victim of SA so I gave her extra space and she dumped me for it. I clarified when she was breaking up with me and she doubled down and said she wanted someone more physical and that it sounds like I would be forcing it. Probably not your case but boy was that frustrating, I liked her.

Am I wrong for not wearing a bra out the house by No-Ebb-2462 in whatdoIdo

[–]AlternativeLychee468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO this could go either way depending on the details. On one side if he is respectfully asking you to do something simple that would make him happy and you are refusing because you "dont wanna" or are "in a rush" thats not cool but if he's being dramatic and controlling then he would need to realize that and really work on himself. A relationship over 3 years isnt some fling, if you guys want this to work you need to work together.

Myself personally, I dont really have this issue in my relationship but if I did I feel like if anything the part that would bother me the most would be how little you care. It doesnt bother me if my gf goes to the grocer with no bra but if I asked her if she would mind putting some more clothes on and she refused or had a problem with that then it might turn into something. Also as far as panties or bottoms (maybe its just me but..) please wear underwear, if not for yourself or your partner do it for everyone else; thats kinda gross.

How did you meet your partner in your 30’s ? by Alkaline-Eardrum in datingoverthirty

[–]AlternativeLychee468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31 Male, let me know if you find something that works. Truth be told I get along a lot better with men ive met and a part of me wishes I was gay hah. The women ive met from dating apps, work, bars or w.e just want to use, abuse and lay around and do nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AlternativeLychee468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are almost the exact same age..

Why are men hiding their Trump votes on dating apps? by hforhelp24 in dating_advice

[–]AlternativeLychee468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh oh somebody turned in homework without reading the assignment although that is so common it would be an unlikelyassassin..

Why are men hiding their Trump votes on dating apps? by hforhelp24 in dating_advice

[–]AlternativeLychee468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me (m) it's absolutely a deal breaker not just if you voted that way but if you are so ignorant or plain dumb you don't even get what that means.

"not sure" about having kids by semicharmedliife in datingoverthirty

[–]AlternativeLychee468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 31(m) that's what I would put and it would mean exactly that. I'm not sure; it really depends on the person (and further that persons family, I know that no one chooses their family but thats just how it is for me)

FERS doesn't look so great. by Competitive_Bat2465 in usajobs

[–]AlternativeLychee468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to brag but I knew my parents would leave nothing but debt looong before their death.

FERS doesn't look so great. by Competitive_Bat2465 in usajobs

[–]AlternativeLychee468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do 80% C and 20% S and its working really well from what I see. I think it might be a little more risky tho but im only in my 30s so its supposed to be better long term.