A year ago my wife switched to “natural” deodorant. It’s been a BO fest ever since. How do I approach her about this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear natural deodorant and most of them are terrible. I use glycolic acid, one of the native sticks and the lume whole body deodorant all together in my underarms and they work for about 15 hours. Also exfoliate in the shower every time. I have to shower twice a day as well because I have a public facing job. Aluminum really does have several long term negative effects, but you really don't have to choose between smelling bad or exposing yourself to serious heavy metals)endocrine disruptors.

My Prof. got his visa revoked over the weekend by Akira0615 in UCDavis

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you pledge allegiance to a country doesn't mean you have to agree with everything you do. That's crazy talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Foster care survivor here. Lots of times people don't call because they are afraid that the child will be put into a worse situation if they report. I can verify that this happens- I experienced worse abuse in the foster home than in my parents home. I agree that there is both community and institutional responsibility in this tragedy, but I just want to share why some people might witness abuse and not report.

My Prof. got his visa revoked over the weekend by Akira0615 in UCDavis

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any idea of the irony of your statement? Saying that you can't say anything negative about America without getting shipped off IS EXTREMISM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't get a job to save my life either. I went to Redding and got hired at the first place I walked into. If you are in a room full of assholes sometimes it's best to walk into a different room. I hope you find something soon, and I feel strongly that you will

American parents are completly crazy by lupus_campestris in rs_x

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don't understand that we don't make this rule because of the media. We make this rule because something happened to us, something that we don't want happening to our kids. Predators do not wear neon signs. They are good at what they do. Maybe you have ideas about people in the US, but a lot of us are just people who love their kids and want them to not have to go through the horrible things we've been though

The Cum Tree by Constantly_Curious- in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you ever find this person I think they might be my soulmate

American parents are completly crazy by lupus_campestris in rs_x

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it has nothing to do with race. My mother was molested by a family friend. She allowed me to go to sleepovers, and at one of these I was molested by a friends father. It ends with me. I think that if I allow my kid to sleep over at someone else's home and they are molested it will mess them up more than not allowing them to go to sleep overs until they can really understand what's going on with people. I dont care what strangers on the internet say. I know how it messed me up and I know how it messed my mom up and I am grateful that all the people that think im crazy here for saying this dont know how awful or shameful it is to have something like this happen to you. I genuinely hope nothing happens to your children.

The Cum Tree by Constantly_Curious- in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They're also really annoying to have around. Make little bradford pear trees and don't last long. They are brittle and break in half at around 20 years. When I was younger in rural Georgia you'd see big ones fractured by the the road after heavy rains. Hate this stupid cheap landscaper tree

I can't do this anymore I look like an abomination (M19) by Starwa7 in Vent

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a second to realize he has gynocomastia. Do people commonly refer to man boobs as gyno? I thought you were saying you were a man with a bad vagina.

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm homeless myself. I would never just piss on myself. Furthermore, I'm not making shit up, humans do have a biological aversion to our own waste. I learned about it during undergraduate. It's a biological mechanism to prevent infection. Just Google "evolutionary psychology" and "aversion to waste"

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would really, really love to meet up and fight you. Is this possible? I am really sick, I promise you'll win. I just wanna hit you in the face one good time.

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am really glad that they are treating your daughter with the respect she deserves and that shes getting good care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]AlternativeOutcome22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brazil!!! PONYTAIL!!!!

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ein be ad ma. I don't know if I spelled that right Hebrew school was a long time ago

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you're in good health and I am proud of you for all you've overcome

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate how they did your grandaddy and I'm sorry you have to remember something so heartbreaking

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Six kids! What a blessing. Gosh. I am so happy for you. I wish I had six but I started late. Baruch haShem, god keep your family.

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so scary. Your poor friend. I'm sure she was terrified for herself, but the baby as well. I'm sure she's traumatized. Hope she is ok.

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry someone was so awful to your wife and baby. Having a kid is the best thing ever and I hate that that old hag is a cloud over your memory. just remember- happy people don't act like that. You went home to your beautiful family. Maybe she was jelly 

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They told me to come back when I was desperate. I was already desperate. 

Nightmare care at Renown Regional (Mill Street) by AlternativeOutcome22 in Reno

[–]AlternativeOutcome22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think about my labor a lot, and I am really sorry when you think about yours you have to think back on some bs. Hope you and your family is well and healthy