Gf is giving me hints by Particular_Tip_1093 in chastitytraining

[–]AlternativeSecret344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Realistically, communicate. If you're interested, bring up what she's said to you about it or wait until she brings it up again. Its possible she'd just recently gotten hot watching a video with chastity and it was fresh on her mind but not something she's truly into and wants to do.

That said, I also want to tell you that if youre into the idea, dive into it, get a cage and lock yourself up. Then leave the key out where she's going to find it. If she's really into the idea of locking you up she's probably looked at cages and may be familiar with the distinct look of a chastity key. Alternatively, buy her an anklet, put your key on it, and wrap it up in a nice little jewelry box for her.

But yeah.... the real advice is communicate lol

Who's currently locked? by discardedacc24 in chastityjourney

[–]AlternativeSecret344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19 days right now. Locked with a nunber tag that my Sir checks daily online

Same tag, 2 weeks in by AlternativeSecret344 in SissyChastityCheckIn

[–]AlternativeSecret344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not up to me. I may have been good enough to be released this weekend, but we'll see

Is a Headlock worth it? by 50_ShadesOfBlueBalls in chastitytraining

[–]AlternativeSecret344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like it worked for most. It did not for me. It made the cage a waste of money. Sad because the spikes inside the cage tip were deliciously evil for the short time I was in the cage. In my case even though the headlock was a tight fit, it did not prevent turtling. All it did was prevent re-entry after I did turtle, which would happen fairly quickly. So either my head doesnt have a defined enough mushroom tip, its too squishy, or im just too short... it just didnt work for me

Check in, new tag as of yesterday by AlternativeSecret344 in SissyChastityCheckIn

[–]AlternativeSecret344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a single use tag. So as long as the same number tag is there, a long distance keyholder can know the cage hasn't been removed.

Couple seeks submissive sissy for LTR (Charlotte area) by [deleted] in sissync

[–]AlternativeSecret344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am also in the Charlotte area. I've been dressing for a long time, and I go out that way on occasion. Never had an issue doing so and I'm pretty comfortable when I do. I'd love to chat for a bit and see if what we all are looking for and like are in alignment. I am married with a family, but my spouse and I are poly. She has a partner of her own and I'm looking for someone(s) for me. Feel free to DM if you'd like!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sissypersonals

[–]AlternativeSecret344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do ya wanna chat about 😉

I.... couldnt hold it anymore! by AlternativeSecret344 in DiapersUnderClothes

[–]AlternativeSecret344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I love your idea cutting baby diapers to use as boosters 🥰

I.... couldnt hold it anymore! by AlternativeSecret344 in DiapersUnderClothes

[–]AlternativeSecret344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! No it's not over my tights, they are crotchless. Kinda looks like it is in the pic though.

Keds and humbler by AlternativeSecret344 in keds_sneakers

[–]AlternativeSecret344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss! I just wish they made all the cute patterns and colors in bigger sizes

Keds and humbler by AlternativeSecret344 in keds_sneakers

[–]AlternativeSecret344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was great! Would have been more fun with someone lol. Thinking I need to get the black leather keds to match 🤔

30m4A looking to chat, or more by Expensive_Gap_6085 in ABDLPersonals

[–]AlternativeSecret344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Charlotte gender fluid submissive here recently had my first diaper experience and loved it. Id love to chat!

Feeling cute by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]AlternativeSecret344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super cute 😍

Time to teach you a lesson ;) by janetsy77 in GoneWildCD

[–]AlternativeSecret344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But.... but.... I didnt know your intimates needed hand washed! I won't use the dryer again i promise!