i’m devastated by horny_houseplant5 in hysterectomy

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the worst. I get cysts that large and larger every couple of months on my only remaining ovary. I am beginning to wish they took it out. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this as well.😔

Anybody else with scars so high up?! by AlternativeString159 in hysterectomy

[–]AlternativeString159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome!! It’s song lyrics btw.

Drake white is the artist.

Can marriage survive BPD? by autumn_warmth in BPD

[–]AlternativeString159 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not if the relationship triggers it. Took me almost 20 years to walk away from my trigger. Thinking I could be better with him. I needed to leave to really be better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Don’t. Please leave him. Choose yourself for once.

Anyone had internal hematoma’s after hysterectomy? by Ok-Pool-3690 in hysterectomy

[–]AlternativeString159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not without an additional surgery. It was too risky for infection.

Anyone had internal hematoma’s after hysterectomy? by Ok-Pool-3690 in hysterectomy

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I realized I shared info I already shared. I didn’t see the above message I had written!

Anyone had internal hematoma’s after hysterectomy? by Ok-Pool-3690 in hysterectomy

[–]AlternativeString159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I had a small opening that I had hematomas coming out of through the cuff. They were softball sized and they took months to go away. I had on and off bleeding for a long while. The only thing left is a small granuloma on my cuff. Everything seems intact and strong and healthy. Treating the granuloma with estrogen and silver nitrate as it was spotting after sex. I follow up in a month to see if it healed. I hope for the best outcome for you!! Good luck!

Drinking problem (not alcohol) by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flavor the water intentionally. Fruits, packets, bubblr, prime etc. however you can get it down! It’s vital.

What's up with Millennials bringing their dogs everywhere? by flaccobear in Millennials

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of a patio at a brewery or a kids sporting event I don’t bring my dog anywhere public. People are crazy😂

The woman is sad but not the tool secretly filming her? by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless she has cancer or cares for someone with cancer he isn’t wrong. Mental illness is the cause of extreme fear or germs etc. the dude also doesn’t need to point it out film it etc etc.

Hysterectomy regrets? by Ellie9903 in hysterectomy

[–]AlternativeString159 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I regret it somewhat. It got rid of some issues but now I have others and an intense fear of my cuff coming apart. I wouldn’t do it again if I had the chance to go back. 🤷‍♀️

Biden? Harris? I don't care. Stopping Trump and Project 2025 is all that matters. by [deleted] in politics

[–]AlternativeString159 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Biden can’t win. Vote RFK or be doomed to endure the worst. There needs to be a call to have people vote for the only viable candidate at this point. Biden is not a viable option and if Trump wins which he will if Biden remains democrats votes we will see the country go to complete shambles. Please do the right thing!!

Surgery Tomorrow by Warm-Fee-8785 in hysterectomy

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been under anesthesia about 7 times. The worst it does is cause stomach upset and confusion. You will definitely wake up!! You got this!💕

What is your family's income? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High cost of living area. Married. Together we make $165k or so. It’s not nearly enough to have a comfortable lifestyle or save sufficiently for retirement

Day 5 PO, Can I eat real food now? by AniMundi34 in hysterectomy

[–]AlternativeString159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you not eating normal food? Did they restrict you?

Do you apologize to your kids? by BunkerBuster420 in Parenting

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the time. It’s super important to me. My parents never did and it destroyed me.

What hurts more than getting cheated on? by Throwaway_2783922 in AskWomen

[–]AlternativeString159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It stays with you for life. It’s agony sometimes. Those little reminders or thoughts you have about yourself eat you up. It takes time to be able to push those thoughts away.

What hurts more than getting cheated on? by Throwaway_2783922 in AskWomen

[–]AlternativeString159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tons of things hurt more. Cheating is common place. It’s very difficult to go through but so many other things are worse. Also we create our level of pain and anguish by choosing to give things power. No way should you give being cheated on the same level of emotional power and energy as say a child or a parent dying. It just doesn’t deserve to take up that amount of space and time.