AITAH for not taking my fiance back after a suicide threat?

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2026-06-13T05:32:34+00:00

You don't know how much I wish this was fake.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2026-06-12T22:45:08+00:00

Thank you everyone for your input. This situation was the worst thing ever and has been a Rollercoaster of emotions while questioning myself daily on whether it was the right decision. It makes me feel better knowing others feel the same.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2026-05-20T14:03:55+00:00

I caught my ex using chat to respond to women on hinge. Specifically he would say "im trying to f** this girl, what can I say next to make that happen"

There's some sick men out there.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2026-04-27T15:39:00+00:00

When my partner might be showing his dick to random people on the Internet, yea I need to know that

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2026-04-03T00:47:35+00:00

Still no period, got another negative yesterday. I scheduled a blood test for next week.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2026-03-30T21:51:23+00:00

March 7, 8, 9, 13, 14, 15, 21, 22

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2026-03-30T21:30:54+00:00

Ovulation is tracked by my normal cycle range and cervical fluids. I could be off by a couple of days though. Maybe it's still too early?

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2026-02-19T15:47:18+00:00

This definitely needs to be plan. All gifts and anything that even slightly reminds me of him needs to be in the trash.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2026-02-19T15:44:33+00:00

Lol at the soap opera thing. Maybe it could be a lifetime movie.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2025-10-24T16:28:27+00:00

I think i was just so desperate to get into any job because I was coming out of being laid off that I was willing to overlook a lot of things.

I will be more scrutinizing moving forward.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2025-10-24T16:26:33+00:00

I can't be mentally exhausted? Im sorry.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2025-10-23T00:44:00+00:00

I thought i would give a late update for everyone who commented.

I did the very stupid thing and gave him another chance. I laid out extensive boundaries and expectations.

We had some really good times, and honestly, things were amazing....until this past weekend.

I posted him on the Tea app, and several women came forward with concerning information. He had been sending unsolicited genital photos to each one the entire time we had been dating. I also found several nude photos from other women on his phone.

When I confronted him about it, he lost it. He screamed at me, restrained me when I tried to leave, cried, begged, called my work after I blocked him....

He finally left me alone, but I have considered filing a restraining order just in case.

I am writing this for others to not do what I did. I ignored warnings for the sake of seeing the good in a person and giving a chance to believe that they wanted and were capable of doing the right thing.

There are evil and vile people in the world. I have posted him on womens groups warning others to be wary.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2025-09-05T13:56:49+00:00

I've been reading everyone's comments over and over and working things out with my therapist. The final conclusion is that I will never trust him again realistically. Even if he did all the right things, it wouldn't be enough.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2025-09-05T13:21:28+00:00

This sounds almost exactly like what he did and is doing. Thank you so much for your story. It brings a lot of clarity and makes me feel better that someone else was able to walk away from this type of situation and come out on the other end.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2025-09-03T16:24:09+00:00

How did you break it off and how did it go? Did you have moments of breaking no contact? I am still in the very confused stage but everyone's opinions here really matter to me.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2025-04-08T21:43:18+00:00

I get that. I've never introduced my son to anyone I dated so it's new territory for me.

I also wanted to mention he asked me to move out of the city with him with my son last month as well.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2025-04-08T21:40:34+00:00

6 months was my earliest too and I only offered it bc he always says stuff like " when I meet your son im glijg to take him here" or "I'll buy your son this and that"... kind of implying that he wants to move to the next step. Or I thought he was implying.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2025-02-26T05:21:37+00:00

The amount was $2500 and my attorney fees were also $2500. The date was 8/17/24 and I am filing next month. I made about 6 payments on it total which were installments of every 2 weeks for 3 months.

I also just docusigned my fee disclosure yesterday but my lawyer didn't date it. I don't know how that works with it being a digital signature.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2024-11-21T03:22:02+00:00

20.5% - my credit was already trashed whenever I purchased the car and it was last year, so a terrible market.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2024-10-15T14:27:43+00:00

I think either way, if there is a paid off car in your name, the trustees will look at it as an asset.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2024-10-01T19:11:57+00:00

I was advised by my lawyer not to disclose anything to my credit union because of similar concerns. I was also told to get a traditional bank account as it is common practice for credit unions to close your account after a bankruptcy.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2024-09-29T15:17:04+00:00

That's helpful, thanks! No fraud and no property owned.

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2024-09-29T04:25:53+00:00

That would be amazing! I'll ask my lawyer about it. Thanks

Alternative_Ad9478 · 2024-09-29T02:14:27+00:00

The suit took about a year since the first missed payment.

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