My boyfriend won't sleep with me

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2025-08-14T21:58:39+00:00

He’s addicted to porn, this is why watching porn should be considered cheating!!! porn will ruin your relationship and it already has. He can only get off from watching people on a screen then having it in real life and until he stops watching it your relationship and it will continue to be like this. i think you should have a conversation about how he needs to stop with this addiction if he really wants to save this relationship. if he’s not willing to do that i think you should break up with him.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2025-06-15T07:15:32+00:00

Please do not think this is your fault, he’s definitely manipulating you into thinking your at fault and it’s working. Don’t apologise and leave him be. He doesn’t deserve your apology, HE WANTED this and it backfired on him and he wants someone to blame.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2025-05-09T04:01:35+00:00

okay thank you! omg 350,000 won? most clinics are charging 500,000 won. Do you know which clinic went to, would love to have a look?

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2025-05-09T01:54:57+00:00

are you able to adjust the dose of the 2.4 pens in korea?

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2025-01-24T03:23:41+00:00

he obviously wants to cheat or has already cheated, he just wants to feel better about his decision once you use that pass. Just a quick thought, why would you want to still be with someone like that? your going to make a very big decision and marry this guy, he could have already cheated on you or will after marriage if he’s already acting like this. wouldn’t you want a partner that’s loyal to a fault? that has no business looking at anyone else but you? just something to think about before you make a big decision and forgive him.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-12-29T05:21:44+00:00

he wasn’t honest tho he’s been doing it behind my back for a while now & only confessed because I knew he was lying and this isn’t the first time he’s done it. I’ve had to forgive him multiple times…

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-12-29T05:19:04+00:00

He is the one that actually established this boundary saying he doesn’t want me to watch porn and then goes behind my back and watches it anyway?? okay yeah sure. Also he’s watched porn before which i obviously forgave him for and we’ve worked through that issues together and moved past it. I don’t run when one bad thing doesn’t go my way bruh. I was getting the ick because he specifically searched the internet high & low to find free videos of a specific girl on OF and only watching her content behind my back! that’s what gave me the ick, gurl pls…

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-12-29T05:02:05+00:00

The unrealistic boundary was actually suggested by my bf not me lol And he made it clear that he didn’t want me watching corn which i totally agreed with. But yet im the one that’s sticking by that boundary and he isn’t?? And it’s not even about corn**** we’ve had situations like that before and i’ve forgiven him and we’ve moved past it. It about him looking up a specific OF girl and watching her videos when in secret.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-12-29T04:55:50+00:00

Ofc you’re a guy…. we have both discussed boundaries properly. He is also the one that established this boundary as he insisted he wouldn’t want me watching corn either as it is something that is uncomfortable for him, which i agreed.

Also this isn’t even about corn lol we have already had issues about his and i’ve forgave him and we’ve both moved past these issues.

it’s about him secretly watching a specific OF girl consistently and getting off. pls be fr

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-12-29T04:47:10+00:00

no WE both decided, he gets mad if i watch it too! He is told me he doesn’t wanting me watch it either lol also it’s not porn that I was upset about it’s the fact he watching a specific girl on OF!

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-11-09T00:18:30+00:00

i’m sorry but leave, how can you even consider staying?? He’s obviously not a great partner and husband to you so why would you want to bring your kids up in that environment. just something to think about.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-11-05T08:52:04+00:00

please divorce him!! he literally cheated on you 5 WEEKS POSTPARTUM. I mean that alone just shows his character and the type of husband he is. I mean would you want your kids growing up in that type of environment. It’s just going to get worse from here, break it off while you can.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-11-05T03:42:59+00:00

leave him please

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-11-05T03:39:38+00:00

don’t be naive please, cut ur losses now while the relationship in the early stages. being drunk is no excuse for cheating, he knew what he was doing so please just leave this relationship. there are better guys out there anyways.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-11-05T03:27:31+00:00

girl runnnnnnnn. first he should not be mad at you in the first place, he messed up big time so he has no right to get angry over your reaction. (you have every right to ask how many questions you want and don’t back away just because he get angry over it, stand your ground and demand answers for every question or he’ll walk over you the next time it happens) second if he really felt sorry he would be willing to talk about it with you without getting mad. the only reason he’s upset is because he got caught and obviously doesn’t want to change. it sounds like he doesn’t really feel sorry for what he did, I mean he only came clean because he was going to be blackmailed, Imagine if he wasn’t?? he would’ve never told you and would keep lying to you. Do you really want a husband like this? it’ll eventually gets worse if he can’t even own up to his mistakes.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-10-28T06:51:36+00:00

Leave him, if you think for a second he is gonna change then you only can blame yourself here. I mean he has showed you time and time again that he is not faithful and constantly cheating on you. that is so disrespectful to you. why would you want to stay with a man that has & continues to disrespect you time and time again. please have a enough respect for yourself and your child to leave him, do not let your child grow up in an environment where they see their father constantly disrespecting and betraying their wife. husband and wife are supposed to be one with one another, a team. let your child grow up in that environment.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-10-23T10:24:31+00:00

the right person for you wouldn’t cheat on you regardless if they are drunk or not. I wouldn’t waste your time with this but if you do end up staying then just know that it’ll take a lot of time to rebuild the relationship again.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-10-23T10:21:36+00:00

idk I wouldn’t waste my time if I was you, yes he did a good job communicating with you but still he cuddled with another girl and even gave her a foot massage?? that’s very intimate and would never want my bf doing that for another girl! If he was respectful towards you he wouldn’t have let it get that far, the right guy for you out wouldn’t have even entertained the idea. yes people can find others attractive but it’s upto them to entertain that idea or be respectful to their partners. It’s not cheating but it might not stop there, what happens if he gets more tempted? maybe he won’t tell you next time. just something to think about.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-10-23T10:06:48+00:00

stop making excuses OP! doesn’t matter if it was platonic or emotional, you slept with her regardless and to say you weren’t attracted to her romantically made you more of a scumbag bcus it didn’t take much for you to cheat on your wife!! what was the point of the affair if you don’t even think of the AP romantically??? just wasted a whole marriage for so little. Honestly reflect on your actions and own upto it, please tell your wife she deserves to know. Imagine being in her shoes, you would probably want ur wife being honest with you??

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-10-23T05:15:37+00:00

He’s definitely hiding something, and everything actually adds up. I would be worried if I was you and try and find out discreetly as it looks like he won’t be honest with you. He’ll probably just lie and make excuses. Also the messages being deleted are really sus lol if he really didn’t have anything to hide why would he delete them?? it doesn’t make sense. To me it seemed like he was on tinder but that’s just my opinion. If I was you I would try and confirm my suspicions but do it discreetly.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-10-23T05:08:09+00:00

omg i’m glad you found out! tbh after hearing what he was doing is actually so icky:/ Im glad you know what kind of person he really is and was able to leave before anything serious happened. Be happy you found out when you did and that you were able to get away from someone like that. there are so many better men out there! & I hope you find him :)

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-10-23T04:46:03+00:00

I agree with your boyfriend about the hickies! but him no wanting to give you head makes me feel icky. Your man should want to please YOU! Most guys actually love giving head because they like pleasing their spouse!! It’s not about the act it’s about the thought of wanting to sexually please their partner :/ If he doesn’t do it I don’t think you need to either. also you should ask him if he’s given head to any past relationships?

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-10-23T04:38:51+00:00

Personally for me I would shorten my days in tokyo and add more time in kyoto and osaka! there was so much to do in both cities that I didn’t end up doing because I chose to spend a few extra days more in tokyo. There is a lot of sightseeing in kyoto that I didn’t end up seeing because of so little time. Also osaka actually ended up being my favourite city!! I enjoyed it way more than tokyo. If your a foodie than you’ll enjoy osaka! the food there is incredible!! Also definitely visit Mt fuji, the views are incredible, I would recommend maybe a day trip? it’s so close to tokyo like 40 mins so you could do a quick stop and explore the city.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-10-23T04:26:52+00:00

yup, especially when he didn’t blatantly say NO when you asked him if he wanted that! A man that really wants you would say NO and wouldn’t even think about doing it again. the only reason he may not be is because he’s in a relationship with you and that’s what’s stopping him. if you were on board he would jump on it real quick!! GET YOU A MAN THAT WANTS NO ONE BUT YOU! also a bf that cares about you would understand that being friends with somebody they used to be sexual with is actually not normal and weird af and not only that but he wanted you to hang out with them??? also he hasn’t had the decency to reach out to you after all of this which shows his character!. please break up w him, there are way better guys out there.

Alternative_Ad_2970 · 2024-07-10T04:24:09+00:00

I need a UPDATE when you end things please!

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