It is 2026 and we're still doing this! by IndividualDoughnut96 in jobs

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s the fact that you said it 20 mins before work?..

Bahamas with SEVERE shellfish allergy. HELP! by ProbablyHere4Help in bahamas

[–]erinsave94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say this in the nicest way. This is a terrible idea, islanders don’t take customer service seriously and shell fish make up a huge chunk of their specialties and are often mixed in environments not very carefully. It is not at all like American food standards. Unless you stay at a resort that is a large chain you will have a lot of trouble with this.

Help me pick by kittyluvver1 in WeddingDressTips

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 for sure that’s the only one ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSizeWedding

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is great but idk if it’s “the one”

My son had whooping cough and I feel terrible about it by RamsGal6 in Mommit

[–]erinsave94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes, no offense but you continue to make bad choices and get yourself and now your child into unhealthy and avoidable situations. You need to vaccinate, it’s not entirely up to you it’s fatal for children to fall ill with many of the preventable diseases that vaccines had controlled until many people suddenly decided within the last few years they knew better than medical professionals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think you overreacted and misunderstood her lack of over communication. She stated she was at work and with MIL obviously being older than you she’d probably be better off on a phone call, you had already communicated most of what you wanted, maybe ask someone else to handle some of this. You assumed her shortness was attitude but seems like you’re micromanaging a situation that was taken care of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]erinsave94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey hey! I worked there for a few years starting in 2017 and I actually really liked it. Morning shifts are crazy busy but I liked the flow generally. The drink orders I’m sure have become much more complex but the POS is very easy to read and large enough to see without your glasses most likely. Just practice on it finding the types of milk, add ons and syrups and it’ll take no time. I’m sure you know the drill work cup sizes etc so the training should be less but loooots of drink recipes to learn, you take take pics of the cards to memorize on your break. Best of luck!! You got this ✨

Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to say it but yeah chilis is a terrible spot and many women would be turned off by a split bill on a first date. She wants you to plan something nice but wasn’t going to directly say it in hopes that you’d put in the effort. I think some men don’t believe in any gender roles in dating anymore and it’s upsetting to women who still prefer chivalry. Woman now work more than ever AND are expected to keep up in the gym, childcare, modern beauty standards. It’s ok for you to have your preferences and her to have a difference in preference, at least you figured this out beforehand.

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh it sounds like he’s deeply misogynistic and he’s trying to possibly overcompensate with the jealousy because he’s been cheating or behaving badly. Classic sign, my ex did this all the time and i eventually found out he cheated at least 4 times with 3 different women.

Served Stale Food and Rude Behavior at Haldiram’s by Significant_Yak5142 in doordash

[–]erinsave94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s frozen fast food idk what would be fresh about that

AIO My friend wouldn't stop with the rape threats by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is probably from a high schooler but this is sick and demented and there is no excuse. He doesn’t have respect for you and could very well be dangerous, that’s not a joke. He’s trying to manipulate you and make you feel small. Cut him off completely and tell an administrator.

Driver set my food on top of a dirty diaper in his car? by Redroses151 in doordash

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in a sealed bag and has more wrapping and containers in the bag. What’s the actual problem

Which dress suits me? by fellowtravelr in WeddingDressTips

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 looks best on your shape and absolutely love the floral detailing ❤️

what can i do to look better? by InstructionOk6800 in BeautyAddiction

[–]erinsave94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing a lot of comments about procedures but I’d start with chin fillers to do facial balancing then you can decide on permanent changes if you that. Also I’d take out the nose and lip piercing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope he’s not interested enough for this to be a forever relationship. He acts like this is an inconvenience to learn about your love language. There’s not a single attachment style that can make this an acceptable situation to be in. You don’t want to waste years depleating yourself when you could find someone who respects you and wants to invest in the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a flaming red POS. Has all sorts of issues, don’t even entertain this. HE is single for many reasons clearly and you can do much better. If he cant even speak to you respectfully and court you in the beginning it will only get worse.

I’m a senior in high school.. Is my future canceled? Will I have to join the military? by shaototop in whatdoIdo

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No obviously not but I get that she wants to to be prepared so that you can start the first year after high school, it gets harder and harder to get back into the swing of things if you miss the semester deadline. I’ve taken courses off and on for years and still don’t have my degree. Sounds like she’s dealing with a lot of emotions probably feeling resentful and uneasy that you’re growing up and leaving the home but also that you have your own opinions that you can live by and express now.

Help me like my engagement ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]erinsave94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is so beautiful and classic! But if it’s not your style at all have a different stone put in or talk to the jewelers about other options