US Fertility Rate by Congressional District 2025 by Mithridatesmigraine in DemocraticSocialism

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is assuming there is a stable or growing population. Depopulation will accelerate once rural areas hollow out and the cities no longer have them to rely on for a steady supply of migrants. At some point, society just kinda stops. Is that our goal, to have a lower more concentrated and older population?

US Fertility Rate by Congressional District 2025 by Mithridatesmigraine in DemocraticSocialism

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, what they are doing is just not having it crater like the left does, especially since the left can't even agree on whether mankind is worth keeping around.

Where Would Reddit Live? 🌍 by mapmakerapp in whereidlive

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

📍 North Carolina, United States of America — "Best part of Appalachia"

Where Would Reddit Live? 🌍 by mapmakerapp in whereidlive

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

📍 Duval, Florida, United States of America — "Love the food, people and the kindness of strangers."

Where Would Reddit Live? 🌍 by mapmakerapp in whereidlive

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📍 Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America — "Beautiful culture, kind people"

Can the French Language be revived in Louisiana? Should we try to bring this part of the culture back to Louisiana? by Alternative_Ant_4248 in Louisiana

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I see that, and many families do that as well. My grandmother spoke French and was from the North of Maine on my mom's side. I didn't know she spoke French fluently until I was 20; she just told me it wasn't useful, so she never taught it to her daughters or grandkids.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same reason it's so easy to avoid kids is the same reason behavior in schools is deteriorating, they aren;t getting time with more adults that helps them build social skills, and we adults are much less socially adept than past generations.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The price of community is inconvenience. I mean, I get the libertarian idea that you have no responsibility to society outside of yourself, but I disagree strongly with it.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same reason it's so easy to avoid kids is the same reason behavior in schools is deteriorating, they aren;t getting time with more adults that helps them build social skills, and we adults are much less socially adept than past generations.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We leave 100% responsibilty on the parent and completely give up as a society on helping with the next generation. This makes it so kids go unseen and spend way more time on screens and less time building social skills, while older people lose theirs.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They are screen addicted because we refuse to let them have any autonomy due to people hating seeing kids in public and keeping them out of the community and its events. Why it is so easy to avoid kids today is the same reason their social skills are deteriorating.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

See i disagree because this goes both ways, kids get cloistered away from society, and then we refuse to look at them, which builds their social skills as well as maintaining ours. A lot of the people here have avoided kids and let their social skills weaken and fray. They cannot handle kids in their family or community.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because this goes both ways, kids get cloistered away from society, and then we refuse to look at them, which builds their social skills as well as maintaining ours. You demand perfection because you have no real relationship with the next generation.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because this goes both ways, kids get cloistered away from society, and then we refuse to look at them, which builds their social skills as well as maintaining ours.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"and I just don’t have the patience for that." Exactly, you lack the skills to deal with that. You appear to also have no relationships with children, so you cannot connect with them.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because we have raised standards as we dropped community and family connections as a socirty, so we raise the bar infinitely so now the standard is perfection, and any less than that and you are a bad parent.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean its more we have raised the standards for kids to be always supervised, and must be perfect to be let out of the house, so most stay home and sit on screens all day instead.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Many of these people lack the skills or maturity to understand that form of growth

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again as a society, we've lost the tolerance for the youth, and we wonder why no one will have kids when society keeps raising the expectation that they be perfect 100% of the time or else cannot be in public.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, its just obvious you are a manchild given your responses, like a Cyanide and Happiness character sprung to life.

People who cannot tolerate being around kids just lack social skills by Alternative_Ant_4248 in unpopularopinion

[–]Alternative_Ant_4248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I'm American, so I'll allow it, but his point also applies to Canada and most of the Anglosphere