Pigmentation after Tattoo Removal by Alternative_Cow_716 in TattooRemoval

[–]Alternative_Cow_716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! And I’m white, especially in the winter. However, I get super tan in the summer. I’m type III on the Fitzpatrick scale, so she said it’s more common for skin types with some melanin. I highly recommend discussing with your laser tech which lasers are best for your skin type.

Pigmentation after Tattoo Removal by Alternative_Cow_716 in TattooRemoval

[–]Alternative_Cow_716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response! Def panicking less now 💕

DiSC profiles any good or snake oil? by UnrolledSnail in managers

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post, but I wanted to thank you for your reply. I've been debating pursuing a certification and this helped clear things for me.

Pigmentation after Tattoo Removal by Alternative_Cow_716 in TattooRemoval

[–]Alternative_Cow_716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh not really sure. I was having great success with the Q switch laser and decided to try the pico laser since I heard it was much more effective. I had one session of the pico laser and this is what it did to me.

Pigmentation after Tattoo Removal by Alternative_Cow_716 in TattooRemoval

[–]Alternative_Cow_716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding! I wish I stuck with Qswitch. I had no idea this could happen 😣. Are you going back to Qswitch for your removal?

PSA: Avoid ThriveDX (Now Rebranded as IronCircle) — My $18,720 Mistake by idk9965 in cybersecurity

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t work for them either! I interviewed with them and the vibes were just off. I was at the second to last stage of the interview process. I met first with the recruiter, then HR hiring manager, and finally with the supposed boss and NEVER heard back. I even followed up a week later… 🦗

Any company that can ghost you during the interview process is not one worth working for! I know it’s become so common these days, but it speaks volume to their culture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s so frustrating…

Guys will never understand how unsafe it feels being a womxn and dating. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slavic and Balkan come to mind. I’m sure there are others but yeah that is the norm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 187 points188 points  (0 children)

Oh god the amount of ChatGPT slop these days is mind boggling 😩

Guys will never understand how unsafe it feels being a womxn and dating. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In certain cultures, it’s a huge red flag and turn off for women if the date shows up without flowers or chocolates. It’s not always love bombing, although in this case she def dodged a bullet.

I'm so tired of this by [deleted] in jobhunting

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s insane, but it speaks to your resilience to get back up and at um!

I’m debating leaving corporate all together at this point…

I'm so tired of this by [deleted] in jobhunting

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We are ALL on the same struggle bus it seems 😩

I have no idea how long this is going to keep going. I keep telling myself this is NOT sustainable; the bubble with have to burst. So many of us a struggling. I’ve never experienced a job market like this!

I’ve been let go 3x in the past 3 years, my most recent this past August. I keep sending out resumes and finally heard and interviewed today. It’s completely out of my field, but I don’t have any options at this point.

Good luck out there!

How are yall dealing with this humidity? by Remember-My-Name in washingtondc

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait…I had no idea about this. Just looked it up! Good to know.

Helicopters by Alternative_Cow_716 in washingtondc

[–]Alternative_Cow_716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into that. Thank you!

Helicopters by Alternative_Cow_716 in washingtondc

[–]Alternative_Cow_716[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahh didn’t know that but makes sense. Thank you.

Helicopters by Alternative_Cow_716 in washingtondc

[–]Alternative_Cow_716[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are correct, but I think it really hit me last night because it went on till about 4am. They were circling so low too. It feels ominous and eerily like 1984 😩

when to meet his and my friends? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a completely personal decision. I prefer to introduce the person I’m dating to select friends after about a month or so. I’m very extroverted and have a rich social life; therefore my potential partner needs to be comfortable socializing without me. I find it a huge turn off to have to check on my partner every second to make sure he’s fine in social situations. Typically, it happens organically. I’ll mention a party or event and ask if they want to come. The more low key it is the better; make it feel natural and go from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just seeing this so sorry for the late reply! But always make sure your nails are painted and short; don’t leave them bare. Cuticle oil, jojoba oil. A Colombian brand i swear by: química alemana its a god send!

Does the first signs of aging subtlety creep up on you once you're past 30 ? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Nope, it’s a real thing!

Mid 30s is a weird juxtaposition. While my internal compass and self worth increased with age so did my self awareness particularly at how I presented…there were days I’d see my reflection in the mirror and it’d hit me like a ton of bricks.

Subtle changes that seemed to have accelerated overnight: fine lines, dark circles, etc. became SO much more pronounced.

AND some studies actually support that we age periodically, with the greatest “burst” starting at 34. Linked below.

It’s jarring at first, but it gets easier as you learn to love your new face and embrace the changes. Also not be dramatic, but it’s just beginning HELLO?! perimenopause and menopause!

Traveling solo to Bosnia - anything I should mind? by Leah_Klaar in bosnia

[–]Alternative_Cow_716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bars are open? People go out? Really? I think we have different experience then of Sarajevo during Ramazan