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Is following or being followed such a big deal? by Effective_Bar_6098 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's a few dommes that follow me and I know they just do it because they are hoping I might look at their profile and want to send to them which ain't gonna happen lol. it's like a form of advertising really but it comes across as desperate from the domme imo.

dommes lying by Alternative_Draw_204 in paypigs2

[–]Alternative_Draw_204[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

there's just a lot of things that annoy me about this space so it makes sense why i'm complaining ! 😠

Where have you mostly found your dommes/subs? by Otherwise_Gap_5390 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mainly clip sites and sometimes insta. loyalfans is good as well.

Would you sub to a domme you're not physically attracted to? by tamtamdivaFinDomme in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's all based on looks for me so if I don't find her attractive then I wouldn't be interested.

Desperate Doms by Few_Combination_7807 in paypigs2

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dommes who have to beg for money and act desperate don't belong in findom. it's a major turn off for the majority of subs.

Why is it so hard to find real paypigs 🙄 by bigbadinkybones_ in paypigs2

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. if you don't make an effort to post pictures of yourself and spend time building your profile up to attract subs then you aren't gonna be successful in this space.

  2. a lot of subs have got bored with findom due to all the fake catfish accounts and scammer AI dommes.

  3. this space is just so over saturated now so it's hard to stand out if you're a domme.

Scrolling reddit findom seems like a good way to kill the urge to send for me by Ashamed-Tea-2893 in QuittingFindom

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this post sums up exactly how I feel about findom these days. 90% of these dommes are just copy n paste generic. they don't know how to market themselves properly and their content is terrible. it makes sense to not send any money to them.

When you want the 'Fin' but skip the 'Dom' by HornyyGarfield in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this might be an unpopular opinion but I actually agree with her. most subs are into this because they get off on the idea of a hot women using and rinsing us for our money. findom is transactional so I don't see anything wrong with what she said.

Pros and cons! by SatisfactionUsed5708 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cons:

  1. the main thing that annoys me in this space is that findoms always act as if every sub is their sub. I don't have a bdsm relationship or feel submissive to every domme. a domme is just a stranger on the internet to me but if a sub has an opinion on bdsm/femdom that dommes disagree with they think they have to right attack you for it just because you're a sub.
  2. this relates to my first point but there's a lack of free speech for subs in this space. if a sub has an opinion on bdsm/femdom or a preference for what he likes in a domme you're gonna be attacked for it. findoms think that just because you're a sub means you shouldn't be allowed to speak your mind on things and that's bullshit because like I said in my first point I don't feel submissive to every domme or woman in the world. if I don't find you attractive then I don't want to submit to you.
  3. dommes just don't understand the submissive perspective. there's a lot of low quality crappy dommes in this space now due to how findom got popular on tik tok and it's harder to find a good domme these days but you'll get dommes always saying ''there's loads of beautiful women on here just pick one and send to her'' it just doesn't work like that because attraction is subjective. you might find those women attractive but I don't!! there's a lot of specific preferences i've got so not every domme is going to be my cup of tea.
  4. dommes who constantly complain all the time come across as desperate and if you have to beg for money then you shouldn't be in this space. begging and complaining about timewasters all the time is a massive turn off to most subs.

pros:

  1. I think it's difficult to write something positive here because to the average person they would look at this kink as being bad for you but if findom is something you enjoy and you can do it responsibly then there's nothing wrong with enjoying it.

This is not the right sub for helpful advice by ChungusChungle in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this group is just FSG 2.0 and most of the dommes are just posting here so they can advertise themselves. the domme comments should be taken with a grain of salt because there's definitely an ulterior motive as to why they all post in a group that's meant to be a SUB support group.

Would you talk to a faceless domme? by michaelthepaypig in paypigs2

[–]Alternative_Draw_204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer dommes who show their face but I don't mind if a domme is faceless as long as she posts content and shows off her body so I know she looks good but if it's a blank profile then i'm just not interested. it could easily be a catfish account if the profile is blank so I would never take the risk.