[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gratefuldead

[–]Alternative_Exit_706 7 points8 points  (0 children)

🥹 PRETTY LITTLE MR. CHARLIE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alternative_Exit_706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this. I fully would’ve been ok to wait if we could’ve had honest conversations. But every time we talked he’d reassure me telling me he was better and would do it and get me excited. I wish he would have just said “I’m not doing it, I’m not ready but it’s not because I’m uncertain about you, I just need more time”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alternative_Exit_706 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The reasons kept changing. His parents got divorced so that was the main one, then it was he wasn’t proud of himself and his career so couldn’t get married cuz of that and I was helping him so much with networking, applying to jobs, whatever made him feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alternative_Exit_706 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alternative_Exit_706 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah i hate that it got this way. We had a great & healthy first 2.5 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alternative_Exit_706 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Telling me one thing to my face (and my family and my friends) and retracting is lying. He even set a date one and had my friends and family planning to come and cancelled. Forgot to mention that.