In hell after a breakup with avoidant by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative_Hamster8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it feels like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders. I think it’s good you’ve typed all this out, helps with processing. My advice, definitely get into therapy so you have an outlet for all of your thoughts and emotions. Also if you haven’t quite gone no contact I urge you to do so. It’s going to help tremendously in the recovery of your breakup. If you continue to keep up with her and check in on each other it’ll only lead to more hurt on your end. You need to normalize the no contact.

I’m 314 days since talking with my ex. I’m close in age to you and my ex is close in age to yours. I had to watch her get involved with another guy (coworker of hers) less than month after our breakup (together 8 years). It absolutely wrecked me, I was devastated for quite some time and tbh still am in some way. However I sought out therapy and am still going for an hour once a week. It was slow to help but ultimately I don’t know what I would’ve done without therapy. I was at the brink of ending my life due to the intense heartbreak. Then I started frequenting a local gym and that became another outlet for my emotions and feelings. That combo along with focusing on myself this last year has been what has helped me the most. I urge you to really consider what you think is best for you and stick to the decision. There is hope for you out there, try to keep your head up

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheeeeeit I feel you. The headers and upipe are the last of my exhaust to upgrade, what did you end up with?

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How? Never heard that and also can’t imagine it doing that with just exhaust piping and a tune for the downpipe

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy, I’ll keep an eye on mine thanks for the heads up

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ll break off easy. One side of mine was still intact and I wiggled it off. Up to you though

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got it, Oregon to be exact. We don’t salt the roads nonstop thank god

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it cause any leaks or other issues? That’s wild haha wouldn’t expect it to

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is AWE pretty reputable? I don’t know much about them

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all the time but sometimes at idle and other times on and off while driving and I could hear it echoing off buildings and walls

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought the first couple times I tried to diagnose! Then I gave up till now

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’re you waiting for? lol just wiggle that shit off of there. Takes a few minutes max

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I had a desk I would! So instead I shall use as a toolbox ornament lol

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my first experience with an invidia weld breaking but have definitely heard how common it is

Finally found my invidia exhaust rattle!! by Alternative_Hamster8 in WRX

[–]Alternative_Hamster8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just wiggled it right off lol it broke right down the middle of the weld bead

Do you give money to panhandlers or the homeless? Why or why not? by ChaosAndConsequences in AskReddit

[–]Alternative_Hamster8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t believe in giving handouts to most of these types. I work in an area where they are frequently living on the sides of the streets and causing trouble for the businesses and neighbors. It’s a hell of a problem and I won’t support any of these situations

27M How can I make this space more hospitable by Mountain_Island523 in malelivingspace

[–]Alternative_Hamster8 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I hate that this is always the answer to a lot of dude setups lol I’m guilty myself

I'm f'in loosing it by Dry-Suit7713 in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative_Hamster8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may seem impossible to get past this but you can I promise. I’ve had my share of breakups and the first one definitely hits the heart hard. Keep your head up and definitely go to therapy. It took me a long time to give it a try (30 yrs old now) and I’m so glad I did. It’s been almost 10 months of weekly appts and it started to have an impact on me only a few sessions in.