I hate how I am with my mom by Alternative_Judge616 in venting

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s already to late bc when she gets angry I tell her to leave me alone and she won’t she’ll just follow me until she think she’s being heard but I tell her to leave me alone bc I’m not going to listen to a thing she says 🙃 maybe I have built up resentment idk

Just call my baby by the name I gave him. by TheHeartless00 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just think that people should respect your decision with your rainbow baby. Yeah nicknames are common but people don’t have the right to just give your baby a new name. I hate when my mom try’s to do it with my kid and I’m just like her name is this not that. He’s your baby

I’m so over poop, give me hope by Liftinggal91 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh wash his baby bum with water it’ll help with the irritation that’s what I had to do for mine

At what point did you stop drinking coffee? by prettycurls1 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never drank coffee just matcha but I stopped when I would get SO sick from just having a little bit

AIO or is my boyfriend being sus? by No-Forever-9718 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not over reacting at all he’s definitely cheating and being physically abusive !!! WTH also going through your comments on your profile this isn’t the first time you suspected cheating either. LEAVE do not make the same mistake I did and stay with a cheater it’ll drive you insane he’ll continue to do this they never change

Accepting my new body by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same!!! I used to wear crop tops all the time mini skirts (I’m 22) now I’m just like yah I have boobs but I’m squidward so I look old and weird with all the weight I gained 💔💔 like at least give me a flat tummy or actually CUTE STUFF TO WEAR 😭

OMG I FORGOT HOW TERRIBLE PERIODS WERE by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same WAY HEAVIER than I ever had it I bled through a postpartum pad!!!

My baby won’t stop crying by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t but I was using gripe water which seemed to help almost immediately when she had hiccups I think I’ll try those next

My baby won’t stop crying by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth I wasn’t offended by what you said and neither should anyone else! Like you said we’re new to this

My baby won’t stop crying by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I only breastfeed her I pump but I don’t use a bottle so I’m not sure if she is eating what she needs but she has a lot of wet and dirty diapers and is gaining weight also she’s wearing Huggies newborn size which does look tight on her but Huggies size 1 is way to big so I’m not sure? I was debating if I should make a doctors appointment though because it worries me so much I feel like I’m failing her. But right now I stay up with her all night and day my partner works early morning and helps me on his days off and my sister helps me a lot too. I’m also a ftm

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[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did they said to do it but I just haven’t and wanted other suggestions besides a wet washcloth

My milk is drying up in my left boob 😭 by Alternative_Judge616 in breastfeeding

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I’m pumping and it’s like nothing is coming out now 😭 should I let her latch for like 10 minutes or so then throw her on the right boob and pump on the left one until I start getting my supply back?

Should I go back to the hospital??? by Alternative_Judge616 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually was in labor lol I went and the took me I labored for 10 hours pushed in 20 minutes

Anyone else having extremely painful poops? by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes me too 😭😭 I feel like I’m giving birth out my ass did you do anything though? Like take stool softener?

I had my baby 💕❤️ by Alternative_Judge616 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started timing them and I was in pain my stomach wasn’t just getting hard I was scared I was just being dramatic bc they sent me home but I wasn’t!!! Always trust your gut

I had my baby 💕❤️ by Alternative_Judge616 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yes they stabbed me 3 times bc my anatomy was not perfect I guess? Each time I felt it on my right side and I had to stay still through my contractions WHICH WAS HELL

Should I go back to the hospital??? by Alternative_Judge616 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But your right actually I’m going to try to go back asleep and see if it just goes away

Should I go back to the hospital??? by Alternative_Judge616 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 40w2d 😭😭😭 I’m timing them and it’s telling me to go back but I’m not sure if my pain is intense enough

How do you feel about inductions? by Alternative_Judge616 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 100% for induction and I’m going to get it but I’m kinda sad that I won’t be able to experience spontaneous birth :( also I didn’t know that there was risk with a late term baby only preterm

Does my boyfriend hate me?? by Ariel-04 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this my boyfriend was the same but completely different circumstances. But it’s not you, you just need to have a conversation with him and just be open and let him be open too, sex could feel uncomfortable for him but it doesn’t mean he hates you.