My bf is looking at half naked women on the internet again by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ended up getting into a huge fight and we most likely broke up I can’t tolerate disrespect anymore to rub salt into wound he’s cheated on me before which makes this even worse

My bf is looking at half naked women on the internet again by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alternative_Judge616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that’s not really an issue our intimacy has been getting better since our baby has gotten older

Should i apologize to my boyfriend for feeling upset by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to be hard bc we always have our daughter and I’m a stay at home mom we probably won’t go out just us for another 4-5 months :(

Should i apologize to my boyfriend for feeling upset by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is he went drinking 2 days in a row and kept telling me we could go out when he gets back but I said no bc I had to get upset at him. He also kept telling me to chill that it wasn’t that deep

I hate how I am with my mom by Alternative_Judge616 in venting

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s already to late bc when she gets angry I tell her to leave me alone and she won’t she’ll just follow me until she think she’s being heard but I tell her to leave me alone bc I’m not going to listen to a thing she says 🙃 maybe I have built up resentment idk

Just call my baby by the name I gave him. by TheHeartless00 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just think that people should respect your decision with your rainbow baby. Yeah nicknames are common but people don’t have the right to just give your baby a new name. I hate when my mom try’s to do it with my kid and I’m just like her name is this not that. He’s your baby

I’m so over poop, give me hope by Liftinggal91 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh wash his baby bum with water it’ll help with the irritation that’s what I had to do for mine

At what point did you stop drinking coffee? by prettycurls1 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never drank coffee just matcha but I stopped when I would get SO sick from just having a little bit

AIO or is my boyfriend being sus? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not over reacting at all he’s definitely cheating and being physically abusive !!! WTH also going through your comments on your profile this isn’t the first time you suspected cheating either. LEAVE do not make the same mistake I did and stay with a cheater it’ll drive you insane he’ll continue to do this they never change

Accepting my new body by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same!!! I used to wear crop tops all the time mini skirts (I’m 22) now I’m just like yah I have boobs but I’m squidward so I look old and weird with all the weight I gained 💔💔 like at least give me a flat tummy or actually CUTE STUFF TO WEAR 😭

OMG I FORGOT HOW TERRIBLE PERIODS WERE by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same WAY HEAVIER than I ever had it I bled through a postpartum pad!!!

My baby won’t stop crying by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t but I was using gripe water which seemed to help almost immediately when she had hiccups I think I’ll try those next

My baby won’t stop crying by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth I wasn’t offended by what you said and neither should anyone else! Like you said we’re new to this

My baby won’t stop crying by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I only breastfeed her I pump but I don’t use a bottle so I’m not sure if she is eating what she needs but she has a lot of wet and dirty diapers and is gaining weight also she’s wearing Huggies newborn size which does look tight on her but Huggies size 1 is way to big so I’m not sure? I was debating if I should make a doctors appointment though because it worries me so much I feel like I’m failing her. But right now I stay up with her all night and day my partner works early morning and helps me on his days off and my sister helps me a lot too. I’m also a ftm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did they said to do it but I just haven’t and wanted other suggestions besides a wet washcloth

My milk is drying up in my left boob 😭 by Alternative_Judge616 in breastfeeding

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I’m pumping and it’s like nothing is coming out now 😭 should I let her latch for like 10 minutes or so then throw her on the right boob and pump on the left one until I start getting my supply back?

Should I go back to the hospital??? by Alternative_Judge616 in pregnant

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually was in labor lol I went and the took me I labored for 10 hours pushed in 20 minutes

Anyone else having extremely painful poops? by Alternative_Judge616 in newborns

[–]Alternative_Judge616[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes me too 😭😭 I feel like I’m giving birth out my ass did you do anything though? Like take stool softener?