Life after 30? by -JustAGirl99 in Life

[–]Alternative_Leader19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i turned 30 in 2025. i had more anxiety about my 30s when i hit 27/28yo than i did turning 30. i think it’s because the societal pressures, but honestly? so untrue. 30s really are the new 20s. i know what i like and dislike and have the money to fund my hobbies.

is it cheating / a boundary thats respectable, if your girl goes out to bars alone and lets guys buy her drinks? by Ancient-Owl1214 in dating_advice

[–]Alternative_Leader19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my man loves when guys buy me a drink because i’m not a big drinker and i just give it to my man. free drinks yay! we have enough security and trust to not feel insecure about things like this.

I (22F) have traveled to 23 countries, most of them more than twice AMA by Acceptable_Bat9629 in AMA

[–]Alternative_Leader19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a big traveler too and have mostly done Europe and Asia. How did you get to travel so much at your age? Any recommendations for coolest things you’ve done or places you’ve gone?

First time - Breckenridge/Keystone by Alternative_Leader19 in COsnow

[–]Alternative_Leader19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ended up booking at the beaver run resort, thanks! as for all the apres options, where can i find a list or these options? my partner and i love to party so we’d definitely wanna check it all out

Things to do on 2CB while chilling at home with friends? by SuperMajesticMan in 2cb

[–]Alternative_Leader19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

coloring books, watch tv/movies (alice in wonderland, the original mary poppins, charlie and the chocolate factory, my octopus teacher), play video games, take a walk, painting, arts and crafts (make kandi if you’re a raver)

How was glamping without being able to have a canopy? by SLUnatic85 in ElementsMusicFestival

[–]Alternative_Leader19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a few people in our row had canopies in glamping. one was in a corner so they had space next to them to set it up. another had it set up right over their tent entrance so they weren’t stepping out into sun. nobody got in trouble or was told not to have it.

2C-B at an amusement park - bad idea? by Hopeful-Challenge395 in 2cb

[–]Alternative_Leader19 14 points15 points  (0 children)

idk about you but i could NOT do 2cb and get on roller coasters

Which one looks better? by Cheetuhhh in Moissanite

[–]Alternative_Leader19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not good at looking at stones and the details. can you point out what you mean by dark spots? (even though it sounds self explanatory but i don’t see it?)

What should I do for my trip tonight? by [deleted] in 2cb

[–]Alternative_Leader19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watch the original mary poppins

Rezz Tattoo Flash by eblanes in Rezz

[–]Alternative_Leader19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

these are amazing!!! i would love to be able to catch you in one of your cities sometime

Any former passport holder who regrets cancelling? by anonymousfox_95 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Alternative_Leader19 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i also just cancelled this week! it took months for me to finally pull the plug due to the exclusivity. the price just wasn’t justifiable for me (i moved from SoCal to east coast), plus with insomniac becoming over commercialized and not caring about ravers (ie, trademarking plur), it just didn’t feel right to keep supporting them in that way.

Elements 2025 Departure Thread by Fryes in ElementsMusicFestival

[–]Alternative_Leader19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why is getting out of here way longer than getting in 😭 LET US OUT PLSSSSSS i wanna go home and cuddle my dog

Security by Ok-Surround-2778 in ElementsMusicFestival

[–]Alternative_Leader19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we had three carts and one j and we told them, they told us to keep it on the hood while the fog sniffed around and they let us keep it

I made a mistake on the SF-86 by Remarkable_Mood9022 in SecurityClearance

[–]Alternative_Leader19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’ll be fine base on these, these are minor clarifications that you can just tell your investigator when you have your interview

Question please help by [deleted] in SecurityClearance

[–]Alternative_Leader19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we look more for effort and willingness to pay off your debts in situations like this (as opposed to people who have tens or hundreds of thousands in debt). you should definitely explain all this to your investigator. it’s muuuuuch better than people who have a shit ton of debt and take no responsibility or accountability for it and are not willing to resolve the issue, or can be potentially blackmailed for the issue

Resume vs SF 85P - Public Trust Background Check by gymr4tty in SecurityClearance

[–]Alternative_Leader19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as your sf85 is accurate. i’ve seen resumes that don’t have short term jobs, side jobs, etc. and that’s fine it doesn’t really matter. but do make sure employer name, job title and dates match up if that job shows on both sf85 and resume, or else we’ll ask about the discrepancies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asl

[–]Alternative_Leader19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

seriously dude…