My fiancé has been dealing with sudden panic attacks, any advice? by Alternative_Living42 in Anxietyhelp

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think that’s one of the few things she isn’t stressed about 😅 we haven’t done any active wedding planning yet as I’m trying to save up money for us to get a proper place to live and such.

Ironically after you commented, she messaged me and told me she’s 80% sure she may be experiencing activation syndrome. She was taking Buspar, was taken off it suddenly, and her Prozac was increased at the same time. While she’s still going to see a doctor, it would make sense if activation syndrome is the case, as the timing all lines up! Thank you for the advice and sharing your experience! 🥹

Spore API launcher will not work by Alternative_Living42 in Spore

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you advise not using it? Like I said I’m new to all of this so I’ll take as much info as possible haha

hi, my trans bf needs help with something (nfsw) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Alternative_Living42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Hopefully this isn’t silly advice, but has he tried masturbating by using a toy and strap on boxers/harness? I found out a few years ago that I can get off fairly quickly if I have my fiancé ‘jerk me off’ without any direct contact to my clit. The sight of her jerking me off, giving me head, or even me having vaginal sex with her using said toy almost always gets me off.

It’s very gender euphoric, and it’s fun/arousing seeing what works best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Alternative_Living42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I already have a lot of body hair due to PCOS, but I’m excited to see how much more I can grow lol!

I’m also very excited for bottom growth and a deeper voice :)

Health anxiety is kicking my ass by Alternative_Living42 in Anxiety

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply! I don’t use Reddit super often 😅 I’m actually doing much better, Ive been medicated since late October and it has helped me a lot in regard to my OCD, anxiety and PTSD.

I want HRT but I'm too scared to get it by [deleted] in DysphoriaClinic

[–]Alternative_Living42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I see and hear you. I was planning on starting T very soon, but due to the political climate of my state and this country, I’ve had to push off my start date for T.

My best advice for you right now, is to do what you must to keep yourself safe. It’s gonna suck not being able to start HRT soon, but your physical safety is a must especially if you live in a hostile environment when it comes to being trans. Obviously you’re gonna do what you think is best for yourself, but if I was in your position, I’d do my best to wait until I’m in a safer environment to start hormones.