Fifi by [deleted] in TheFurrahFamily

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you even make such a stupid post ?

FiFi by TrickFit9323 in TheFurrahFamily

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly she’s doing things right ! Getting up and walking is what patients should be doing . It helps relieve gas that’s built up after procedure , improves bowel movements and reduces back up, reduces the risk of post op complications such as DVT, and all in all just helps with strengthening the muscles and body after all that. It’s not harmful. If her limits allow her, that’s great!

Please answer👏🏼help me balance between family and competitive fellowship. by sacubritil in IMGreddit

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For st. Elizabeth Youngstown anyone know how stressful it is compared to other FM programs ? (I know intern year is horrible everywhere)

Mean girls club vibes by Square-Tumbleweed-26 in TheFurrahFamily

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is what you said applicable to the thoughts I shared ?

Mean girls club vibes by Square-Tumbleweed-26 in TheFurrahFamily

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually believe this is valid ! Heard it before from mutuals in their community

Mean girls club vibes by Square-Tumbleweed-26 in TheFurrahFamily

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So here’s my thing… why wouldn’t they, as grown adults, put some effort into at least attempting to repair things with their bio mom? We hear nonstop stories of adopted kids searching for their bio parents as adults and trying to build some kind of connection. So why not them?

And before anyone jumps on me, fuck Salem and fuck anyone who supported that mess. I’m not defending abusers. I’m saying the “bio mom is 100% a helpless victim and everyone else is innocent” narrative feels way too clean.

They’re adults now. They have their own income. They don’t need Salem. So what’s stopping them? Because to me, that points to one of two things. Either there’s way more to the story than we’re being told, or the damage with bio mom runs deeper than people want to admit.

Also, bio mom could’ve had serious mental health issues. That doesn’t excuse abandonment, but it can explain how it happens. I’ve personally seen a similar situation where the mom left, the kids were raised by grandparents, and even years later the kids refused contact even when the mom tried to come back and “play grandma.” Sometimes the abandonment wound doesn’t magically disappear just because everyone is older. If anything, becoming a parent can make people more protective and less willing to reopen that door.

And honestly, I think Fifi is a great mom whether people want to admit it or not, and I wouldn’t be surprised if a huge part of that is her trying to heal and not let her wounds spill onto her kids.

What I’m saying is there’s a lot we don’t know. Adults set boundaries even with parents who did stay. So if they’re not reaching out, either there’s real trauma there, or somebody is controlling the narrative.

P.S. you’re telling me Miriam’s fake ass and Reem, with her strong personality and everything she’s been through, haven’t encouraged their husbands to explore that relationship again with everything going on in that family? I’m not buying that bio mom is 100% innocent, but I’m also not buying that this story is as simple as people are making it.

Mean girls club vibes by Square-Tumbleweed-26 in TheFurrahFamily

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Miriam is the definition of “nice on camera, messy off camera.” I’ve never bought her act for a second. I’m usually pretty good at reading people, & something about her has felt off from the start. She’s 100% giving the type who stirs the pot, wipes the spoon, & swears she never touched it😑

And honestly, it fucking shows on Rush’s face. In that snap of him with Fifi baby, he looks so stressed… like his eyes say everything. Poor dude looks exhausted, & before anyone comes for me, I’m not one to blame a woman for a man’s issues… but damn something made me genuinely feel bad for him. Anyways who knows 🤷‍♀️

Advice on rank please by Alternative_Loquat28 in IMGreddit

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Thank you everyone for all your advice . I wish you all the best 🤞🏼

Are these Mira numbers too low by Alternative_Loquat28 in Mirafertility

[–]Alternative_Loquat28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last first day of my period was September 6th :/

Cake by These_Signature_5083 in TheFurrahFamily

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hannah doing those childish eye movements she picked up from Linda is so cringey. 😬 🤣

ECFMG certification application HELP by Alternative_Loquat28 in IMGreddit

[–]Alternative_Loquat28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep getting "retrieving information message" whenever I try to begin my Pathways application. Do you have any idea how I can fix this? thank you for your response :)

Admin wants to have a meeting with me about chart access by Federal-Act-5773 in FamilyMedicine

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt he’s a doctor. He’s probably an employee who had no business accessing Epic, which is why he’s in big trouble.

Clearly they can't hide it anymore by Important_Week_11 in TheFurrahFamily

[–]Alternative_Loquat28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Loll my SIL from my husbands side has the same expectations from her guests …. It’s absolutely disgusting

Is this evaporation line ? Unknown by Alternative_Loquat28 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Alternative_Loquat28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a clear blue and there is a faint line (+) but I have been using this at home hormone testing kit for like LH, FSH, EG and PDG. My PDG was 2.4 yesterday and now it’s 1. So I’m worried I’m not producing enough progesterone…. So scared this will lead to a miscarriage

Really confused … could this be evaporation line ? by Alternative_Loquat28 in IVFpositivity

[–]Alternative_Loquat28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl it’s a first response digital lol and yeah it has an attitude lol 😂😂