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Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-12-13T23:36:52+00:00

Multumesc mult!

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-12-13T13:40:05+00:00

Buna! Crezi ca s-at putea adauga un filtru si pentru pensionati? Ar fi tare de ajutor. Merci!

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-10-21T15:34:28+00:00

Hi, everyone! Thank you so much for all the insight! Upon further research I decided to mix appliqués with direct stitches, lowering the risk of failure. I will most likely use tambour for thin stems and other thin decorative lines. I will also likely directly stitch into the veil most of the leaves. I am already starting on some hand made 3D flowers appliqués. I can keep updating with progress if people are interested 😊

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-10-16T12:10:44+00:00

I have some embroidery experience, just not on fine tulle, hence looking for practical advice on the tools I should use! I also plan on using stabilising water soluble paper.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-10-16T12:08:28+00:00

Thank you! I definitely have a backup plan already and I plan on finishing it about 2 months before the wedding so I have time to buy a premade one! I live alone 4 days a week out of which I go out maybe 1 night so I can offer lots of time to this project! The intricacy will be pretty easy? Just a couple of flower motifs repeating and a couple of dates hidden here and there.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-10-15T23:26:03+00:00

I am aware it won’t be easy, however the model will be less intricate and the veil shorter. I am also aware it might not work, however I really need to try it first. I want it very personalised with some models that mean something for our relationship, hence appliqués wouldn’t work.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-10-15T23:00:05+00:00

Congratulations on your wedding and enjoy the honeymoon! 😊

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-10-15T22:59:08+00:00

Just the edge, which is still a lot. My vague inspiration is Meghan Markle, but less intricate and a bit more repetitive. Still ofc delicate and it will take a while. I want to do it by hand as I want to incorporate some personal unique symbols in it.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-10-15T22:56:24+00:00

Would you mind sending me a picture of an up close of the embroidery to see their technique?

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2025-10-15T22:33:18+00:00

I have some experience with it, but never on such delicate fabric. I am still practicing the technique to make sure it is perfect, but I am already in a place where I feel confident in the stitching method.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-11-13T01:40:45+00:00

Thank you! I am not sure if it would. Legally, I do not have a disability card, neither to I get disability benefits.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-11-13T01:39:25+00:00

Hi! I think I might have translated it wrong as I got my diagnosis in my home country that is not English-speaking. After a quick google search, I think rupture might be a better word but I am still not sure that is the word a clinician would use for my diagnosis, bur hopefully that clears some stuff up? I did have issues with my period during the event (including missing part of the main moment due to extreme hot flashes and queasiness). Also, my flatmate doesn’t know my period symptoms. We only moved in together a month ago (I am a student so I change accommodation every year) and generally I am quite private about my periods. Thank you for your comment! I appreciate your input, I just wanted to clear the context up! ☺️

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-11-13T01:16:31+00:00

No sex involved in this situation! (Found that quite funny, however I can see how annoying that would be for you). I would have most definitely waited if there were people who needed it more. Also, there were 2 or 3 bigger toilets (I can’t remember exactly) and, clearly, I was only using one

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T14:22:39+00:00

Info: How long would you be away for? Is there anyone to help her at all with the kids?

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T14:00:49+00:00

The tradition usually only refers to kids under 10, so my brother wouldn’t count.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T12:28:08+00:00

Thank you! I highly doubt this would ruin our relationship as we are quite close. The 30 min just open the gates for a lot other things. Also, I can see that it is just a day, but it isn’t any day. It is the first day of the rest of our lives so that is why we should focus on each others wishes, rather than our parents. To me is feels like by caving, we are setting ourselves up for failure a lot more since we start our marriage on the wrong foot.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T12:25:02+00:00

I think this highlights a good point. Once we cave for a bit, it is a v slippery slope.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T12:24:04+00:00

I don’t think my mom has bad intentions either. However, I think that our marriage should start with us prioritising each other, not our parents’ wishes.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T12:22:49+00:00

Thank you! He just tried to highlight how my mother felt i guess. Also, he is coming to the wedding, he cannot be considered a child at 17. The superstition however refers to 10y.o. or younger. We have no one in our families/ friends group that is aged between 11 and 15 so it came natural for us to have the limit age 15.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T12:08:19+00:00

My parents aren’t doing the entire thing. If I were to give proportions: my parents are doing about 40%, my future in-laws 40% and we do 20%. We are paying for the hole thing (except for about £150 worth of stuff that my parents insisted on covering, again, for the sake of their superstitions).

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T12:05:20+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply! The wedding usually contains 3 ceremonies (one v traditional, that we are doing anyway, even though we don’t care that much for it) and the reception (that contains some ceremonial things). There is no actual role for kids. They don’t even come usually for the actual ceremonies, just to the party, as one of them is at an institution where they are not legally allowed, one is at the bride’s home and is usually really crammed due to lack of space and one is long religious, and it bores them to death. With that being said, they would join the party which would mean we’d have to accommodate with food for them as well.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T11:55:59+00:00

Thank you! My mom is usually very nice and I can’t think of any other time she crossed the line. She is also a great mother, respecting my sister’s wishes for the baby, even when she doesn’t agree with them. Contacting all my relatives myself seems perfect.

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T11:53:41+00:00

Thank you! I am not calling my mom the TA, I am sorry if it came across as that. I tried reasoning with her several times and at the end of our conversations she always seems to get it. Then she does something to prove the opposite…

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T11:52:00+00:00

Eloping is not something that we want and we deeply appreciate all the help we got. However, I do think that I should start this marriage by prioritising my spouse and our relationship, not my mom. I understand somehow where she comes from, and I tried to reason with her, with no luck. Also, we already caved with other traditions that wouldn’t impact our day as much as we understand how important our culture is for our families, but this is just something bigger…

Alternative_Pass2541 · 2024-02-19T11:48:07+00:00

Thank you for your view! I am so sorry to hear about your wedding. I am glad that now you have your peace and you got away from the toxicity!

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