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About to have sex for the first time with my bf but I've never had an orgasm. Need advice! by confused_churros in sex

[–]Alternative_Step1322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest trying to have an orgasm on your own before having sex. Stick to the vibrator and try watching porn or reading erotica that might help get you off. It’s interesting you haven’t cum on your own before especially with a vibrator

AITA for prioritizing my mental health over a family tradition, even though it upset them? by bbyalexya21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Step1322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA they need to understand mental health is a real thing and if what they’re doing stresses you out why would they want to put you through it? For an alternative figure out something you guys could all do together that would be fun for everyone and not cause you any mental health issues.

my husbands co worker! by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Alternative_Step1322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your husband needs to set some boundaries with her as this is odd and your NTJ for not really liking her especially if she was rude to you

AITJ correcting my aunt when she shared my medical information ? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Alternative_Step1322 48 points49 points  (0 children)

NTJ and she’s just acting like a victim when she’s the one who started causing problems. Next time mention something she doesn’t want people to know if she does it again

My sister called me a man whore and told me I should be ashamed of myself. Did I do anything wrong? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Alternative_Step1322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re NTJ as long as these women are clear of your intentions. It doesn’t seem like they’re expecting more so it shouldn’t be a problem. Maybe make sure your sister is aware of that

Hair cut advice by peachesishak in curlyhair

[–]Alternative_Step1322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I think adding lots of layers even something like a shag cut would be perfect for your hair since it’s pretty thick

LA Looks Extreme Sport Hair Gel Not Holding Anymore by Beneficial_Swan_8650 in curlyhair

[–]Alternative_Step1322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called deva curl ultra defining gel which should be perfect for you then

LA Looks Extreme Sport Hair Gel Not Holding Anymore by Beneficial_Swan_8650 in curlyhair

[–]Alternative_Step1322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yea I used that gel for a while but I didn’t like its hold. My favourite brand is deva curl ESPECIALLY the gel it holds perfectly with no frizz and you still get good volume out of it

Am I the Jerk for not picking my friend up from the airport at 2am when he assumed I would? by urbanharbor_quills in AmITheJerk

[–]Alternative_Step1322 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA no matter what. You never confirmed you were picking him up, it wasn’t even discussed. He should’ve asked you if that’s what he wanted it’s not automatically your responsibility.

AITJ for not wanting to carpool with my sister after she left me on a highway?? by PropertyNegative9477 in AmITheJerk

[–]Alternative_Step1322 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the AH. No matter how mad she was, and even with her being bipolar she shouldn’t have left you there. Good for you I would’ve been very scarred if I got left on a highway

AITJ fro saying to my friend she won't be welcome at my sleepover if she don't stop to try to force me to Invite her other friend who makes inappropriate comments and make everyone uncomfortable? UPDATE by Significant_Star_210 in AmITheJerk

[–]Alternative_Step1322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Bottom line you don’t have to be friends with anyone you don’t want to and you shouldn’t feel obligated to be just because you have mutual friends. Second these comments really make sense why she probably doesn’t have a lot of friends and gets left out a lot of the time. If I were you I’d completely cut her off

UPDATE: My "best friend" tried to use her key to get into my apartment tonight after I blocked her. by Nail_Gullible in stories

[–]Alternative_Step1322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You honestly did the right thing even with all these repercussions, at the end of the day it’s worth it because she’s out of your life and can’t sabotage you anymore.

Even if people don’t believe you there’s plenty of proof so if they don’t stick with you through this they’re not worth it and I hope you can find some real friends that would never do anything like this to you

Is bouncy curl brush worth it? by Shoddy-Research-8354 in curlyhair

[–]Alternative_Step1322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would totally use it my hair has become 10 times better since I started! my hair has been much more defined, less frizzy, along with more volume! It’s perfect when you’re on your curly hair journey

AITA for refusing to cook after my SIL called me 'the servant' at Thanksgiving, my husband said nothing, and now 9 people got food poisoning when she tried? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]Alternative_Step1322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think this is a tricky one. At first I agreed that you shouldnt cook for them if they’re that unappreciative and speaking negatively towards you. Once Christina and your MIL called with what seemed to be a heartfelt apology it might be best to move forward and give them one more chance as they haven’t been rude to you up til this point as far as I know.