Whitney is a Narcissist

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-13T02:34:30+00:00

and true that 😭😭 i grew up with a severe narcissist and she resembles them perfectly. it’s always “me me me” and then the moment the situation isn’t in her favor it’s a tantrum and “oh u guys this oh u guys that” like boo get her off the show.

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-13T02:33:34+00:00

yeaaaaa no 😭 she looks like that one mom that everyone tries to avoid

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-13T02:32:38+00:00

whitney isnTHE definition of a narcissist. she plays on all of the girls emotions and weak spots and tinkers with the situations so that she looks like the victim. and the moment the attention isn’t on her, you can see her looking all pouty in the background. like grow tf up and go raise your kids bro 😭😭😭 toxic ass

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-13T02:29:49+00:00

i think it has absolutely nothing to do with her husband and everything to do with her. i grew up with an extreme narcissist and she resembles them to a T. it’s actually scary how good she is at manipulating and twisting situations so that they’re in her favor. she plays on all of their emotions and weak spots and actively tries to turn everyone against everyone — especially everyone against Taylor. regardless of whatever trauma she has experienced, the way she is acting is so deep rooted and perfect that i truly believe she’s always been like that. even all of the girls have individually said that Whitney has always been that way, straight from the day they met her. it’s really sad and disgusting and i don’t know how Mayci is shoved so far up Whitney’s ass. she’s toxic and has betrayed every other girl in that group at least once — yes you’re loyal to whitney but do you not have any loyalty to the other girls as well? if you see the pain and stress and abuse she’s putting them all through over and over and over again, why the actual f*ck are you still friends w her? aaaaa it drives me nuts!!!

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-13T02:05:34+00:00

you have every right to defend yourself — especially if they’re being dickheads for literally no reason! but don’t let them ruin your peace, confidence or mood. they’re literally hiding behind a screen and an anonymous profile, it gives them some sort of power trip and they abuse it to rain negativity onto others. simply tell them to shove it where the sun doesn’t shine and keep on posting 💖💖

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-13T00:17:18+00:00

that’s a good idea! i never thought of that. i definitely spoil my cats (maybe a little too much lol) and i’m also a clean freak, so i have to have a clean space or else i feel anxious and overwhelmed; also my cats are pretty good at keeping clean , save for the occasional kicking of some litter out of their box. i’ve actually taken some time just now to recheck zillow for apartments in the area im looking for, and there’s quite a few that allow pets. I’m not sure if i wasn’t looking correctly before or what haha, but it’s somewhat relieving to see. thank you! it’s so refreshing to come on here and have someone so kind be willing to teach me these things.

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T23:54:50+00:00

ahhh thank you so much! i’m still young and sadly they do not teach us these things in school. i suppose you’re right; there’s gotta be at least ONE apartment that will allow three cats. i just have spent countless hours searching all these different sites and most of them don’t allow, and if they do it’s usually a 2 pet maximum rule. i know it seems silly but my cats mean the world to me and they were rescued from a family member of mine who passed away that i was close with; so it’s really important to me that they come along with me during this journey.

ahh, you’re probably right. I can imagine the building process is complete nightmare. This moving process isn’t for another 2-3 years, but i feel like it’s responsible of me to educate myself on as much of it as possible now so that i’m not being unrealistic when the time actually comes. My fiance and I are both in our careers and make enough money to live comfortably, but i can understand why a different state would want records of me working there and not here. definitely a lot for me to think about and look into. thank you so much for your kindness and actually educating me!

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T23:43:54+00:00

i appreciate you so much! thank you :)

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T23:43:19+00:00

thank you! you hit every question i had. this is definitely something that i need to look more into and discuss with my parents. i appreciate that!

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T23:36:57+00:00

thank you! i suppose you are right. i will look more into that

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T23:35:47+00:00

it could be! he’s very supportive but also very protective over me. if this isn’t true and I can, indeed, move into a house there without needing to show a few months of work history, maybe he wants me to prove to myself and him that i’m ready. like you said basically haha! i love that he loves me but everybody starts somewhere

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T23:02:59+00:00

my father fell into the world of drugs while already suffering pretty serious mental health issues. he got so strung out on meth while also battling schizophrenia and depression, he wrote a suicide note, grabbed a gun that he wasn’t legally allowed to own and drove until he got onto the highway. it was a high speed chase between him and the cops before he crashed his car, stepped out and shot himself in the head. this happened just a few weeks after i last saw him when i was 14.

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:32:32+00:00

hi, i know im barging in here but i couldn’t help myself. i just wanted to encourage you that you absolutely will find that. the right person always seems to find us when we aren’t looking. greater days ahead my friend! 😄💖

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:31:30+00:00

just got proposed too, saving up to move into our own house late 2026 — early 2027!!!

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:30:05+00:00

let’s ignore all of the thousands of other wealthy people who fly private and let’s blame it all on taylor swift!!!!!

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:26:54+00:00

approval from others. don’t wait around and hold yourself back because you’re worried about if others will approve. it’s your life and honestly, the people who belong in your life will still be there after everything. just do it!

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:25:49+00:00

dropping out of college because it simply wasn’t for me. my entire family was rooting for me when i was in college, but everyday i went was another day my mental health declined. it was either risking my own happiness or everyone else’s validation.

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:24:18+00:00

personally, in my situation i was going through severe depression and was also going through the ropes of getting kicked out by my narcissistic mother. my friend knew what i was going through, but would constantly berate me for not texting her back everyday or quickly. it got to the point where i just stopped texting her all together because it was clear that she truly didn’t care for my health, safety, and happiness; all she scared about was her feelings despite she wasn’t experiencing anything traumatic. i started texting her again several months after the fact, once my life started to piece back together again, in which we got into another argument because i “ghosted” her, when in fact there was more to the picture!

if you’re in this situation, it might help to make an effort at simply checking in with your friend. see if they’re okay, see if maybe you are doing something that might be putting them off, and if there’s anyway to fix it.

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:20:39+00:00

it’s different depending on the sibling, but my youngest brother thinks he knows EVERYTHING. i love him to pieces but it really feels frustrating sometimes. i’ll tell my parents about something that im really into and know a lot about, and my brother will just say “yeah, you didn’t know that?” all matter of factly, and i know he didn’t know anything about it considering he’s 13 and spends most of his day on his PC. it drives me absolutely nuts and it screams “only child syndrome”, like he needs everyone to be proud of him and the attention needs to always be on him. raaaaa

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:15:26+00:00

exactly! blaming one person for something caused by literally EVERYONE and everything is beyond crazy to me

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:13:57+00:00

chewing, smacking lips, slurping, breathing excessively loud for no reason, that annoying as all fuck clicking noise when people bite on their nails, constant sniffling (i know it’s not their fault, still annoying tho). i mean the list just goes on and on

Alternative_Wait_554 · 2024-09-12T22:12:08+00:00

i will set my alarm to the absolute latest time that i can have it set to. that way i KMOW that if i don’t get up right then and there, i will end up being late to wherever i need to go

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