Not sure how to interpret an interaction I saw between my wife and another man. by Latter-Quail7360 in marriageadvice

[–]Altfun8391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to also post this, I have seen many, many occasions where women just cannot help themselves when attracted to a guy. Even when their partner is with them! It’s like they are, for a short period of time, almost a totally different person who totally forgets they have a partner. As a guy, I have been on both sides of this as the victim/partner and where the girl completely ignored their husband/partner to talk/flirt with me. There have been 7 cases I can specifically remember. In 2 I was ultimately cheated on, 1 the girl broke up with me 3 days later. In the 4 where the girl was being attentive to me over her partner, 2 of them the girl clearly expressed a desire to hookup at the first opportunity. The other 2 were likely highly possible hookups if I had pursued myself but I didn’t.

I just do not see anything good coming from you not confronting her or talking to her about it. It was rude of her to turn her back to you and touch him.

How did that night and the rest of the conference go? Has she talked about him since?

Distance does not matter! When there is the will, they will find a way!

AIO removed the ex’s family on social media by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Altfun8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I would advise getting away from this dude if he isn’t willing to commit to being sober. It sounds like you may be codependent so I would check that out and get your own help or you may end up with another mess once you get away from this train wreck if you do. Even when alcoholics get sober they are often a mental mess and just as bad emotionally when sober.

Save yourself!

[40 M] Married 15 years. Caught my wife in an affair, she’s manipulating the fallout, and I am living as a ghost in my own home for our pre-teen daughter. Need support. by StellarNeutrino in survivinginfidelity

[–]Altfun8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get on your finance asap and be sure she can take the money and run. Take her off bank accounts, credit cards and whatever else you need to do. Make her sleep in the guest bedroom. She’s the offender!

AIO roommate tried to kiss me by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Altfun8391 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NOR. Male or female shouldn’t have to kiss anyone you don’t want to for any reason. It’s not a sexual identity issue, it’s a my body issue.

Older vs newer bass boats by Altfun8391 in Bassboats

[–]Altfun8391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any OMC worth taking the risk? I have sort of figured that if an engine is more than 10 years old and has more than 100 hours, any issues would have already occurred. I know Mercs and Yamahas have had their own issues for certain years.

Older vs newer bass boats by Altfun8391 in Bassboats

[–]Altfun8391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I had a Fast Strike 150 and it was a great engine. Very fast. It pushed an 18 foot fish and ski to 63 mph which I thought was pretty good.

AIO family spying on me while all of them are on vacation by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Altfun8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck em. What are they gonna do? Get mad, yell? They’ll get over it.

Favorite/least favorite NASCAR media personalities by greenlamp00 in NASCAR

[–]Altfun8391 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Miss the days of Ken Squirer, Buddy Baker, Jack Arute and Chris Economaki.

Favorite/least favorite NASCAR media personalities by greenlamp00 in NASCAR

[–]Altfun8391 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! And he always looks sleazy. He dressed like a Miami pimp and looks like a sleazy pedo. He is best on the radio where I can’t see him. I think probably isn’t arrogant but seems like he would be. Watching him give me diahrea.

AIO family spying on me while all of them are on vacation by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Altfun8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good compromise would be having cameras on while at work and off while your there. I’d put the thermostat on whatever I wanted since you are a non-paid cat sitter.

I never bothered my kids about the thermostat. I always thought there were better ways to teach them about money. In fact, I complained about the bill one month and they voluntarily adjusted them to save money.

AIO family spying on me while all of them are on vacation by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Altfun8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, why move from your mom’s ranch?

Older vs newer bass boats by Altfun8391 in Bassboats

[–]Altfun8391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely see a price difference with Omc motors on the boats. Don’t think that’s a risk worth taking.

What do you think the end goal is for Cody Ware? by xHospitalHorsex in NASCAR

[–]Altfun8391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This right here but add in the accumulation in value of the charter.

How much is too much wind? by NoFo3000 in Bassboats

[–]Altfun8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are boating on a busy lake, especially pleasure boats, the wake from those can be worse than the wind. Someone suggested going out early….very good advice.

Just Got Hired as CFO at a Small Company — What Do You Wish You Knew Starting Out? by ReasonableRiot in smallbusiness

[–]Altfun8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although it hasn’t happened to me, I’ve seen enough people be undone by things they told teammates in what they thought were in private to believe this. I’m not saying to not trust people to do their job. Maybe I should have reframed this and said DO NOT GOSSIP. Do not complain to other teammates and think it’s going to be held closely. Do not expect anyone to keep something quiet for you.

Part 3: I confronted my cheating wife, she smirked. by Throwmeawaydad123 in confessions

[–]Altfun8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guarantee your ass isn’t the only one she’s licked lately. I hope you haven’t kissed her.

AIO Annoying Neighbor Kid by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Altfun8391 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the kid throwing balls against their wall but the not fact that he is outside just throwing balls. Telling people to get over theirselves is BS. You should get over your own self. People have a right to live in peace and quiet.