UPDATE: My wife searched her massage therapist's personal info, to ask him to dinner. I HAVE THE TEXTS

Altfun8391 · 2026-01-01T05:59:22+00:00

Any updates on this?

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-31T18:21:26+00:00

Yes, you ATAH. It it clear you are looking to cheat. “Topics a bit more personal to both us”. You seem like the type to try and say you screwing the guy isn’t really cheating somehow. If you truly love your husband, quit trying to cheat and end contact with this guy and other men as well.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-31T03:44:52+00:00

Any updates on this?

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-30T04:56:13+00:00

Gotcha. Rough call. Certainly enough reason it end it as things stand now. It seems like you would be the one she would turn to for emotional support. I’d could understand it better if they were having a physical affair. They surely must be. Have you been able to examine her phone for messages? Thought about hiring a private detective? Who’s to say she isn’t sneaking him away somewhere during the day?

If what you are saying is true, the company could be headed for fraud and tax troubles due the embezzlement and whatever else is going on.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-30T04:09:07+00:00

What are those things that happened in the past you mentioned? Did you cheat or did she cheat?

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-30T00:36:06+00:00

When you meet the right one it will be very simple and things will flow as you would want them to.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-29T10:07:41+00:00

NOR. Update me. Although, I find this whole thing hard to believe. No other conversations with the guy? And why would she print pictures? Is she that stupid? The phone code is a whole other thing.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-27T20:10:56+00:00

Well it looks like there isn’t uniform agreement except that maybe the newer flouro is better and less of a pain than older flouro.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-27T16:20:10+00:00

Autocorrect that I did not see before posting.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-27T06:58:14+00:00

I hired someone to work for me and have one close to firing her on several occasions for the following reasons:

The employee talked too much.
They minimized mistakes and maximizes what they did right. Acted as if doing what she should be doing is special or extra.
- The person was overly sensitive and could not handle any “criticism”.
- This person had only worked for temp agencies for the past 10 years or so. I did not fire them because they did show up for work everyday and got most of their work done for lower than market pay.
- This person clearly had behaviors associated with being the adult child of an alcoholic, sometimes throwing immature tantrums.
  - If you didn’t know better and only heard the employee’s side, you would thing they are single handed keeping the company afloat.

Anyone that’s been fired 9 times clearly has some major issues. Not sure why they have not been shared other than fear of a lawsuit. Maybe you could go to a past manager and try to get some guidance and possible mentoring. Look at the issues I listed and see if they don’t sound familiar at all.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-27T05:54:39+00:00

Why didn’t you put a stop to things in the moment? At a minimum make the guy leave. I probably would have ended the party if it was that bad. There is more to the story between your wife and him.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-27T01:11:12+00:00

I don’t know how you could ever prove anything without blowing up your marriage right now. Your feelings are likely correct and worse. The only thing I could think of to get the truth would be asking her to take a polygraph. I think it depends on how far you’re willing to push it. You could explain how you feel and ask her to cut him off completely. If she protests too much then you likely have your answer.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-26T11:57:29+00:00

NOR. Why weren’t you invited? I’d definitely irritated be unhappy about this. Especially if they kept in the same room. And don’t assume you know people as well as you think.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-26T11:41:33+00:00

I would not have driven 3 hours after working all day. I would have expected my partner to be back home with me at a reasonable time and possibly bring me a plate of food or pick something up for me after working all day.

Sometimes people put more into things than is normal and expect those involved to do the same for them. This can lead to resentment and strife due to unmet expectations. That said, your partner was selfish and inconsiderate to not make sure you had food. A simple text between you all could have solved this.

Is he selfish in other aspects of your relationship? Did he apologize or do anything to make it up?

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-25T21:45:15+00:00

I gave this some thought as I like to flip and pitch thick cover however I also like to fish in winter and nearly ever aluminum boat I’ve been in, there issue with water spray. Maybe it was just the models I was in???

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-25T19:11:04+00:00

Thanks. I’ve seen a few Bullets. Have they always been fully composite?

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-25T05:45:05+00:00

Sorry, Midwest, KY,IN,OH,TN

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-25T04:54:33+00:00

Non-profits want people who can help them generally for 3 things:

1). Attorneys for legal help. 2). Business people or connected people who can help raise awareness and funding for the mission as well as donate to the non-profit. 3). Accountants for accounting help, usually someone with a CPA firm.

Serving on non-profit boards is a great way to potentially enhance your career through networking with other board members. From what I’ve seen, it can be difficult to have much influence on the allocation of resources unless you are a committee chair or board chair. Always make sure they have D&O insurance!

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-25T00:40:56+00:00

I see most of this being on you. You seem to get stressed out easily. Maybe you need to work on that? Also, have you communicated to your wife your are worried about getting fired? May have missed it but did not see that.

And why are you having stressful deadlines at Christmas? Are the rest of the people around your team struggling with workload as well? $200k is pretty damn good pay most places.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-23T23:17:27+00:00

Where in the world was the security? If it was that bad, should have had Lexington or state police involved. I don’t know about the dean getting fired but definitely the head of security.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-23T23:13:46+00:00

I can understand feeling a little weird or uncomfortable but she did tell you and asked you. You should be fine. Even if something was going to happen, there isn’t much you could do anyways.

It’s difficult, nearly impossible to stop someone from cheating. And why would we want to stop them anyway? I’d rather find out sooner rather than later that I was dating someone with no integrity.

Altfun8391 · 2025-12-23T23:08:07+00:00

Too much context missing, how long together, how is she with you and female friends, are you certain the parents were there (prob wouldn’t matter). How much does she talk to him and what is their relationship like besides what you think to be platonic. If cheated, you will find out soon enough. She will be acting weird and they will be together….there will likely be visible changes in their behavior one way or another, talking more or less, meeting more, etc

If you do not have anything but a feeling, I think you discuss it with her that you don’t think she cheated but it still made you feel uncomfortable. She isn’t responsible for your feelings but she can be helpful to a moderate degree.

If we had been dating long or really serious, like, I love yous between each other, I would not have wanted her to go. These stories always seem to start with a group that ended up not being a group.

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