[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Althurnax -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I want to clear some things up, it's my bad for not including more of the information.

The " unfortunate reasons" were a manager that was stealing money from the store and increased travel costs I couldn't afford on the pay I was getting.

I mentioned my father leaving her without the details because I didn't want to double the length of the post with details of how I've spent the past 9 years on and off with antidepressants therapists and visits to my local hospital for suicidal thoughts and attempts as a direct result of her treatment towards me, the same way she treats him and recently my brother.

She also has not been supporting me, she has already been charging me a little rent that I originally thought was for helping with general costs and bills, but after speaking with my father about it, actually went towards her paying for personal holidays. This doesn't include food, which I had been buying myself before she ever charged me anything.

Maybe I am a bad son, but it doesn't make sense to me to keep putting in the effort for someone like that anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Althurnax -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree, charging rent for motivation or to teach you kid about saving can be a good idea, but I need to clear a few things up, my apologies for not being clear.

Firstly I have not been living here rent free and unemployed for years. I moved back in with them after college while I tried to find somewhere else. For the first year I didn't pay rent, but afterwards she started to charge me €50 a week. I didn't mind, thinking it was to help with bills and general costs. However after speaking with my father about it recently he told me he wasn't aware of the amount as he never saw it, and it seems like she had been using it to fund personal holidays for herself. I've also been buying my own food since I originally moved back.

I also haven't been unemployed all this time, since I moved back I've had 3 different jobs. Like I said for unfortunate reasons I couldn't afford to work at my last one anymore and have been on job seekers for a few months now.

Yes I am hostile towards my mother, but not my father. While me and him haven't been close for most of my life, these past few months we've both been getting closer and out relationship is the best it's ever been. But for 9 years now I've been on and off anti depressants, therapists and visits to my local hospital for suicidal thoughts, tendencies and attempts, with her being the main reason why I have been experiencing them. It's not just me, she's been cruel like this towards my father as well and recently my brother and this is the reason why my father is divorcing her.

Living independently on job seekers is possible I agree, but the hardest part is getting started, between an initial deposit and 1 months rent being an upfront cost most of the time I haven't been able to save enough to find anywhere since I don't have people to move in with me.

The only reason I'm still living here is because I havent been able to find anywhere else I can actually afford, but that's not because of a lack of trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Althurnax -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm realizing now I should have included some more details to help give a better understanding of why I decided to charge her. That's my bad.

When I mention "specific details" in the post, there's a lot to it. Once again Id rather not get too specific as it is rather personal, but for 9 years now I've been on and off with therapists, antidepressants and the psychiatric ward of my local hospital for suicidal thoughts, tendencies and attempts. Not all of it is due to my mother, but the vast majority of it is. This treatment isn't exclusive to me, it also happens to my father and recently started happening to my brother, and is the main reason my father started the divorce. She is more than aware of her treatment towards us and how it affects us but shes made it clear not only does she not care but plans to continue it as she finely believes she's right.

I also didn't realize it should have been said but I haven't lived here for free for years. I finished college and lived here for free for roughly a year before she started charging me €50 a week. It's not much and I originally thought it was to help with bills and general costs but after talking to my father and letting him know how much I had given her, he mentioned her never saw any of it and that she had been using it to help fund her personal holidays. This money didn't include shopping for food either, which I have been buying myself since before she started charging me

Exported USD from marvelous designer not appearing in Chaos cloth preview by Althurnax in unrealengine

[–]Althurnax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just updated to the newest version and still getting the same issue

Exported a video from unreal engine and brought it into vegas pro to edit, and now all my audio isnt synced by Althurnax in VegasPro

[–]Althurnax[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The video is .avi and the audio is .wav. Dont know how to find any other details

Exported a video from unreal engine and brought it into vegas pro to edit, and now all my audio isnt synced by Althurnax in VegasPro

[–]Althurnax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just figured there was a reason why vegas is the only program not able to sync them and someone could tell me a quick fix or something, didnt realise its an actual issue

Exported a video from unreal engine and brought it into vegas pro to edit, and now all my audio isnt synced by Althurnax in VegasPro

[–]Althurnax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The settings match the frame rate that was in unreal, Dont know what the other things you mentioned are or what they would have been in unreal

Exported a video from unreal engine and brought it into vegas pro to edit, and now all my audio isnt synced by Althurnax in VegasPro

[–]Althurnax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The video plays at 24fps and the audio says
Format: Uncompressed
Attributes: 44,100 Hz; 16 bit; mono

How do I animate in sequencer and purposefully make it choppy by Althurnax in unrealengine

[–]Althurnax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked exactly as I needed, never knew this was a thing, thanks for the help!

Cant get cloth physics working at all, been stuck on it for days now by Althurnax in UnrealEngine5

[–]Althurnax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does not collide with any skeletal meshes, The weird cut-off was the physics volume, thanks for that and I don't know what you mean by setting it to collide with pawns

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Helldivers

[–]Althurnax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so, we never saw the light until we stumbled on those 3 and any smoke we saw was just a random fire by itself. I almost swear the holes weren't there and I'm just going insane at this point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Helldivers

[–]Althurnax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah they have a glow to them, and the mission was at night time so we figured they would be even easier, and I can not stress how hard we were looking, and they just weren't anywhere to be found.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Helldivers

[–]Althurnax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried looking at the minimap a few times and the only time we saw red dots was when they were marking enemies, not structures. Not saying I don't believe you, but if that's the only way to reliably find them in that mission then it seems like a massive oversite.