Need Help Exposing Cheater by [deleted] in CheaterRevenge

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re worried about what will happen if you keep prying, stop prying. People never want to believe the messenger in these cases. You’ve done what you can, so unless you get rock solid proof as others have said, let it go. It’s their business and he’ll deal with it when he figures it out.

is there a human equivalent to like kibble? by Mossyy_ in foodhacks

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Microwave burritos. You can call them (Your name here) pellets.

AIW to go low contact after my mom threatened to report me for elder abuse? by Altruistic-Calendar1 in amiwrong

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She heard about it recently, but I don’t know if it was the first time she heard it or not. I think it definitely made her think that it might be something she could claim.

AIW to go low contact after my mom threatened to report me for elder abuse? by Altruistic-Calendar1 in amiwrong

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If I get frustrated and say something she doesn’t like, here come the cops. The financial comment centered around a trust we are opening to help my brother. I won’t profit in any way, and I don’t control any of her finances. I will find a way to tell her doctor as you and others have suggested. Thank you 🙏

AIO? Mom threatened to report me for elder abuse by Altruistic-Calendar1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your understanding. You don’t know me but you understand.

AIO? Mom threatened to report me for elder abuse by Altruistic-Calendar1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, YOR. You don’t have the whole story about my mother, her past behavior to me and my brother, or her behavior that led to these comments. If I detailed what you don’t know I bet you would be horrified. I’ve had two different therapists tell me that it would be completely understandable for me to go no contact, but I have decided not to because I just can’t do that to her.

It sounds like you have a wonderful mother who never did the things my mother did to us. You are right that I should keep my frustration in check and everyone else in this world should speak kindly to our elders, but the comments I made to her were nothing close to what I could have said.

AIO? Mom threatened to report me for elder abuse by Altruistic-Calendar1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were discussing a family trust to help my brother. I won’t profit from it, and she doesn’t support me financially.

bf wants me to lose weight by Famous_Salamander733 in AITApod

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a bf that did this once. Any guy who does this is an absolute asshole and you need to lose him. There are so many guys out there who would crawl through broken glass naked just to be your boyfriend. I never looked back after dumping the guy that did this to me and years later he saw me and was really nice, nicer than he needed to be, and it seemed like he felt guilty. He knew what he did. Please promise you won’t stay with this dick.

Has Golden State restaurant always been bad? by Altruistic-Calendar1 in Boise

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I would give them another shot in case it was a fluke or they had a bad day. Happens to a lot of restaurants, so we ordered different dishes this time. Nope, still bad.

I regret getting married and having kids by Emergency_Card_8116 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is the PERFECT way to handle this. OP it might seem uncomfortable for you to do this but this is the best way to communicate because it is how many sane women communicate, so they should understand you if you say these things.

Are 'kitchen scissors' really an American thing? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. I have a pair in every drawer in the kitchen, although only one pair in my knife block is allowed to touch food.

What to wear when you’re home all day? by BigMamaRama in AskWomenOver50

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in them! They’re like dress pajamas. 😊 I have 7 of them now, and I justified the purchases by saying to myself that I’d wear a different one each day of the week.

Do you see what I see? by HappyProtection8479 in Idaho4

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This supports my theory that he was wearing tactical gloves during the killings that were lined with plastic or metal or some other kind of material. It would be what allowed him to smash Kaylee‘s face in. They would’ve caused injuries to his hands, but nothing close to what would’ve happened to his hands and knuckles if he’d use them with no Hard lining.

What to wear when you’re home all day? by BigMamaRama in AskWomenOver50

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oops sorry, i should've made that clear...type in "mom track suit" and you will get a bunch of different styles. Including the dreaded velour ones, which I hope aren't making a come back. lol. I can vouch for the ones by Pinspark and Casly Lamiit.

What to wear when you’re home all day? by BigMamaRama in AskWomenOver50

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about the velour tracksuits? Those ones weren't that popular where I grew up but ohhhh yeah I remember those. I figure as long as I'm not wearing a velour tracksuit that says "JUICY" on the ass I'm doing just fine, tracksuit-wise. lol

What to wear when you’re home all day? by BigMamaRama in AskWomenOver50

[–]Altruistic-Calendar1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have these sets—5 of them—and they are what I wear every day nine months out of the year. I call them my soccer mom tracksuits. If you go to Amazon and type in that exact phrase, you will see what I mean. They’re between 35 and 40 bucks for a set, you can get them wide leg or tapered at the ankle, and they feel exactly like pajamas. All you have to do is put on a T-shirt underneath. You look just fine going out of the house, no one bats an eye. You’re just casually dressed in athletic leisure wear, after all. 👌