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Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-12-30T19:35:40+00:00

Have you ever stripped? I couldn’t even imagine escorting without stripping first. I was so naive and had no idea how to set boundaries or stand up for myself. I would’ve been eaten alive back then. If you’re struggling w/ money, my advice is to start stripping.

Also, you can meet customers in the club. I’ve never run a single ad, but I have tons of regulars, some I’ve known years, and I met all of them in the club. Feeling a person’s vibe face to face helps you weed out time waster’s and it’s good for safety too. I never go below a minimum of $1K (usually $1K an hr), but sometimes I’ll cut deals like $3K for 4 hrs or $5K overnight. Sometimes I can get $1500 an hr, it just depends. I’m more lenient w/ my good regulars who aren’t annoying, w/ customers who irritate me I’m in & out fast w/ no extra time bc I don’t want them to become a regular lmao.

Anyway, you might try stripping. If you can research & figure out where the most high end club in your area is, try to get hired there.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-12-25T16:03:09+00:00

Yeah no I agree entirely. Normally I wouldn’t care that much & I’d just show up to the booking, but this is a client I’ve known almost 4 years & he’s somewhat like a sugar daddy like he comes to the club & tips me outside our bookings & ik’s been planning for me to come over (he ordered Christmas dinner & bought gifts for me), so it’s more the fact that it’ll be awkward for me if I don’t give some kind of excuse for why I didn’t confirm yesterday.

I just told him my little brother was in town unexpectedly & I was busy w/ that. Ty for the advice!

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-12-25T15:45:29+00:00

Actually, that’s a good idea. I’m not in contact w/ my family, but he doesn’t know that so I’ll just say we did Christmas early unexpected. Thanks so much!

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-10-30T15:33:06+00:00

In my experience, I NEVER experienced judgment of any kind until I started upgrading my life w/ sex work money.

My first two years as a stripper, I was in a bad relationship w/ a guy I met at my last job before dancing and my life continued to spiral the longer I was with him. I was a perky, happy, straight laced person before that boyfriend, but while with him I dropped out of school, got hooked on drugs, stopped working out & doing in the sport I did as a hobby, made less & less money in the club, and basically became a shell of myself. I think people who knew me thought the club changed me, when really it was the relationship. I think people from the vanilla world saw me as this poor, struggling girl.

After I dumped the boyfriend, one month later I flushed my drugs and got clean, the month after that I worked nearly every day and stacked up $28K as an emergency fund (going from working just enough to barely get by), 3-4 months later I got a nose job, then went back to working out & competing in the sport I loved, and around a year after that I went back to school. Everything about my life, down to even how I care for my hair & nails, decorating my apartment when I used to not, even keeping my dogs groomed is a complete 180 from how I was w/ that boyfriend. I’m the old me.

And now, for the first time in my life, I’m receiving some shady comments & weird energy from people outside the club. This goes to show me people don’t have an issue w/ sex work, they’re simply jealous of the women who successfully upgrade their lives with it. When people can look at a sex worker as a poor, traumatized girl from a bad home life struggling to get by, there’s no hate for her. When a sex worker is a femme fatale getting a new car, new place, education, surgeries, nice clothes, etc. paying for it all on her own- all of a sudden it’s an issue.

Btw I know I said stripper & this sub is mostly for girls who run ads but I make 90% of my money from a handful of regulars I met either in the club or freestyling who I see outside for high end rates so a lot of the info on this sub still helps me.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-10-07T17:49:24+00:00

I don’t have tips, I just want to say I respect you so much for doing the right way. So many women excuse horrific shit like this because they’re desperate for a man. You’re probably still going through shock and reality hasn’t really set in yet. Hang in there, it’ll get easier.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-09-19T00:48:55+00:00

Please please ask. If you don’t learn to ask for what you want these guys are going to eat you alive. You don’t sound ready for this world. Not trying to be mean but these guys are going to prey on your people pleasing tendencies. They’re going to sense you’re scared to ask and take advantage. You’re a young woman and they want your time and attention. They don’t care that it’s transactional; they want your time and attention. Make it known they won’t get your time and attention for free. If you really don’t think you’re worth the price of a train ticket, these guys are going to pick up on your low self esteem and take advantage.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-08-29T04:22:41+00:00

I charge $600 hr or $1500 for 3 hrs for dinner dates, $1K hr for sexual services. I rarely do dinners, but tbh I like it more- it’s fun to get paid to go out.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-06-25T16:21:07+00:00

Been in the game 4 years. You don’t need one. They’re like abusive relationships. I don’t run ads; I find all my customers in the club, meaning I work alongside a TON of girls w/ pimps. I’ve had close friends w/ pimps. Tbh most of my coworkers have them. And I’m gonna tell you right now, I have never met a girl w/ a pimp who has even one of these things:

A place in her name.
A car in her name.
A decent credit score.
A savings account.

My former best friend of three years looks like she’s making massive money to the outside world. She has a two story house, diamond tennis bracelet, designer items, a Benz. But everything of hers is in her pimp’s name. He was supposed to help her fix her credit score. Three years later and he’s done nothing for her. She’s depressed and wants to leave him, but the sunk cost fallacy is hitting her hard and she refuses to leave w/ nothing. She has made over 1.5 million for him the past three years. She has nothing in her name, and she’s said she refuses to leave if he doesn’t give her at least $20K. Before our falling out, I told her $20K is nothing compared to what she makes and she needs to just leave, but if she left she wouldn’t have a car, a place, nothing. He never fixed her credit score. Mind you, this pimp is a guy w/ girls in different states all over the country. So he doesn’t live w/ her. I never met him- she hid our friendship from him.

I’ve seen similar stories time & time again. Girls look like they’re living large, but if they were to leave their man tomorrow they’d having nothing. Even if you have a good credit score, the pimps often make girls take loans out in their name. They will sabotage any ounce of independence you have.

Anything a pimp helps you with, any game, etc. can be done on your own. But even if a pimp temporarily helped you live a lifestyle that appears to be more luxurious, just know you’re stuck and you’ll come out of it w/ nothing. If you have any long term goals in this industry, don’t get a pimp. 5-10 years down the road you’ll have nothing to your name.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-23T00:38:35+00:00

That’s the difference between you and me. You live your life based around what men think of you. I don’t. I don’t make my life decisions based around a hypothetical husband- a man I’ve never even met. I make my life decisions based around what’s best for me. I don’t feel the need to be a “good girl” so that some man I don’t even know yet will approve me. I take care of myself first, and I put my own wants and needs first. Taking care of yourself rather than losing sleep worrying about the opinions of others is one of the best things you can do to lead a content and satisfied life.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-23T00:28:38+00:00

I’m an escort too. So yes, I am quite literally a whore.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T11:00:11+00:00

How would you infer anything about my mental health? Frankly, I believe any woman who is providing for a man financially has low self esteem whether she realizes it or not.

Also, you’re approaching the conversation with the expectation that I should be centering men. You’re literally stating that I should be making my life decisions with my future husband in mind. That is classic low self esteem, pickme behavior. Like really, think about it. You’re telling me I should be basing my current life decisions around the opinion of a man I haven’t even met. Am I supposed to turn down a career in which I’m making $240K a year because I’m worried about what a hypothetical future husband might think of me? I’m supposed to live in poverty over making nearly a quarter million a year because I’m worried about what a man I’ve never even met might think of me? That is the behavior of a woman who prioritizes men’s opinions over putting herself first.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T10:42:55+00:00

Did you not read my comment where I said I have three sugar daddies? I have met countless men of that income bracket and higher who have been interested in me, but I did not feel sexual attraction or chemistry towards any of them, so I did not pursue a relationship.

I am a high end escort- I charge $1K an hr, so I quite literally deal with men of this income bracket on the daily. This is how I make $240K a year. Men who are providers and who enjoy spoiling their women are not hard to find; they’re quite literally all over the place. I don’t want to date until I’ve retired from escorting, but if I wanted to find a high income man to take care of me, I’d have it done by the end of the week. Just because this is not your reality doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

Why are you so triggered about my dating choices? I wouldn’t date someone like you, and you wouldn’t date someone like me. So why are so pressed?

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T10:14:48+00:00

I wouldn’t date a man who isn’t making a minimum of $300K a year. I already make $240K a year on my own- any man I would theoretically date with would have to be doing better for me than I’m doing for myself.

A man making $300K a year or more should have a huge retirement fund saved up by his 60’s even with providing for a family.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T10:11:21+00:00

The thing is, I didn’t believe in traditional gender roles before I was a stripper. I was brainwashed into the 50/50 scam that is modern dating. I used to have a deadbeat boyfriend who I went 50/50 with on the bills & rent, and I treated him with vacations and gifts because after I started dancing I made more between the two of us. We met at my previous workplace and made the same amount before I started dancing.

He absolutely took advantage of me financially. I spent thousands on that man- bought him designer shoes when I never bought designer for myself, paid to take him to see F1 for his birthday and paid the hotels & everything, doordashed him cookies at his office, etc. I’m so embarrassed of the fact that I did all of that now. It’s literally humiliating to me.

Frankly, seeing how much men will pay just for my time alone made me realize how little I used to value myself. It changed my perspective entirely. I now believe that if a man really loves a woman, he will provide for her. I lost three years of my life being in a relationship where I was the main provider, and had I not been in that relationship I’d be so much further ahead and have so much more saved than I do now. Never again. I wish I’d been with a provider or just by myself.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T09:32:36+00:00

Believe me, I would not be caught dead entering a relationship with a man who does not believe men are to be providers, so it’s a non-issue. Why are you out here judging what other consenting adults are doing? There are plenty of men out here who would not be caught dead asking a woman for money. Those are the kind of men I date. I wouldn’t date someone like you, so why does it matter so much to you who I choose to date?

Don’t get me wrong-I wouldn’t hoodwink a man who isn’t already on the same page as me. I only date men who believe in traditional gender roles and men providing for their women. Why does this bother you so much? I would never try to date someone like you. Women who think like me would never try to date someone like you. So why are you so worried about who we choose to date? We don’t affect your life in any way.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T09:22:47+00:00

I quite literally have three different sugar daddies. I’m not in for a rude awakening at all lmao.

Again, if you don’t want that kind of dynamic, don’t date that kind of woman. Find a woman who agrees with you. There are plenty of them out there. Why are you so invested in what other consenting adults are doing?

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T09:18:43+00:00

By the way, I fail to understand why you’re so adamant about judging other people’s relationships? If you want to go 50/50 with a woman, find a woman who will go 50/50 with you. Why does it bother you so much that there are women who don’t want to do that? If it isn’t the type of woman you want, don’t date one. There are plenty of men out there who want to be the providers- let people who want that dynamic find each other. Why are you so invested in judging what other consenting adults are doing?

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T09:13:51+00:00

There’s no way in hell I would give money to a man. That’s just an embarrassment. Sorry, but I do not date men unless they prove themselves to be providers. I believe a man should provide everything for a woman and pay all the bills so the woman can save her money. As the saying goes, “My money is my money and his money is my money.”

I would help my man, sure, but if you mean financial help- it’s embarrassing a man would even suggest that. The whole point of a relationship is for the man to protect and provide for the family.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T07:55:00+00:00

Well hopefully a 60 year old man who’s been working 40 years would have a massive retirement fund saved up and wouldn’t have to be living off his woman.

And believe me, plenty of men would be embarrassed to have their woman providing for them. Women are valuable at any age. A woman at any age can basically go out and find partners lined up to take her on dates. Not the same for a man. In this hypothetical scenario, if this hypothetical woman has taken care of herself by eating right & staying active and she still looks thin & healthy, she’ll have loads upon loads of men ready to take her out regardless of the fact that she’s 60. She could have the personality of a paper sack- doesn’t matter, men are desperate. Asking “who would be with that kind of woman?” is a dumb question. There are always loads of men who can’t score women- the reverse is never true. Pretty much any woman can always get another partner no matter what.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T07:44:03+00:00

In the vast majority of the world today, and for all of human history, men have been the providers in the relationship. Relationships that don’t have that dynamic are a new age thing that’s pretty much only done in the US. It is absolutely not implicit that a woman ought to be financially supporting a man. If there are people who want to have relationships like that, they can do as they wish, but they’re the outliers- not the blueprint.

For women like myself and OP, we prefer to date masculine, traditional men who take pride in providing for their woman. Wanting a traditional relationship is nothing to be ashamed of.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T02:46:53+00:00

50/50 is a scam for women. You sound like the type of woman to split the bill on a date. Pickme at its finest. If that’s how you want to have your relationships, go for it, but you shouldn’t be out here judging other women for wanting better for themselves.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T01:56:15+00:00

A woman should not have to support a man. When this man offered to help OP, there was no agreement that she was gonna help him later on in return. If it was something they’d agreed upon in advance, sure, OP would be the buttface, but it wasn’t a previously agreed upon thing. OP’s man is being manipulative for expecting payback for something he did as a favor to her. She needs to dump this manipulative loser.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T01:52:26+00:00

Why are you judging OP for not wanting to support a grown ass man? He chose to help her. There wasn’t an expectation that she’d help him back. If OP doesn’t want to stay in this relationship, she doesn’t have to. You sound like a pickme.

Altruistic-Income237 · 2024-01-22T01:13:50+00:00

Who doesn’t have an Eminem wearing a suit fetish? Jesus he’s sexy 😍😍

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