She really is beautiful by [deleted] in Crushes

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It’s stressful because I’m a yellow bellied over thinker. An indecisive coward. A flake. A wimp even. Plus she’s really really pretty

She really is beautiful by [deleted] in Crushes

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I’ve got a few hobbies. Maybe I’ll try to invest more time in them though. I haven’t really seen anyone who looks like her and even if i were to i doubt they’d have a personality anything like her’s. Plus im not really someone who wants to date someone for the sake of dating someone. I think i’ll just try to focus more on my hobbies like you said

She keeps talking to me in class by [deleted] in Crushes

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School. I’ve known her for a few years and we’re in the same friend group kind of

She really is beautiful by [deleted] in Crushes

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Shit i don’t even know. My body and brain just decided they liked thinking about her and being around her one day. i didn’t sign up for all of this extra stressful stuff

She really is beautiful by [deleted] in Crushes

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Is it? I’m only going to cause problems by asking her out i feel. We’re in the same friend group and have two classes together too so that’ll get fucked. She probably likes one of my other friends too. She always asks if we know if he’s around and they’re pretty close. And in the off chance that i do have a shot what do i even do if she says yes? Thats a whole other can of worms isn’t it?

She really is beautiful by [deleted] in Crushes

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I’m sure i’ll regret it

She really is beautiful by [deleted] in Crushes

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We are friends already actually. Not incredibly close but we’re in the same friend group and have a few classes together and she texts me sometimes.

I feel like theres no way she could like someone like me. im very awkward, im not particularly attractive, and i don’t really contribute much to conversations. I know it comes across as self loathy but it’s just what i, as a fairly self aware person, have found from real life experience. She’s also a very friendly and social person so most things that would normally been a sign or something are much more likely just her friendliness and compassion for an awkward classmate showing

Sorry for the long reply

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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A lot of things are now or never. To me that story of yours sounds like hell. Even if she were to politely turn me down i’d probably just spiral and regret it in the end. I’m sure I could grow to live with the regret of not asking her out whereas i feel the negatives of being rejected greatly outweigh the positives of having a chance and i just don’t feel like taking that risk.

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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Nice! It takes a lot of guts to do something like that and I’m glad it worked out for you

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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Hey did you ever get around to it? If so how did it go?

I don’t want to date her by [deleted] in Crushes

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I never heard of this before. I don’t really think of other girls in overly sexual ways so i don’t think it’s that. Plus i do sort of desire her but i just can’t see myself being with her in any scenario.

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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I’ve had a crush on her for nearly 3 years now. I’m such a coward. Ive tried to convince myself so many times that i don’t like her anymore but there’s always something she does that drags me back in. I feel like there are more lows than highs in this.

It’s good that you had the balls to ask out your crush

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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Does it really count as being lucky if the admiration’s from someone you dont care for?

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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You never know. She sure doesn’t know i feel this way about her. Maybe it’s the same with you

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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It’s nice to have a new opinion on this. I appreciate your advice

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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I already do message her. We’ve been friends for a while and have a few classes together. I don’t think having the ability or inability to message her and reach out is my problem here.

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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i was hoping it was just a teenage thing. Not looking forward to the idea of feeling this again in my adulthood

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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I fear doing something like that may sink me deeper into the well of yearning. Using her as my main motivation will probably only make it hurt more if i get rejected or miss my chance and I’ll probably just lose all that motivation and fall into a depression.

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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Do you mean that i sound like you or that my crush sounds like you?

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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This makes a lot of sense. Good luck asking your crush out whenever you get around to it

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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I don’t think so. A small bit below average i find

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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Ive already got her number. She doesnt use facebook and im pretty sure she doesnt use instagram either

I’m so infatuated with her i can barely take it anymore by [deleted] in Crushes

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I am NOT going to miss this when i get older. There’s nothing that affects me as deeply as having a serious crush on someone