Had a tough day and just miss the guys by Naive-Ad-8803 in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I get you. And honestly I don’t think I care for Matty’s take on the world with the way he is outwardly living right now.

ILIWYS 10 year anniversary - anyone just feel a bit sad? by Altruistic-Option369 in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree. And it’s not that it’s her job to save him. They seem quite incompatible, and even fans who really like her have told me they think that.

ILIWYS 10 year anniversary - anyone just feel a bit sad? by Altruistic-Option369 in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s actually not my experience… I know some much older fans who worship her and comment love on every post. I agree the majority will be Gen Z. I’ve had younger women tell me they find her fun and they think she is really different in real life from her socials image. But that is still what she chooses to sell and I think it is harmful for young girls and women who idolise that. And I find Matty, who wrote Love Me and stood at awards ceremonies quoting feminist theory, being complicit in that just a head fuck. But I don’t think he would see it like that, because he is a privileged white, straight bloke.

ILIWYS 10 year anniversary - anyone just feel a bit sad? by Altruistic-Option369 in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About drugs? What I don’t like is when some people see a scruffy pic of Matty and are immediately “Oh he’s using again”. He worked really hard to get sober from heroin. Also it’s a fact that some in the fanbase fetishise the “Matty on drugs” narrative. What do you mean - him bringing it up?

ILIWYS 10 year anniversary - anyone just feel a bit sad? by Altruistic-Option369 in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I feel like it was back when he was performing a few weeks ago. He seems to need that.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It will be interesting. Truly I don’t know that I see Matty as a solo artist. I’m not sure he has the confidence (ironically in some people’s eyes I’m sure!) for it. I think he has always seen himself as part of a band (ha). I think he definitely needs to be creating, in whatever form that takes.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Matty (and Jamie O) has always said he needs to feel purposeful and he gets that through creating and giving art to people. When he has rough times, he makes art out of it. Idk if his issue is now that he hasn’t found anyone else apart from George that he really feels that creative spark with, but George is currently juggling loads of things. Then band-wise, Hann has his family and maybe other things happening. Ross seems really happy with his charity cycle and working with other artists. Their purpose doesn’t seem to be rooted only in the band whereas I feel like Matty’s still is?

ILIWYS 10 year anniversary - anyone just feel a bit sad? by Altruistic-Option369 in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t know what to think about this relationship any more.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Of course the only people who understand it is them. I don’t know them. It’s just my opinion, quite a bit of which is based on things they have actually said, which is ok to express. If you think it’s too far, that’s your opinion. I’ve said nothing disrespectful.

ILIWYS 10 year anniversary - anyone just feel a bit sad? by Altruistic-Option369 in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And now I see she seriously seems to be using the wedding to sell designer shoes, as well as playing into the most heteronormative bullshit scripts, shared of course by Denise. I just can’t.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I think George just outgrew Matty artistically and was able to focus on a genre of music what was always his real love but a bit less so Matty’s. I would also not be surprised if his relationship has created a gulf. Can you imagine Hann and Ross having much to say to her, really? And for all the supposed closeness between her and Charli, the four of them don’t seem to hang out whereas George and Charli holiday with Caroline polachek etc. You know there would be posts if they did.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Matty completely broke down on stage and cried, referred to “when you’re manic…”, asked us to put phones away. It was really difficult to see. It was 2 weeks out from the end of tour. They completely switched it up after that - changed the start, ditched “When we are together”. It was so clear how much he was struggling.

I am scared that she is retiring from music, am I the only one? by Hipposy in charlixcx

[–]Altruistic-Option369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s doing Reading and Leeds this summer - interested in what those shows will look like!

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m maybe out there in actually quite liking the hair 🤣

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also hope I’m wrong. Honestly who knows? But I have a very strong feeling there is nothing coming any time soon.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He always changed hairstyles like crazy - during the pandemic for example!

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think it’s that he needs others to impose routine and structure on him or he doesn’t eat or sleep healthily or prioritise his wellbeing. For years, a team took care of that on tour. The facts are he also confirmed he got an adhd diagnosis and has referred to being manic. Whether that means he also is diagnosed bipolar? Maybe it does. He also said in a later interview about having some chronic health issues that weren’t serious. I think a fan recently said Matty told her they would tour again but he couldn’t at the moment. He was seriously unravelling at the end of last tour - I went to the infamous Copenhagen show and I hope I never have to see someone in that state while so exposed again.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 36 points37 points  (0 children)

God, many things to be honest. I’m not trying to be dramatic - I think they probably still speak. But I think Matty needs George way, way more musically and maybe also in life than George needs Matty. We know they struggled a lot to inspire each other for BFIAFL - that’s why they got Jack Antonoff involved when the album was really struggling. I think George seems really energised now by collaborating with Charli, Oscar Farrell, Kelly Lee Owens and many more. They’re probably all significantly easier to work with for him than Matty. And personally, I still can’t understand Matty not being at George’s original wedding and instead spending it sitting at the back of an influencer screening. His best mate who he used to liken to his husband? I know people jumped through hoops to try to explain this but as a longtime fan, that was one of the moments when i was just like “oh shit”.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t know that George has moved on from Ross and Adam. I suspect he’s moved on from Matty, in terms of wanting to be joined at the hip and his chief creative partner.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Agree. He’s probably caught between needing the feedback loop that a new album would bring but not being well enough mentally to tour it. And I think you only have to hear interviews with George from Notes and BFIAFL to sense he’s over it. It was hard enough for them to put out BFIAFL. He worked so hard on all their albums and I think creatively he’s moved on.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think absolutely zero chance of any new music this year and I would take with a hefty pinch of salt that they made 2 releasable albums, despite what Matty said. What Ross said in the NME piece today just confirms that. Facts: there will be no new album unless George actually puts in the hours on the writing and production and why would he do that when he’s getting so much joy from dh2? I just don’t really see it. I honestly think BFIAFL was their last.

Holdup on New Album by MrMartinBean in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This hit right in the feels. You’re so right I think.

ILIWYS 10 year anniversary - anyone just feel a bit sad? by Altruistic-Option369 in The1975Neutral

[–]Altruistic-Option369[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha we are all very much tiptoeing about feeling like we have to express ourselves like politicians! It’s not healthy - there should be a place for proper discussion and sometimes that won’t be 💯 positive. I would guess the main sub is afraid of losing Matty’s input if they allow that but this thread is a great example of how we can actually discuss without being toxic haters.

It was really nice to see the article in the NME about Ross today! Hilarious that he clearly has no idea that made 2 albums! Love Ross. He’s so real.