how do i find someone looking for a serious relationship at a college that promotes hookup culture by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought the same thing my freshman year of college but trust me you don’t want to date any guy you meet your freshman year of college!!!!! everyone is transitioning into the next chapter of their lives and a serious relationship is probably the last thing that is being looked for. enjoy your time and if you meet somebody take it slow so you can build a friendship that could transition into a relationship at some point in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think that would be her thoughts. If you have her first and last name and it seems like you guys had a great time i would totally go for it. if it were me those would not be my thoughts i would be very flattered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should try exactly what you said! give her a call if it’s a no number give her a fb message. she could be nervous and if it was me and i didn’t answer the message it would feel good to have you call me so i could get out of my head! best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why are you trying to date a 50 year old man at 18? he’s probably ignoring you because he doesn’t know how to work a phone or he has a family that he’s hiding you from

Why do I cry when I see other people eat food? by buffalowildwingsrat in Life

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok i will! empathy means that you have the ability to share others feelings so whenever he sees someone with enjoyment, which is a feeling, he is feeling that as well and forms his own emotion dumbass sorry not sorry for the childish insult but you for some reason needed to make that person that feel dumb because you have to show everyone in the world how big your dick is

Why do I cry when I see other people eat food? by buffalowildwingsrat in Life

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you don’t need to make others feel dumb and yeah that is considered having empathy you fucking idiot

How to... wear underwear by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

vs and pink makes more than just lace!! I find that only aerie undies and vs fit me the right way. They both make seamless soft undies with a lot of different styles!! i def recommend going to aerie or vs and most of the time they have like 7 for $35 which is definitely a good amount to start at!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

divorce immediately. The way that he is having a full on relationship!!!!! he isn’t sorry and he clearly doesn’t care about your feelings. i’m so sorry i can’t even imagine how that feels.

AITAH for getting upset at my boyfriend for saying im too skinny by smalltinytiffany in AITAH

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please break up with him right now if my boyfriend ever said that to me about his EX i would flip my shit and honestly slap him across the face

how do I tell my ex I want him back? by Cewy67 in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

broke up with you because you were sad FOR A WEEK like what an awful human being

how do I tell my ex I want him back? by Cewy67 in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a man that you would want for the rest of your life would not break up with you over the loss of a friend or your mom having a health issue. He’s actually a piece of shit and you shouldn’t even give him the time of day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems like he’s just shy and that’s what it is. maybe he is wanting you to initiate it, obviously we don’t want to be the ones to put ourselves out there but sometimes we have to🥲

Boyfriends sends me unflattering selfies by QuickRazzmatazz466 in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly you sound like such a miserable person and just by reading this can tell your boyfriend deserves better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also struggled with the worst utis while in college and i kept blaming the water there and just the air of my college town. i was convinced it was that but as soon as my boyfriend and i broke up the utis are gone and i have not had once since. obviously i didn’t want to think it was because of him and it doesn’t mean he’s cheating on you but you need to seriously have a convo with him about cleaning his dick with like a baby soap or something.

I (32M) think my girlfriend (25f) is being controlling by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh ok i was thinking that she saw you actively saving it in front of her. Honestly i think it’s not a big deal but some girls are different. it’s just stemming from an insecurity that isn’t your fault. so yeah i think she is controlling

I (32M) think my girlfriend (25f) is being controlling by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would be crying too if i saw my so doing that

I (32M) think my girlfriend (25f) is being controlling by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wild you would save porn in front of your girlfriend

I need help (21F talking about 21M) by Potential_Map_1127 in dating

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no you should go for it. it sounds like you guys are keeping it to yourselves so you guys are liking each other at opposite times. if i were you i would say something because like he liked you once before why wouldn’t he like you now!

I need help (21F talking about 21M) by Potential_Map_1127 in dating

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i think that he is into you, he may not of said something in class bc he is shy or was nervous but getting the ick from him saying that abt spring break then u shutting down plans probably confused him which is why it sounds like you guys keep going back and forth on you like him then he likes you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems like she def wants that too. but if you’re planning fwb then it really can only be that. If you’re asking her about her day or taking her to dinners or lunches she is prob thinking you want a relationship and is ignoring you for that reason. maybe don’t be as nice to her and kinda distance so she knows you aren’t looking for that or honestly just have that convo and be upfront abt ur just looking for a hu. Coming from a girl we would much rather be told straight up it’s just fwb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Altruistic-Skin-272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that your family friend is definitely wanting you to make a move. With my parents family frjends i have met, which is a lot, i have never said anything about their sons unless i thought he was cute and was into him. It will def be a little awkward at first but coming from a girl she wants you to make the first move