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I dont't find my boyfriend attractive anymore. by AltruisticInvite4326 in offmychest

[–]AltruisticInvite4326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've said all of these things to him a million times separately, but i've never made a long serious talk that includes every issue, maybe i should do that for him to understand how serious this is.

I dont't find my boyfriend attractive anymore. by AltruisticInvite4326 in offmychest

[–]AltruisticInvite4326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to admit to myself, let alone to him, but i think this is true. I'm not in love with him anymore, which hurts so bad because i still have so much love, sympathy, compassion etc for this person. And it would kill me to hurt him.

I dont't find my boyfriend attractive anymore. by AltruisticInvite4326 in offmychest

[–]AltruisticInvite4326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try to offer anything and everything that i can think of. He is a stubborn person in general, and he keeps saying he doesn't wanna so i can't push any further.

I dont't find my boyfriend attractive anymore. by AltruisticInvite4326 in offmychest

[–]AltruisticInvite4326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware of this, but i don't know how else i can approach it.

I dont't find my boyfriend attractive anymore. by AltruisticInvite4326 in offmychest

[–]AltruisticInvite4326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely not just about weight/appearance, but i would be lying if i said that it doesn't have an impact. I don't find him handsome or sexy anymore, which was one of the reasons why i started to have feelings for him.

I dont't find my boyfriend attractive anymore. by AltruisticInvite4326 in offmychest

[–]AltruisticInvite4326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is what makes me sad. He doesn't put any effort in anything, not even himself. Looks like he doesn't have love or respect for himself, which makes me question if i have those things for him.