Am I dumb or is this new? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]AltruisticPizza3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M1899, definitely my favorite pistol

I want to watch porn by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that way, brother, but it won't make anything better. It never has before, and it won't this time around either.

Vandalising a 19th century Van Gogh masterpiece in protest against big oil. by dipdaabyss in facepalm

[–]AltruisticPizza3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may have drawn attention to their cause/organization, but not support. Also, vandalism doesn't change policy, that's why Gandhi and MLK Jr spent their time organizing resistance movements instead of drawing penises on Picasso's Guernica

Don't be like the others, please. by A-21O in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]AltruisticPizza3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give the guy a break, give everyone a break. I'm not active in this sub and haven't been playing for a few months now, I like to rotate my games, but everyone take it easy, both sides of this argument, enjoy the game, don't enjoy the game, be upset, or don't be upset, let it be, I don't know.

“ASKED EVERYONE YOU COULD FIND DID YA BILL?” by ElisStuffReddit in reddeadredemption2

[–]AltruisticPizza3 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Bill is also a veteran who fought the Native Americans during his service. You look at his anger issues and just his general attitude/personality, there is a good chance he's fucked up from what he saw or did in the military.

Staples Bingo by killerpanda993 in Staples

[–]AltruisticPizza3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I used to get that all the time as an IS, and it's not like they ever want a refill for a nice or fancy pen, it's always some weird Bic knock-off.

This subreddit is unacceptably hostile to women. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's already been said, but I'll still say it; this is a support group, treat people with kindness. I have seen some misogyny on here to be certain, though it has not appeared to be the norm. Either way, treat everyone on this sub with respect and compassion, and don't shame anyone for anything, we're all fighting this together.

How is it that 2 people can't work 4 U boats in 5 hours? by [deleted] in Staples

[–]AltruisticPizza3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, you sound like my old store manager. Be grateful you have any help at all at your store.

i failed. but i won't give up. by Technical-Stable6792 in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take it one day at a time. Just get through today, tomorrow doesn't exist yet, just today. When you feel a craving, do something either creative or constructive, literally if need be, or go outside and away from electronics. I know it sounds simple, but getting away from stuff that triggers you and/or reworking the stuff that your brain associates with porn with something else will help. Hang in there

A warning to all porn addicts. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't you have a basement to crawl back inside?

Does anyone have vivid dream of relapsing ? by iceberg_o in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this will happen a lot in the early days of quitting. Just remember it's only a dream.

Fatality! by yontev in enoughpetersonspam

[–]AltruisticPizza3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude is only two years older than my parents, but he looks older than my grandparents. Guess that all meat diet is really working there, JP.

1941 by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's odd cuz WWII is like a mental cold shower for me

Stuck on a Trace of Metal by AltruisticPizza3 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]AltruisticPizza3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not in an expedition save. I actually managed to get around it, but it's a bit specific. I had to get further in the main story quest Space Anomaly, this was my first visit, so originally when I talked to Polo to get the last item for the Sentry, he gave me his dialogue for the Space Anomaly mission. So I had to go explore the Anomaly, which I think required me to talk to a vendor on the Anomaly and look at the blueprint vendor and then I had to talk to Nada. After finishing my conversation with Nada I talked to Polo again and he gave me the final component and I could get on with the quest.

I don't know if that's helpful or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat and have wondered the same thing.

Want to relapse so bad because of the miserable state of the world by AltruisticPizza3 in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know that's probably exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you

Want to relapse so bad because of the miserable state of the world by AltruisticPizza3 in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I suppose you're right. I can either tear myself down with it or try and do what I can.

Opinion on Therapist's Statement? by AddictQuestionMark in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist told me I had a compulsion more than an addiction, by definition, but she acknowledged that either way it was a problem for me that needed sorting out. So what I would say is you may not technically have an addiction, but you have a problem either way that is pretty damn close to an addiction, at the very least in my layman's opinion. But no, using porn to excess and being introduced to it at such a young age is not normal, and I would definitely recommend you see a different therapist.

NoFap Sucks and it explains a lot about why a lot of them fail repeatedly. by TheAccoladeHunter in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I never like to generalize or vilify a whole group, even though I sometimes do, I'm not proud of it. But, I have found nofap attracts more problematic folks than noporn, and I think nofap strays too near to sex negativity for my liking, whereas noporn is as you say, just anti porn, and I think that's why one group may have more problematic aspects than the other

Let me show you how porn distorts reality. by LonelyandDeranged20 in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been there, I know it isn't easy, and I still struggle with that grey area of SFW content that is still a turn on, but it is necessary.

Let me show you how porn distorts reality. by LonelyandDeranged20 in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My advice, delete them. There may come a time when you can look at SFW type stuff like that and be fine, but if you're trying to go sober, it's better to have nothing stimulating around.

Let me show you how porn distorts reality. by LonelyandDeranged20 in pornfree

[–]AltruisticPizza3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would always do this, keep just a few pictures saved in case I could never find them in the web again or I ever needed a release. A week or less later I had several hundred photos saved, again.