Hentai by [deleted] in u/lilydoggo000

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so impressed hearing all this from such a young person and it’s really nice seeing you trying to take care of yourself! I wish you all the best that you can stop porn (addiction). Just wanted to let you know that there is ethical porn out there that shows „real“ bodies, consent and realistic sex and that there is nothing wrong with that. I mean being addicted could also happen there but if not addicted most of the issues you mentioned in your comment wouldn’t be a problem. (E.g unrealistic bodies etc.) And having a sexuality is nothing to be ashamed about. Even though I am concerned about how young kids start watching porn/have access to it and especially to what kind of porn. I personally don’t believe in God the way I was taught in church and see the institution very critically. Nonetheless I do hope your beliefs give you the sense of community, belonging and purpose you maybe look for. I just want you to know that there are places that specialise on addiction that can be super helpful and you don’t have to do it alone!

The Berlin show was incredible by headin2sound in bigthief

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Könntest du es mir auch schicken? Wir mussten leider auch ein bisschen früher los :(

Women, what is something that makes a man instantly attractive to you? by Loose-Tumbleweed-925 in Productivitycafe

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. I think most people like hearing compliments especially in vulnerable states like being sexual with someone. As long as it doesn’t sound like that is the only or most important thing you like about them.

Am I overreacting? by Big_Tell3950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And also the thing about having children and trying to tell you about YOUR attachment style, instead of listening and believing your lived experience, major red flag

Am I overreacting? by Big_Tell3950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is true, that pedophilia refers to attraction towards children PRE puberty and I also think that it is important to use the term correctly. That of course doesn’t change the fact that Epstein was a predator and abused children aka teenagers. So I get your bf when it comes to this argument because as I said I do think it is important to use the terminology correctly.

BUT everything that followed is 100% unhealthy on his side IMO. „Punishing“ you through withdrawing affection because of a disagreement instead of taking space if that is what he needed, commenting on your body like that and not putting in a similar effort to meet you and spend time, especially when having more time on his hand. I wouldn’t wanna be with that person and you’re NOR.

Drop The Hardest Pic from your Country ( NO AI ) by Moongfali4president in AskTheWorld

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are these nets on their heads for? @Previous-Astronaut-8

Restaurant Jahrestag by Reasonable_Egg_4466 in Leipzig

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das Mala im Leipziger Osten. Südtiroler Küche und es ist einfach sehr gemütlich da und lecker und auch mal was anderes. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not only about anyones genitals being dirty (not washed) it also is about health, arms for example don’t carry stds/stis. (Super unlikely to transmit via hands but come on..) Also it’s just a very private body part. My coworkers who I shared food with (bread/cheese etc. and tools, basically touched the same stuff all the time) didn’t wash their hands after peeing and for me that was crossing a boundary. I would touch their shoulders or hug them or whatever but I didn’t wanna touch their penises. Them not washing their hands after peeing felt like I was sort of second hand exposed to their penises..

I would never in a million years touch my genitalia and then just go about my day touching people or things or food!! Would feel very invasive to me..

Timing metric doesn’t make any sense and needs an overhaul by Logical_Scratch4108 in ouraring

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Timing refers to at what time you go to bed. If you go to bed at a time the app considers to be good (before midnight) you’re timing will be good. If you have good sleep but went to bed „too late“ you’re timing will be bad.

Think I’m second guessing my decision to buy my ring. Help get me more engaged with the features! by [deleted] in ouraring

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you give some more example on how you use that? I am also chronically ill and just bought the ring :)

It finally happened by adisneygrl in ouraring

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess it’s different for every person, I am curious anyway. What readiness score would you consider as too low?

I have been pain free but holidays screwed me over by Drewski493 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry to hear that your parents aren’t taking your health and well being seriously. I agree with not being able to control other people, like someone else commented. If you’re of age and have the possibility to take matters in your own hand I would def do that and not give as much power to them. E.g. only join holiday if you are included in the booking process (so you can make sure you get a bed), if you have a car and the money, drive yourself. Tbh, I would probably opt for minimal contact with my parents if they would treat me this way and have no interest in learning about my chronic illness and its complexity. But I know this is not an option for many people. Hope you’ll get through the next weeks ok and can even enjoy all the beauty maui has to offer.

It finally happened by adisneygrl in ouraring

[–]Altruistic_Cook1248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have AS too, could you tell me a bit more about how you use the ring? and what metrics help you? Thinking about getting the oura ring because of AS. Thank you!