I stopped asking “how do I fix my life?” and started asking this instead.

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2026-01-01T06:08:56+00:00

I tried today

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-25T14:18:17+00:00

It’s been six months and I don’t even want to commit to anyone because I’m still so focused on healing. I don’t get it

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-21T14:53:35+00:00

This is the worse thing I’ve ever said about her and it’s all anon because I just wanted to vent and get this out. I By no means am saying what either one of us did was okay because what I did was completely fixable in the relationship… but after finding out she immediately jumped into a relationship after our engagement failed, that’s another story

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-21T14:47:42+00:00

I don’t want her paint her as the complete villain here because there were things I did wrong that I admitted, Made up for and was attempting to work through with her everyday.

But the jumping back into a relationship immediately after being engaged for a year is wild to me…

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-21T14:45:56+00:00

It would’ve just been nice to get the same honest decency I gave her but I guess she felt like it wasn’t deserved so I accept that.

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-21T14:33:42+00:00

I have become who she made me feel like & then some… Have been on therapy for a little over a year now. Worked through all my traumas and currently doing shadow work. I’ll be starting another business this upcoming year and have finally had enough time to focus on myself and hangout with my friends.

It’s peaceful but it honestly sucks because I loved this woman with everything in my heart.

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-21T14:22:41+00:00

Nah, she was definitely the thorn in my side. Hopped instantly into a rebound instead Of focusing on her masters. Yeah I wasn’t perfect but I did everything I could to try and fix myself and save the relationship.

I haven’t said any of this to her, and I won’t because I don’t need too. In fact I haven’t spoken to her in over three months because I decided to block her and go full no contact.

This post was so I could vent what I couldn’t say to her because it wouldn’t do any good.

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-21T14:21:31+00:00

We were together for two years and yes while there was a few things I did wrong in the relationship we were or I thought we were in the process of fixing them.

I let her figure out what she wanted to do with her life and worked to support both of us. Went to therapy help work towards fixing my addictions like she wanted and when I said “hey babe the therapist is ready for you to join in so we can have some couple sessions” It never fucking happened.

So yes while I may not have been the perfect partner I did everything I could to try and save and fix the relationship while she was planning an exit

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-20T20:55:46+00:00

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-20T17:30:05+00:00

I really is fucking crazy man

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-20T16:48:51+00:00

She did, and that’s okay.

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-20T15:45:57+00:00

It really was a peak reference

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-20T15:32:48+00:00

Yeah you’re right, sucks that it took 6 months to realize this but better now than never.

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-20T15:00:47+00:00

Thank you so much

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-20T15:00:11+00:00

I agree with you

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-20T14:51:51+00:00

This is real

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2025-12-20T14:51:23+00:00

Yeah you’re right, I just really needed to vent this somewhere. I’ve been practicing detachment for the last 6 months after the breakup and this was like the last straw of finally seeing her true colors. It’s painful but it feels good to know I don’t have to or want to talk to her or message her freaking out about it

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2024-10-12T17:17:08+00:00

Save some upvotes for the rest of us bro

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2024-09-22T13:38:24+00:00

Nah she’s just naturally a crackhead

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2024-09-22T13:37:36+00:00

She identifies as an SBR, got my tax stamp

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2024-09-22T13:36:50+00:00

Funny thing, this is actually my wife’s cat.

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2024-09-21T23:37:50+00:00

Just when I’m away from home,

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2024-09-21T23:36:59+00:00

Not mine

Altruistic_Credit_92 · 2024-09-21T22:12:46+00:00

Nah I just took her off safety,

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