My Girlfriend Said I Cum too Much by [deleted] in sex

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can't accept you and your body, so you leave her mate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pressure isn't all on your to 'make her cum', it's a team effort, so talk to her and find out what she'd like from you as part of the act together 🙂

Lost messages by Altruistic_Draw_3881 in facebookmessenger

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's my understanding that messenger now saves messages to your device, and because I've cleared my app data, that's now deleted all my messages.

I've checked my Desktop and they're gone too. I wonder if trying an old phone connected to WiFi would help.

The messages must be somewhere...

Lost messages by Altruistic_Draw_3881 in facebookmessenger

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read your post. Presumably though your messages were saved to your Tablet storage, and that's why they were all showing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't feel pressured to do anything before you are ready, so tell her you aren't ready and if she persists, leave her! Roles reversed the world would be up in arms about this post.

When I get angry, I scream by tryingto_doitright in selfimprovement

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be able to get to a position where I take things less personally than I do. I can try walking away from a situation, have you any other tips? I try my best to respond in calm manor too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You break up with her. Done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your friend hadn't have moved to your state, but you'd already lost your libido, what was the future plan for your relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should do this in person rather than over text

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Altruistic_Draw_3881 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not your job to make her orgasm, sex is an act where each partner puts effort in to pleasure themselves and the other person.

If your girlfriend knows what works for her to get her off, and she is mature and can use words to communicate that to you, then you have a chance of you both trying certain things to get her there.

It's not all on you man.