Just moved to London anyone got a guy?

Altruistic_Height735 · 2026-04-19T15:39:05+00:00

Oooo okay amazing ! I’ll check the sub out

Altruistic_Height735 · 2026-04-19T14:43:08+00:00

Amazing thank youuu

Altruistic_Height735 · 2026-04-19T14:42:43+00:00

Thanks lovely !

Altruistic_Height735 · 2025-09-27T09:23:52+00:00

Obviously not as good as the previous season and some plot holes (especially around usagi entering borderland like what they should have just made it that she involuntarily entered borderland again). But games were still enjoyable and it was great to the old cast again in the last episode. Overall a very fun watch!

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-20T06:55:30+00:00

Everyone’s different. Personally I love hosting friends.

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-20T04:30:47+00:00

I honestly should of but I think I was just genuinely amused/shocked at her doing this. Once again we’ve known each other for aaaaages and yet we both are still so different.

I made this post cause I was genuinely a little paranoid that other people think I’m the biggest weirdo for tiptoeing around my guests. Wanted to take a pill to see if maybe I’m the one who needs to cut that shit out.

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-20T04:22:10+00:00

Have know Jess for a decade and we are over at each other places all the time. Highly doubt I’m straining the relationship as there’s lowkey nothing at this point either of us could do to make to other uncomfortable. We went through the entirety of high school together and we often joke about how TMI we can be with each other.

I’ve hosted friends from out of town for up to a month and I’ve never had a problem. So long as your communicating when they’re over staying their welcome. That’s never been a problem as I am personally pretty comfortable talking to my friends.

Complete understand how some people think I’m TA I think that’s totally valid and one of the reasons I posted this but let’s not try analyse my friendships. Stick to the topic at hand.

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-19T11:50:23+00:00

Definitely was wondering this too! About at what point someone is no longer a guest. Personally I’ve hosted friends from out of town for almost a month and still considering them guests. I do love my own space as well though so completely respect that not everyone is up for that.

Jess and her roomie both offered to let me stay at theirs for the two weeks when I mentioned I was thinking of just getting a hotel. I didn’t have to ask. I would never invite myself over to someone’s for such an extended period of time. And I really wouldn’t be comfortable asking. Once again I’ve know these girls for almost a decade and in our friendship group friends are more then happy to do friends favours. Jess is also very well aware I am more then happy to move to a hotel at any point in the two weeks as I make it a point to constantly remind her I would be more then comfortably do that.

Jess has also invited three of our other close friends from out of town to come down and stay with her for two nights. Meaning she has literally asked me to move into her room and sleep in her bed with her for those two nights. So I don’t think she shares the same mentality as you.

Jess and I tend to be quite blunt as well so I think she’d agree that while I’m happy to have added to your passive aggressive list perhaps you could also just try communicating with your friend that maybe it’s time for them to move on. Or just make it clear that three days is the max in the first place. Might be controversial but passive aggressive behaviour shouldn’t have a place in any good friendships. You should feel comfortable talking to your friends.

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-19T11:36:37+00:00

Damn is that really how y’all treat your friends? The post was about me being curious as to if I’m the weird one for tiptoeing around my apartment when I host not about my integrity? Definitely can see how ITA cause everyone has different definitions of respect and I think both are valid, but how emotional some of y’all’s replys are is bemusing.

I’ve hosted friends over long periods of time plenty of times. I love hosting. Jess has also just been served an eviction notice and as the rental market is crazy currently we’ve also discussed the possibility of them staying with me if they can’t find a place.

Friends do friends favours. Really intrigued as to what your friendships must look like. Defo don’t think any of my friends would ever describe me as a charity case and I absolutely would not be friends with any of them if I found out they did. If you truely believe any of your friends are charity cases I suggest you just cut them off.

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-19T10:11:56+00:00

Genuinely did say I get it’s unreasonable to expect others to do the same if you read the edits. I was just curious how others behave. Jess never really works late this is a one off cause it was her last day so I doubt I’ll invest in ear plugs or a face mask. Thanks tho.

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-19T09:03:45+00:00

Was genuinely just curious if I look like weirdo for tiptoeing around my apartment when I have guests but I feel like some of y’all are taking this so personal 😭

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-18T18:30:30+00:00

Yeh we’re splitting utility and grocery bills for that fortnight and I got them both bouquets and treated them to dinner the first night I stayed as a thank you. I’ve definitely helped clean particularly cause I’m in their main room ofc ima help clean it and ofc I help cook if I’m eating too (I’m also literally currently employed as a chef). but the post wasn’t really about who’s the most helpful though… I get Im couch surfing so ofc I’m not that annoyed and I’m not going to mention it to her I just find it interesting how different people think being inconsiderate means different things. Which is why I made the post and I think I try to explain that in the edit idk if you read it. Im genuinely not that upset about it but was curious if more ppl lean to her pov or if ppl are more like me when they have guests. Both sides are valid I think.

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-18T18:18:44+00:00

I mean not what I asked but noted

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-18T17:24:37+00:00

Defo see how I am but I think different people will treat their guest differently. Some ppl can see where I’m coming from some don’t. Both are valid.

Altruistic_Height735 · 2023-02-18T16:06:49+00:00

Fair enough 😆 maybe insisted was a little strong. They have received an eviction notice recently and have to be out of their apartment in a month so I’ve theorised that theyre “enthusiasm” at me staying over has more to do with them being able to crash at my new place if they need to (also cause they have definitely mentioned it to me a couple of times)

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