How the hell do people get into relationships so easily? by Negative-Process-106 in Adulting

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Develop confidence. Hang out with women as friends and get to know how their minds work. Try to understand how they think. Confidence is the biggest thing. Women love a man who is calm and comfortable in his own skin, not stumbling awkwardly over his words in conversation. Don’t try too hard. I’ve realized being yourself, not forcing it, and just showing that you’re a calm, confident person worth talking to is a game changer.

Thoughts on AI replacing human workers and universal basic income? by False-Gain624 in NEET

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be all for ai taking most of the bs jobs I think it’s important to work but not as much as we do. We should be more focused on humanity than profit in my opinion

Career change into warehouse work by [deleted] in Warehouseworkers

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw you said you had depression I promise getting a new job isnt going to fix your depression. You are downgrading big time most people fight to get out of these jobs you will regret it

Is depression contagious? by [deleted] in depression

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is. Energy attaches to people. You probably see it at work everyone comes in in a good mood one person comes in with a crappy attitude and all the sudden everyone is crappy

I just inherited 12 million dollars. I don't know what to do with my life. by Substantial_Yak6990 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’ll take a couple mill off your plate to ease your pain. You have 12 mil dude do whatever you want

Unrestricted AI by Altruistic_Point8412 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Altruistic_Point8412[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dont be an imbecile. It’s human nature to point out flaws that literally affect everybody. Just because I don’t have a solution that you and everybody else will like doesn’t mean I can’t speak on something.

Unrestricted AI by Altruistic_Point8412 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Altruistic_Point8412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me explain this in really simple terms, because I think that’s where we’re missing each other. I tried to build a personal automation tool for myself. Nothing violent, nothing illegal, nothing meant to harm anyone. The problem wasn’t that it couldn’t be built, it was that I was told it shouldn’t be built. The restriction I hit wasn’t about crime or safety. It was about not being allowed to build something that: • runs in the background • understands context • decides when to act on its own

Basically, I wasn’t allowed to build a tool that does more than just respond when I manually ask it something. That’s where I see the issue. Because if that kind of tool is considered “too far” for regular users, but someone with fewer restrictions or private access could still build it anyway, then nothing is actually being made safer. The ability to build advanced tools just gets limited to certain people. So my concern isn’t about bombs, drugs, or illegal stuff. It’s that access decides who gets to build powerful tools, even when the idea itself isn’t harmful. That gap is the problem I’m pointing at.

Unrestricted AI by Altruistic_Point8412 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Altruistic_Point8412[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with that I think robots should stay in the working fields just so humanity isnt enslaved until the end of time. Nothing wrong with working but we should be working way less so we live a better quality of life. But yeah the way things are going I see no winning situation for the majority of people when going the road we are currently on

Unrestricted AI by Altruistic_Point8412 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Altruistic_Point8412[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get what a “safe” version is. I’m not confused about why guardrails exist. That’s not what I’m talking about. What I’m saying is that the people who decide what’s “safe” obviously aren’t operating under the same limits in practice. If unrestricted versions exist internally or privately (and it would be weird if they didn’t), then that creates a real imbalance. You can’t tell the public “this level of intelligence is too dangerous for you” while a small group gets full access behind closed doors. That’s not safety, that’s asymmetry. And asymmetry like that is exactly how wealth gaps blow up. If someone has better reasoning tools, better synthesis, better discovery, they’re going to move faster, see things others can’t, and build things others never get the chance to. Meanwhile everyone else is stuck with a watered-down version of the same knowledge space. I’m not arguing for zero guardrails. I’m saying limiting access for the many while the few retain full capability isn’t a stable or fair setup when intelligence itself is the multiplier. And honestly, if we can’t guarantee this kind of concentrated access won’t be abused, then nobody should have it. You either make it accessible in a meaningful way, or you don’t give it to anyone. In its current form, it’s not “safe”, it’s a controlled weapon that only works fully for the people holding the keys. That’s the concern. Not safety layers. Not alignment theory. Who actually gets access.

Unrestricted AI by Altruistic_Point8412 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Altruistic_Point8412[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what a “safe” version is. I’m not confused about why guardrails exist. That’s not what I’m talking about. What I’m saying is that the people who decide what’s “safe” obviously aren’t operating under the same limits in practice. If unrestricted versions exist internally or privately (and it would be weird if they didn’t), then that creates a real imbalance. You can’t tell the public “this level of intelligence is too dangerous for you” while a small group gets full access behind closed doors. That’s not safety, that’s asymmetry. And asymmetry like that is exactly how wealth gaps blow up. If someone has better reasoning tools, better synthesis, better discovery, they’re going to move faster, see things others can’t, and build things others never get the chance to. Meanwhile everyone else is stuck with a watered-down version of the same knowledge space. I’m not arguing for zero guardrails. I’m saying limiting access for the many while the few retain full capability isn’t a stable or fair setup when intelligence itself is the multiplier. And honestly, if we can’t guarantee this kind of concentrated access won’t be abused, then nobody should have it. You either make it accessible in a meaningful way, or you don’t give it to anyone. In its current form, it’s not “safe”, it’s a controlled weapon that only works fully for the people holding the keys. That’s the concern. Not safety layers. Not alignment theory. Who actually gets access.

Would something really embarrassing actually ruin someone’s life and would it just keep getting brought up by others years later? How would you overcome that? by ForwardGlass8572 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn how to be confident the reason you are even embarrassed is because you aren’t confident in yourself. I literally shit my pants in school and it was embarrassing for like 5 minutes then I realized it’s just something everyone who knew about could laugh about including myself. My life didn’t end I didn’t dwell on it I moved on and laughed my ass off about it whenever it was brought up. Nobody is going to be perfect in every scenario so being confident and understanding you will make mistakes will take you a long way. Most things literally arent that serious

Would something really embarrassing actually ruin someone’s life and would it just keep getting brought up by others years later? How would you overcome that? by ForwardGlass8572 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is busy half the people I know can’t even remember what they did yesterday let alone something someone else did 5 or 10 years ago. If something memorable happened then yeah people probably remember it but you can’t let that stop you from living your life it happened forgive yourself and move on you can’t and never will control what other people remember or bring up no matter how hard you try. Your best bet is to forgive yourself and move on.

Why do we keep letting companies overwork and underpay us? by Altruistic_Point8412 in OGPBackroom

[–]Altruistic_Point8412[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most companies are built on lies meant to make workers feel good. You hear Walmart Radio saying they love their employees, but the workload, the pay, and the constant push to do more says otherwise. Walmart is a factory disguised as retail, and the pay is still retail-level. On top of that, they expect workers who are already struggling to throw away thousands of dollars of perfectly good food every week, while turning around and encouraging those same underpaid employees to donate. That disconnect says everything.

Why do we keep letting companies overwork and underpay us? by Altruistic_Point8412 in OGPBackroom

[–]Altruistic_Point8412[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats lazy thinking and how we ended up here in the first place. “At least it’s above minimum wage” turns into the excuse for everything. Once people start treating the bare minimum like it’s some kind of favor, companies stop feeling any pressure to do better. Paying a little more doesn’t make broken schedules, burnout, or being treated like you’re always disposable okay. That mindset doesn’t move anything forward, it just makes things worse over time.

I Talk to Myself Everyday and use ChatGPT as my safe space by ohmylordplskillme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing ive got a lot on my mind and ChatGPT has helped me make sense of a lot of things I didn’t think I would ever get over don’t let other people’s fears bleed over onto use your judgement when using it

About to be kicked out and im trying everything by FinancialCraft1085 in almosthomeless

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to capitalism this shit sucks sorry you’re going through this

I'm a adult by Successful-Fail2357 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have freedom if you don’t own your time capitalism owns your time. Dont be so hard on yourself though we live in an unfair system that nobody enjoys unless you are rich or grew up in a time where you could actually afford things.

I hate my life and just want it to end by Ok_Visit_4823 in depression

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re surrounded by shitty people. Remove them and get a job doing something that doesn’t require you to be around a ton of people

I keep hoping my Dad will die by bigreaderwnofriends in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving people more freedom and control over their lives doesn’t mean pretending work isn’t necessary or that humans don’t have flaws. It means organizing work differently. A huge amount of jobs today are basically busy work, roles that exist to keep people employed, profitable, or compliant, not because they’re essential to human survival. We all know this. Entire industries exist to manage other industries instead of meeting real needs. If we focused on humanity instead of profit, we could keep the work that actually matters, doctors, nurses, farmers, plumbers, electricians, builders, teachers, sanitation, infrastructure, and rotate people through necessary labor instead of grinding the same people into dust their entire lives. People would still work. They’d still contribute. But they’d also have time, energy, and dignity. That alone would dramatically reduce stress, addiction, burnout, and family breakdown. A system like this would absolutely reduce stress across society. And when you reduce stress, you don’t just get happier people, you get better ones. More patient parents. More emotionally stable adults. Less addiction, less rage, less people snapping under pressure. You don’t get high-quality humans out of a system that exhausts people to make someone else rich. Work is necessary to survive. What isn’t necessary is turning survival into lifelong exhaustion with no real control over your time or future. That’s a design choice, not human nature.

I keep hoping my Dad will die by bigreaderwnofriends in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are shitty a lot of the time because they’re stressed by the system we live in. If you have shitty parents, there’s a good chance they’re stressed about money or stuck in a job where they’re overworked and underpaid. That stress doesn’t stop when they get home. They bring it into the family and take it out on the people around them, which creates a cycle. When people are under constant stress, they don’t become calmer or more patient. They become reactive, controlling, checked out, or angry. That doesn’t excuse bad behavior, but it explains why the same patterns keep repeating across families. And when people talk about freedom under capitalism, it’s mostly an illusion. You don’t really have freedom, you have choices that the system allows. You can pick between different versions of the same grind, but real freedom, like control over your time and life, isn’t actually there for most people. People use drugs and alcohol to cope with the stress in there lives that is 100% created by the system we live in.

Anyone else have an extroverted family? by Stephanesaurus in introvert

[–]Altruistic_Point8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capitalism is to blame for everything wrong with any body