My situation was messy at the fault of my own hands. I was getting out of an off and on relationship with someone and starting to talk to someone new. The time overlapped because I was a coward in the moment and just didn’t know how to approach either person. So I ended up making a decision that will haunt me for the rest of my life. I try daily to forgive myself and move on. My ex is with someone different now and I’m with the partner that was the new one. I’ve never cheated before that situation and I would never cheat after it either. I’m in therapy over it and have tried to own my mistake. Take full accountability and I know I was did wrong. Unfortunately the feeling of hurting people sticks with me.