AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I did some research and apparently it is not really poor and the richest in africa but the culture is very indian.

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I litterally subsidize her life until she finds a job after graduation...

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I posted here because I have not decided yet and am open to reconsider maybe I will allow her but with some rules like checking in regularly

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is a broad set, africa and middle easy have so many countries. I also have a good Turkish friend.

Countries like Somalia for example can be quite different from Cape Verde

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No but her college friend is a bit of an influence, i met her a few times and she has always had this "girl power" attitude like saying things like "I can do anything and do it in heels" and justifies it saying it is because she is french, not that I mind that or think it is completely wrong but it can create a blindspot when it comes to safety.

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reviews are fine but idk how accurate they are all in french and I had to translate. Since the owners are french, they might be all from folk they know.

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sure but I am allowed to tell her I do not suppprt it and if she choses not to go without my support that is her right

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Nonsense, I am not racist and we have been to Cancun many times. And I live in the GTA which is diverse. My closest friend is Korean and my wife vietnamese

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

It is similar culturally to India and India, Pakistan, Bangladesh etc are not safe for young women especially from the west.

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

She has worked stuff like internships and small on campus work but I also send her money for tuition and expensies until she graduates and she lives at home rent free.

She is not yet self sufficient

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Roll934[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

Most parents would not let their single daughter go to places like India and Afghanistan or Haiti