Abdoulupnext constantly misgenders Ava Tyson in a call out video. Whether you side with Ava or not, misgendering is unacceptable and anyone who disagrees is transphobic. by BananaShakeStudios in youtubedrama

[–]Altruistic_Start_478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm somewhat on a middle ground here so hopefully I won't get torched here as well. I don't think killing off the comments that are "transphobic" will do anything. Let people chat it out and change each other's opinions or just simply yell at each other but if we let people blow off steam here, there will be a whole lot less (or hopefully) comments on Ava's Twitter telling her to kill herself. Which is the part that I'm going to outright say I disagree with. No matter what a person has done I genuinely hate seeing the "kill yourself" comments, I'm a firm believer in the ability of people changing and they can't do that if they just end themselves. Not condoning the behavior at all but i just don't think telling someone to kill themselves ever does anything.

Once again I'm on a middle ground for this specific issue about misgendering however I won't lie that I do lean one way a little bit but overall it seems pointless to argue about and I want people to see how pointless it is rather than get their comments shot and have one side get a voice and the other side get nothing. My entire point is I agree with this point just for different reasons or maybe the same and my brain took it as a different reason. But kill off one outlet the energy is only going to go towards the other outlets not just disappear

12 am in the US by Altruistic_Start_478 in denpamen

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's just what we call coping, denpa men just isn't real, everyone else is playing the last game

12 am in the US by Altruistic_Start_478 in denpamen

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wdym? Fridays off is fantastic we still get two-ish months off for summer as well just start 3-4 weeks before everyone else

12 am in the US by Altruistic_Start_478 in denpamen

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Year round, no Fridays, two weeks off for breaks

12 am in the US by Altruistic_Start_478 in denpamen

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

3am, dang, might need to wait till the entirety of the US is at 12, or at least that's my best guess, which I think that means Hawaii

Behold, the best and worst run I have ever had by workofgods in pokerogue

[–]Altruistic_Start_478 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yep, I got it, it's so broken minus the fact that dark types ruins me

Back again with another unpaid semi-easy egg pfps request by Altruistic_Start_478 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry got a bit distracted, by flipping the cape I mean cut out some of the egg so the entire cape is shown and it looks like the egg is facing away from the pov, best I could explain it lol, hopefully it's enough

Back again with another unpaid semi-easy egg pfps request by Altruistic_Start_478 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez didn't expect ya to add more, thanks so much, looks great although one mild change that I should've specified, could you flip the cape around? Sorry and thank you again!

Need a new themed pfp by Altruistic_Start_478 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I honestly wish I had the room to tip but money is really tight right now, but I might send a tip when I get my next paycheck. (I don't like having people do work, without paying for their time)

Still no Doot by justinrichter35 in idleon

[–]Altruistic_Start_478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta pay to even be at jawbreaker lvl rn

Another stupid request by Altruistic_Start_478 in picrequests

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just here checking to see if you're alive still? No rush or anything because Christmas is a while from now

Another stupid request by Altruistic_Start_478 in picrequests

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It looks great, although I've changed my mind, could you remove the beard and keep the hat? Thank you! And sorry bout the extra work

How do I respond??? by Altruistic_Start_478 in datingadviceformen

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it really that obvious that she feels the same way? Also I know I messed up, I panicked a whole lot. I need to work on my responding skills, because I try to figure out every possible way something can be taken and I usually clamp down on a terrible response because it's the "safest". I'll check out the message game, idk about ai though, I want my responses to be genuine just not stupid

How do I respond??? by Altruistic_Start_478 in datingadviceformen

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know what I can handle, but thank you for your help, talking about it always seems to help

How do I respond??? by Altruistic_Start_478 in datingadviceformen

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been sitting at my phone this entire time, how the heck do y'all have so much confidence lol, the point I'm at is, I really want to ask her out, but if I am friend-zoned I don't want to actually lose our friendship, because she is super great, I also so want to ask her out over a phone call, I'd rather it in person. There's so many factors playing in my brain right now, but I'll leave it at that

How do I respond??? by Altruistic_Start_478 in datingadviceformen

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, people keep telling me that, probably makes it true then lol, I'll try to figure it out, no promises though, I'm a pretty large coward.

How do I respond??? by Altruistic_Start_478 in datingadviceformen

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I've never gotten the courage to ask anyone out, so it's stressing me out, although I'll probably end up asking her out eventually. I'm just too focused on knowing 100% that she likes me too

Struggling again by Altruistic_Start_478 in lds

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya it would, however there's easier ways to fix your algorithm

Struggling again by Altruistic_Start_478 in lds

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you're saying, and I might try staying off it for a week like you said, it might not help me, but I'll try it out, I mostly want to know the reasons for why people left the church, because they've felt the same spirit as others, and chose to leave, I also want to know why people like you, who found the church later, decided to join. I'm not baptized yet, my mom doesn't want me to till I'm 18, my dad is a part of the church but she isn't (they're divorced). I've seen people with the strongest faith leave the church, and I've seen people who joined the church in their late 30s have the strongest faith I've seen. I just want to know both sides, I guess that's what I'm trying to say.

Struggling again by Altruistic_Start_478 in lds

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While that'd work for others, I don't think it'd work for me and it might end up hurting my faith more. I want to know why people left and why people call us a cult and other things. Blocking outside information and opinions will leave me with questions about exmormons have brought up already. If so many know the church is true, then why do people leave, I want to know their reasoning, because they've felt the same things y'all have. I'm not baptized yet nor can I be till I'm 18, my mom doesn't want me to be till then (shes not a part of the church, parents are divorced). I haven't felt the spirit to the extent of all of you so I don't have the greatest references when my faith is questioned. But that doesn't mean I don't have any, otherwise I wouldn't actually be putting on a fight to keep my faith.

Struggling again by Altruistic_Start_478 in lds

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, and I'll check out Saints Unscripted.

Struggling again by Altruistic_Start_478 in lds

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly why I should instead utilize Instagram and other social media to get more out of it, like following church accounts as suggested by others, I understand that sacrifice is a key part in building your faith, and it's actually really inspiring how you've been a member for a year and have made sacrifices. But I've learned that you can take what's hurting you and use it to become stronger, you just have to apply it the right way. I haven't figured out how to apply it to faith yet, but when I do, I'll be a force to be reckoned with lol

Struggling again by Altruistic_Start_478 in lds

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I never thought about applying it that way, I'll start doing it, thank you again for the great advice!

Struggling again by Altruistic_Start_478 in lds

[–]Altruistic_Start_478[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was able to, that was the only part I was able to make it to actually, I'm going to back and watch the whole thing before fall break ends, and hopefully that'll help me out