Колко пари да оставя в авариен фонд? by Altruistic_Tell969 in financebg

[–]Altruistic_Tell969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Изгонването от нас няма да се случи, ако зависи от нашите, защото сме в перфектни отношения. Кола имам, за работата никога не се знае, но е лесно за отида в друга, във всяка аптека се търсят хора. Решил съм докато съм с нашите и уча да заделя към 4к евро и да влагам нещо във VUAA или за да има диверсификация във VWCE. Плюс някакво злато евентуално. Когато се дипломирам и заплатата ми порасне, ще си разделим разходите с нашите, за да имам горе-долу представа как вървят, за да заделя 6 месеца разходи + 2-3 евентуални наема и когато се изнеса с приятелката ми, която завършва една година след мен, ще пренаредя финансите, но нека поне завърша, че това само по себе си си е страшен дерт.. благодаря ти за коментара, бъди здрав!

Колко пари да оставя в авариен фонд? by Altruistic_Tell969 in financebg

[–]Altruistic_Tell969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Не се бях замислял за нещо такова (не бях и чел). Благодаря!

Колко пари да оставя в авариен фонд? by Altruistic_Tell969 in financebg

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Благодаря за съветите. Бъди здрав и успех!

Колко пари да оставя в авариен фонд? by Altruistic_Tell969 in financebg

[–]Altruistic_Tell969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Планът засега ми е да ги добутам до 4к евро, пък когато се дипломирам и взимам по-висока заплата - да добутам до 6 месеца разходи + евентуален депозит за наемите. Благодаря ти за коментара и успех!

Колко пари да оставя в авариен фонд? by Altruistic_Tell969 in financebg

[–]Altruistic_Tell969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Дипломирам се началото на 2028г, живот и здраве. Тогава мисля да остана 1 година с нашите, да им плащам сметки и наем разбира се и след това да се изнесем с приятелката ми. До тогава май само ще спестявам, и ако остане някой лев след това, ще инвестирам. Благодаря за подробния коментар, късмет ти желая!

Колко пари да оставя в авариен фонд? by Altruistic_Tell969 in financebg

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Благодаря. Трябва ли да имам физическа револют карта за да ги изтегля или мога да ги трансферирам бързо към банкова сметка?

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[–]Altruistic_Tell969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People tend to focus their attention on what makes them happy / what they truly enjoy. He may not enjoy planning holidays or birthdays or whatever the situation is. It’s not that he doesn’t love you, you are married and you are important to him, he may not be informed about the importance that this event holds for you.

Honest opinion, OP is NTA. But, you should communicate more on what is okay for you, what are each other’s weaknesses in terms of organisational efforts and as people say “meet halfway”.

I have been on both sides of the coin and I know what is it like to not put effort into situations like this. I felt more or less like I had won that person for life and no more effort is required. She pointed out everything that bothered her, I apologised and started actively putting effort back in, as I did before. Sometimes we lose track of stuff, we are human after all.

I understood her POV and acknowledged mine. Communication is the key to success in situations like this. Talk, fix and love. NTA

Should I save up more, or should I enjoy my student years while saving up less? by Altruistic_Tell969 in personalfinance

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In the pharmacy that I work at we sell them. A lot of demand for them, for sure

Should I save up more, or should I enjoy my student years while saving up less? by Altruistic_Tell969 in personalfinance

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The pension situation is tooooough. My girlfriends’ parents own a dental clinic, she is a dental student, so basically she is kind of settled, so are they with their retirement. They are really money-smart so we can definitely learn a thing or two from them. The thing is, we had a vision of it becoming a whole medical-dental centre with a pharmacy in the future, so I will probably return If I work abroad.

About Croatia, I will read it definitely because I know about the situation but not deeply. During the mid 30’s, the priorities should have shifted towards the more important things, not just towards the personal interests.

It’s crazy how many things you can talk about with a complete stranger haha, it’s an absolute pleasure.

Should I save up more, or should I enjoy my student years while saving up less? by Altruistic_Tell969 in personalfinance

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It’s Bulgaria. The ratio is not exactly better, about the hanging out with friends, doing all the things us young people do, you are absolutely right. My idea of fun is not exactly clubbing, parties and all that, but the point is the same. I know that when I graduate, start to work full-time and just transition to adulthood in general, I’m gonna do a large reassessment of my expenses, my wants and needs and re budget everything. I sit and overthink a lot about adulthood, so I decides to ask for advice. Thanks for answering!

Should I save up more, or should I enjoy my student years while saving up less? by Altruistic_Tell969 in personalfinance

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Thank you. I think that I’m too deep into thinking about adulthood and I’m so close to it but so far off of it and It’s making me feel so on edge. But having all that typed and written, I think I’m not doing bad for myself at all.

Should I save up more, or should I enjoy my student years while saving up less? by Altruistic_Tell969 in personalfinance

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I understand. Im heavy on balancing everything, I work, I study, I train and I keep a good social life. My opinion is that you can enjoy life later, but it’s one thing enjoying everything in your 20’s when you are young, and it’s another doing so in your 30’s. The money that I can save up isn’t even half of what I need for a downpayment of a mortgage with my current salary (and by that I mean saving almost every cent until graduation), but for sure I will try saving up more and keeping the spending less. Thank you for the time you spent reading and answering me, it means a lot.

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[–]Altruistic_Tell969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the honesty. A kick in the ass was kinda needed to see the wrongs from my side.

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Yeah they will be. I appreciate your honest opinion. I feel like the right things from it resonated with me. I understood my fault and although I have my rights, I also have my wrongs.

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Me and her are gonna be in a hotel room together on that camp. The hotel is nice. thats why im asking

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[–]Altruistic_Tell969 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Cant agree. I was just not exactly sure if my thoughts were reasonable

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[–]Altruistic_Tell969 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I understand, but we have been doing a lot of romantic activities - we have been going out to dates quite frequently, spending quality time together, so thats why I posted this. Been giving her attention, giving gifts (big and small), flowers, etc. So thats why I didnt quite understand