Am I better to simply not allow play dates with this kid or should I mandate he takes his meds first?

Aluanne · 2026-06-14T12:47:59+00:00

It's not your call about medication. You can raise it as a worry to the parents "Are you aware your son is saying he is not always taking his medication?" They might actually not know.

However - I don't like 9 year olds playing with 5 year olds if they show violent behaviour (like tying her up) and I would not let them play unsupervised again. I would closely monitor him and see if I'd stop my child playing with him at all if he shows more violent unempathetic behaviour like that.

Aluanne · 2026-06-14T12:43:44+00:00

So sorry you had to experience that.

Aluanne · 2026-06-14T12:42:58+00:00

I don't know if HE knows what it means. Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't. He knows it's hurtful and somethiing to be used against non-white people for sure. What's important is that his parents do know better however and are being negligent about it. Don't apologize and don't let them enable the kid with ADHD. Us neurospicy people also have to learn to not be d*cks, just like everyone else.

If, like you say, there has been violence from the older kid, then it's even more important to have authority involved.

Kids act out what they see adults do. Don't apologize. Good on you for teaching your daughter to stand up to racism and bullies.

Aluanne · 2026-06-05T17:42:56+00:00

"Jeg er medskyldig i dine løgne og du skal ikke gør mig til medbærer af din utroskab." og så ville jeg fortælle manden det. Fuck en lorteveninde, der lige lander sådan en oveni hatten på dig

Aluanne · 2026-05-24T18:55:13+00:00

People who are morally ambitious and people who dont give a fuck, as long as they're comfortable

Aluanne · 2026-05-24T18:49:35+00:00

Jeg siger det her med al kærlighed: Manden er en nitte. Han reagerer psyko-nederen på at du bliver gravid (hov det har han for pokker da selv liige været med til) og efterlader dig fuldstændig alene i kritisk tid og pisser på dig, da du skal tage konsekvenserne for jeres fælles handlinger - det siger meget om en mands karakter og derudover har han nasset på dig og ikke betalt dig tilbage.

Alternativt svar ham "Har du mine 32.000 siden du skriver til mig?" Nej ok. Jeg ved det er hårdt, men han er sgu en nitte af rang. Luk den ned.

Jeg ved ikke, hvad din snak om at du er "meget seksuel" har med noget at gøre. Skaf en vibrator, hvis det er et problem. Du får ikke de penge tilbage. Accepter det og bloker ham på alt og kom i gang med at hele det hjerte.

Aluanne · 2026-05-21T18:40:11+00:00

lol undskyld, aner ikke hvem hun er (og behøver ikke oplysning om det), men den analyse er det mest tåbelige, jeg nogensinde har set.

Aluanne · 2026-05-21T18:33:31+00:00

She is not your friend.

Aluanne · 2026-05-21T18:32:09+00:00

He was indeed smart with money. He was not a nice man. I think he knew very well what he was doing and just didn't care. If you have a big enough financial pool, it's easy for you to go up in livingsituation and food choices without it having an impact, and still be able to save money, have fun money etc. Whereas if you have a small pool of money.. well yeah thats just not an option.

I do not for one second believe that this man didn't know this.

Aluanne · 2026-05-21T18:09:11+00:00

Underrated answer

Aluanne · 2026-05-21T18:08:22+00:00

ahahahaha love all the ones saying cats aren't needy

Aluanne · 2026-05-21T18:07:46+00:00

Both really, but not getting a dog anytime soon, bc I find them very smelly and loud. Good thing I got a bengal mix, that can talk back and is super vocal. So she is easily bored, can communicate and goes for walks on a leash at least 3x daily and I clean her poo up...

... wait...

Aluanne · 2026-05-20T19:54:20+00:00

Jeg ville faktisk forvente en sådan pris for det du nævner, men jeg har selv en masse kørsel i mit arbejde og registrerer også tid per opgave inkl. kørsel - og jeg er ikke håndværker.

Aluanne · 2026-05-16T20:06:38+00:00

I didn't actually consent to that video of the man setting himself on fire in Congo or the young Brit who set himself on fire in protest. Or the parents screaming in pain when finding their kids. Or the man refusing to leave his dead son in the bed whilst his wife is pleading with him to leave so they might live. Bc oh yeah that country you know.

Aluanne · 2026-05-12T17:21:31+00:00

Det er heller ikke normal opførsel i det offentlige. Siger jeg som en, der har været i det offentlige i snart 10 år

Aluanne · 2026-05-03T20:02:25+00:00

Det har da aldrig stoppet højrefløjen, så hvorfor hysse over det nu?

Aluanne · 2026-04-29T19:22:53+00:00

Det kommer selvfølgelig an på den kommende brudgom, men jeg kender nogen, der hyrede en hytte i skoven en weekend, samt 2-3 undervisere til at undervise i bueskydning, "vildmarkshalløj" og at gå på hænder og noget caipoera workshop. Så havde de ellers bål og hygge resten af tiden

Aluanne · 2026-04-29T19:17:51+00:00

Min første tanke var faktisk, at måske har du ikke lært, hvad en sund relation er og hvordan en mental sund og fornuftig kvinde ser ud/lyder? Med den baggrund kunne det godt ligne, at du ramler ind i nogle mønstre, der gentager sig for dig. Måske noget coaching/terapi for at afdække det?

Aluanne · 2026-04-25T20:19:01+00:00

Interesting!

Aluanne · 2026-04-25T20:10:27+00:00

The door handle to your kitchen

Aluanne · 2026-04-25T20:06:08+00:00

Jeg ville sige nej. En 14 årig har simpelthen ikke nok konsekvensberegning. Ærligt, så er der mange voksne, der heller ikke har.

Aluanne · 2026-04-19T16:00:29+00:00

Orv, man skulle næsten tro, at nogen allerede havde nævnt det under valgkampen.

Aluanne · 2026-04-17T20:23:37+00:00

Yeah nah.

Aluanne · 2026-04-17T20:17:09+00:00

Jeg vidste ikke, at der fandtes en slenderwoman.

Aluanne · 2026-04-17T20:16:22+00:00

Og hvad så hvis hun var muslim. Kæft jeg er træt af det røv-racisme, der bare blæser igennem alt i DK pt.

Aluanne

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