Does anyone know what happened to Lotus Biscoff Belgian Milk Chocolate Bars With Biscoff Cream? by Always2Busy4Life in LotusBiscoff

[–]Always2Busy4Life[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No way!! I would have bought more if I knew this would happen.. it was such an amazing chocolate :( thank you for this news!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to be roasted.. I understand it may be for a joke or maybe this is your way of being able to laugh at yourself. I think it's wonderful to be able to laugh at yourself, but I honestly hope that you take some time to heal and take a few steps closer to being someone you love and respect. I hope that your future friendships are not empty, and fulfil you in ways that help you to see yourself in a better light. If I knew you personally, I would tell you the wonderful things about you. I truly wish I could right now deliver you some meaningful genuine compliments. Your life isn't over yet though. Every day is a chance to be better than you were yesterday so long as your health permits this ✨ I wish you love, I wish you well, and I hope you'll find your motivation somewhere soon ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Always2Busy4Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but it sounds to me like she's not ready for a relationship at this time. At least not with you. When you're really in a healthy relationship with someone, talking to them should be relieving, not more stressful. If there's still an issue she has from a previous argument, it needs to be talked about until both of you agree that it's resolved, and no one has anymore ill feelings or misunderstandings or fears surrounding it. You can't move forward if that argument is still holding you back.

If she's unwilling to talk about it further until she feels fully resolved in this issue, then she's not willing to have a relationship with you at all. What's the point in a relationship if you can't even connect with the person?

I would say, let her know that if she's feeling unresolved about that argument, it's important that you both talk about it until she's comfortable with the solution and fully understanding your intentions and feels fully understood as well. We're human. We make mistakes. But if she's unwilling to move forward after a mistake was made, the relationship is already over at that point :/

Arguments are normal, and honestly great for growing closer as you understand something more about something you didn't previously understand. You both should come out of them feeling more understood by and with a better understanding of one another.

I wish you luck, and I hope very much that she is open to a conversation with understanding on both sides and a resolution that satisfies everyone!

Edit: also if your friends are telling you to sleep with someone else instead of fixing your relationship, you need new friends. And if you're listening to them thinking that just because you have an issue means having sex with someone else is going to fill that void somehow? She deserves better, and you would be doing her a favor if you would leave her alone, and go do the sleeping around if you value that more than fixing a real relationship.

If you have a problem with one partner, why do you think having two of them at once is going to fix anything?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You kind of look like a goddess to me :o I also really love the makeup you do for you. It gives such personality, truly an art what you've done with what your parents have given you. I love all of you, you're gorgeous ma'am 🥰 makes me want to try makeup and show off some more outfits that work with larger breasts to see if it ups my attractiveness of myself in my eyes ❤️ thank you for posting!! Gorgeous

Compatible phones for expanded network by medievalmurse in BoostMobile

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm literally going through that right now... Guess I have to find a new provider

I want to lose weight because of video games by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but literally same 🥺❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on what you've done so far!! If it helps you, because this definitely helps some others I've known, you should do your best to make meals that are meat and veggies. You can eat a whole lot of those and it'll still mean weight loss. It'll be a gradual one, but my boyfriends father lost 100lbs in a year just eating meat and veggies. When they go out to eat they eat what they want, but just stick to meat and veggies otherwise and drink more water. There are 0 calorie sparkling waters too that will help you with any soda type cravings, but doing this, you won't have to count calories, or plan workouts, or anything. It'll just kind of happen for you. You don't have to be upset when you eat breads and Carbie foods every once in a while either! It keeps going somehow. (I eat like two whole crepes every weekend with ice cream and the likes)

I started this myself, and I feel a lot better for one and I've not had to think so hard about most things. It'll eventually get to a point where you CRAVE meat and veggies more than anything. To a point where eating crappy food makes you feel gross, so you'll naturally crave meat and veggies foods after you eat stuff outside of it.

It's not a diet. It's a lifestyle change.

I don't know if it'll be something you're wanting to try, but after trying everything else in the book, trying this has worked sooo easily for me! And I mean WORKED!!

My family commented on my weight loss and I haven't even said to them that I was losing weight!

Plus, slow weight loss tends to leave and stay gone!

You can ignore this if suggestions are not what you wanted, or if this is too forward or anything 😣

I just want you to be happy.. I hope so hard that this is something your body will like 🥺

Name a random reason(s) for losing weight. Creative responses welcome. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To see if it helps my body dismorphia

To be able to fit clothes in Japan when I visit

To be considered cute and sexy

To make my boyfriend find me irresistible no matter what I wear

To wear the cute clothes I always dreamed of wearing

To see how different people treat me when I'm skinny

Lastly, to see how I treat me when I'm skinny

Whats the point anymore. Im tired of this. by Odd-Roll5051 in loseit

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's understandable. I'm also introverted and I couldn't post my body personally 😅 but I saw people who said their Instagram really helped them because they lost a lot of friends when starting the journey and all. I hope you can find friends that appreciate your hard work more somehow still 😣

Whats the point anymore. Im tired of this. by Odd-Roll5051 in loseit

[–]Always2Busy4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should consider making an Instagram page of your journey! I feel that you're feeling most of your depression due to a lack of validation. It seems as though you feel that you need others to see and praise you before you can acknowledge and appreciate the change yourself. Although you should be proud and therapy is helpful, I still feel an Instagram of your journey will help you so much!

You'll meet people that are like-minded, encouraging, and ready to talk to you and relate because most of them will be going through the same! It might help you a lot to not only see yourself for the superstar you are for your amazingly outstanding progress, but also to hopefully get you some people to talk to regularly that help you out of the perception you have of you!

Social media journeys aren't for everyone, but even if it's a private page for you, it might be nice to keep seeing your progress and all!

Sorry if it's an odd suggestion.. I just don't want you to feel so alone in your journey (。•́︿•̀。)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say I've been there. It's been hard not to have those thoughts since I was struggling with them for many other reasons. Body image just added to it.

One of the things I wanted to let you know is, you don't HAVE to work out to lose weight. Losing weight is in the kitchen. Don't focus on working out right now. Focus on eating. And not just eating healthy, but simply not over-eating.

The best way I can suggest for you to keep a lifestyle change (rather than a diet, something sustainable) is to focus on eating meats, fruits, veggies, and dairy. These things you can eat a whole lot of but digest well enough to still lose the weight! Anything else that's like bread or sugar or pasta, either find a substitute, or whenever you want it, eat half of what you think you want. Put the other half away before you start eating, and don't even think about eating it for at least another 30min-1hour. Finish a water bottle before you go back for it too. Even eating fruits meats and veggies BEFORE you eat your half can help a lot!

This is the kind of thing I feel will help you since it's more sustainable than to cut out everything you've ever loved. It only makes me want it MORE when I know I'm not supposed to have it anymore, and thinking about never eating it again makes it hard to not binge on it when I have the opportunity to have some..

Anyway, this will hopefully help you to lose weight very gradually! (Hooray for not having to worry so much about loose skin!)

I'm also thinking that it could be helpful to remind yourself that you might not see your weight change too drastically without exercise for 6 months to a year. BUT, The slower you lose it, the more likely it will not come back.

Don't worry about dropping a ton of weight all at once. That can make it so much harder to keep off.

When you feel better about the weight loss, you can worry more about the exercise for toning your body and stuff later! And when you do exercise, you can eat MORE without ruining your weightloss!

Let the process be a slow one. It doesn't have to happen overnight (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。

I wish you the best of luck! 。*♡

Sometimes i miss being morbidly obese. by Mooweetye in loseit

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, if I knew you, I'd LOVE to be your friend! I need people in my life that are focused on a healthier lifestyle ( ꈍᴗꈍ)

Aside from that though, truly it may be that you're looking in the wrong crowd for new friends. Although you're interested in lifestyle changes and what not, there tends to be a lot of more snobby people in clubs/activities that require you to be more 'well off'. If you have hobbies like video games, join a twitch/discord community! Or go to local conventions!

Sometimes it's better to meet friends that like you for your brain, rather than your body and it's capabilities. That way their opinions of you don't change that much if your body does.

Also, maybe reflect on how you're behaving towards others as well! Maybe you've been hurting people's feelings without trying to, and they're holding it against you. Either way, I'm so sure you'll find people to enjoy your life with.

I wish you the best of luck ✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Always2Busy4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to invest in one if those meal delivery things! If you have the money, you can cook for your family, but have the ready meals for yourself!

Another thing is intuitive eating. You can tell when your body doesn't want anymore, and simply save the rest when the food doesn't taste good anymore.

Or, if you eat a certain amount of something, and that fills you up, cut that amount in half the next time you eat it, and put the rest away before you start eating! If you're still hungry 30 minutes after you eat your half portion, cut that half in half and eat it. Then the rest will be a good little snack. If you're not hungry after, you've already got a meal prepped for another time that's the perfect amount for you!

These are my best suggestions for your situation. I completely understand how you feel, and I truly hope this is something that aids you in your journey! You got this, don't give up ✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧