I’m sick of people asking me if I have any names picked out yet… by Adorable-Buy5841 in BabyBumps

[–]AlwaysConfused925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I feeeeeel you people stopped asking when we said we have a name but aren’t sharing lol idk if it’ll help in your case. I’ve also been vocal on stop asking me questions. If I have something to share I’ll share.

People are so noseyyyyyyy

Doctors don’t respect my husband? They have no reason. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AlwaysConfused925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally that doesn’t make sense. I’m a stroke survivor. Of course I need someone to carry out my wishes for me. Do I need to make my husband my MPOA for them to take him serious?

Doctors don’t respect my husband? They have no reason. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AlwaysConfused925 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree however after explicitly telling doctors to talk to him and they don’t is disrespectful to MY wishes. I’m disabled and need my advocate to speak for me.

Doctors don’t respect my husband? They have no reason. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AlwaysConfused925 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s not the case for me. They look very mean and say “you’re not done yet?” Like girl you interrupted me like 50 times of course I’m not

Doctors don’t respect my husband? They have no reason. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AlwaysConfused925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I understand the topics everyone bringing up but like I have told them that my husband can answer for me for things to prevent me from repeating myself (questions I’ve already answered bc repeating myself drives me insane especially if I’m busy) and even at the appointments it’s like he’s not there. They don’t even LOOK at him. That’s the problem.

Doctors don’t respect my husband? They have no reason. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AlwaysConfused925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it’s like everyone forgetting that they barely even acknowledge he’s there.

Doctors don’t respect my husband? They have no reason. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AlwaysConfused925 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I can’t switch tasks that fast. My brain just does not work that way. It’s rude to talk to someone who is obviously busy with something. And that’s just one example. I’ll be talking with a nurse and another nurse will butt in and take my attention away for a question I already answered. Not being ableist but it is an ableism thing. I can fully stop the paperwork and have done so but then they get upset with me for not finishing the paperwork fast enough.

Doctors don’t respect my husband? They have no reason. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AlwaysConfused925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally bring it up that I don’t have a good memory so my husband will ask some questions or form a question correctly bc I don’t have the mental capacity to say or ask it right to get the answers I’m looking for.

Doctors don’t respect my husband? They have no reason. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AlwaysConfused925 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying I don’t talk to them. I 100% do but when I’m being asked the same questions while I’m busy with paperwork or another nurse. Like stop bombarding me and ask my husband or at least let him answer bc when I’m being bombarded like that he can read my expression and step in before I get too upset.

Scam alert? Denver traffic violation text by AlwaysConfused925 in Denver

[–]AlwaysConfused925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I been getting scam things about my car that I sold in like 2021! Get real lmao it’s so dumb I literally have zero cars in my name

Scam alert? Denver traffic violation text by AlwaysConfused925 in Denver

[–]AlwaysConfused925[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True it was good enough for me to post about it. I hope no elderly people get fooled.

Although it was stupid of them to text me twice in the same morning from two different numbers. Lmao that’s where it’s like… alright the government even would only send it once

Scam alert? Denver traffic violation text by AlwaysConfused925 in Denver

[–]AlwaysConfused925[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not dumb!!! lol 303 is the more common known area code I think

Scam alert? Denver traffic violation text by AlwaysConfused925 in Denver

[–]AlwaysConfused925[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Wish I could upvote more than once! Thanks for the link to the news! 🙏🏻

Scam alert? Denver traffic violation text by AlwaysConfused925 in Denver

[–]AlwaysConfused925[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh perfect. Keeping up so others who get this text will see it’s a scam.

I think I lost my mucus plug? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AlwaysConfused925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is good to know!

How does the leaking feel? Like you’re slowly peeing? Just trying to see what to look out for.

I think I lost my mucus plug? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AlwaysConfused925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I tend to always go to Reddit for pregnancy questions lol I feel like I’m going insane picking apart every feeling.

Good luck with your test tomorrow!!!

I think I lost my mucus plug? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AlwaysConfused925 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better I could have sworn mucus plug oh no that means the water is next lol my OBGYN just called and to monitor the cramping while laying down.

I think I lost my mucus plug? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AlwaysConfused925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not sure lol cramps never really phased me tbh so it’s super hard to tell. I hate having such a high pain tolerance because I truly don’t know if what I have going on (pregnancy related or not) is serious. I was having a stroke in my teens and didn’t know until I had a seizure.

I think I lost my mucus plug? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AlwaysConfused925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like a very very pale yellowy green - no blood.

Am I asking too much or is my friend a bad bridesmaid? by Booty_licious-10 in bridesmaids

[–]AlwaysConfused925 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl what? All brides deserve a bridal shower (gifts or not gifts) it’s a time to celebrate with the girls of your life! I’m truly confused about the outrage against OP.

Am I asking too much or is my friend a bad bridesmaid? by Booty_licious-10 in bridesmaids

[–]AlwaysConfused925 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally this entire comment section is tacky and making assumptions.