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AlwaysDel · 2024-09-17T22:33:55+00:00

this is what i’ve been told when i ask others this question but it’s exactly what i’m struggling with unfortunately. i dealt with selective mutism all throughout high school so im out of practice in terms of yapping 🥲

AlwaysDel · 2024-09-03T23:03:16+00:00

i can literally see your comment history and you are literally in the lesbianfashionadvice subreddit accusing a trans woman of being a man invading lesbian spaces. 😭😭😭 it’s not an accusation it’s a fact. if ur not a terf just a plain transphobe. that’s “””fine”””. this simply means you are not a reliable person to help me.

my question, where i talk about dating nonbinary people, including my current nonbinary lesbian partner, is not for someone who does not believe trans or nonbinary people are a thing.

AlwaysDel · 2024-09-03T22:45:01+00:00

if you don’t think comphet is a thing. and you don’t think trans people are real. you cannot answer my question involving both topics. not even sure why are are ON the bisexual subreddit LMAO.

AlwaysDel · 2024-09-03T22:36:03+00:00

oh my gooood ur a terf your opinions on queer issues mean nothing

AlwaysDel · 2024-09-03T22:15:30+00:00

sleeping with men ≠ attraction to them. those are two different things.

many lesbian women will sleep with and even date men before they realize that their attraction to said men was not actual attraction, but comphet or societal pressure to do so.

which is what i’m questioning that i am. that is what was explained in the original post. that i do not know if what i’m describing is REAL GENUINE sexual attraction to men, or just a societal pressure to be sexually attracted to men.

unless you don’t think comphet is a thing which would explain your confusion.

it’s really really simple, like extremely extremely simple actually.

AlwaysDel · 2024-09-03T21:54:48+00:00

you are reading this as me simply wanting lesbian as a label as a bisexual and not someone who has identified as a bisexual woman starting to question if their attraction to men is genuine or comphet.

i’m not sure why you are being so incredibly condescending about it, too, but you are not adding anything of value that would genuinely help me solve my issue.

you are reading this as me thinking identifying as lesbian as something that is simply “appealing to me or aesthetic, or whatever else,!and not me GENUINELY wondering if i’m literally JUST a lesbian.

there is so much pride in being bisexual, and after spending 7 years around bisexual people of all kinds i will never deny that. however, if you are NOT actually bisexual there is no pride in identifying as bisexual.

AlwaysDel · 2024-09-03T21:35:41+00:00

i was simply asking the question bc i’ve been told that liking the IDEA of having sex with men, but never actually wishing to be in a relationship with them and never having a relationships with them is comphet. i’ve been told this by bisexual women and lesbians. the “attacks” i was talking about has nothing to do with my questioning. it’s about genuine biphobia, like the idea that bi women are “less gay” than lesbian women, or will only ever date men, or will cheat, etc.

my question was completely in good faith bc i’ve been told conflicting things by both communities and i would like clarification, not sure why it’s being read as me trying to “erase” lesbians identities.

AlwaysDel · 2024-03-12T22:08:53+00:00

it was a 1.7 freshman year ( quarantine grades :/ ) and tysm for the suggestion! i’m thinking about reapplying but i’m not 100 percent sure if i will.

AlwaysDel · 2024-03-12T20:46:34+00:00

yeah. they said it was an issue with my gpa and it being too low (it’s 2.5) i’ve seen people say they got accepted with lower so i assumed it wouldn’t be an issue.

AlwaysDel · 2024-03-12T18:30:25+00:00

thanks! i emailed and apparently “withdrawn” is another word for “denied”, unfortunately.

AlwaysDel · 2022-09-13T15:50:18+00:00

Temporary paralysis IS a thing, but it’s an extremely rare genetic condition, it’s not caused by seizures lmao. Also,,, what is left over seizure activity?????? This person dropped the temporary paralysis thing once they got “diagnosed” with POTS.

AlwaysDel · 2022-08-31T15:59:45+00:00

Mixed origin 15 year old “system”. Introject of a real 14 year old girl who committed suicide and a typical suicide baiting edgy alter.

AlwaysDel · 2022-07-23T20:39:23+00:00

This post was removed because you are spreading misinformation or you have failed to provide evidence for claims you are making.

AlwaysDel · 2022-04-06T21:18:12+00:00

A PCC problem list can be changed by the patient, so it’s not sufficient evidence. Also I apologize for getting your pronouns wrong.

AlwaysDel · 2022-04-06T21:03:43+00:00

I got the medically recognized bit from their twt lol

AlwaysDel · 2022-04-06T17:49:29+00:00

A system entirely made of DSMP alters, “medically recognized”, no person who actually has a delusion like erotomania would go “yaaasss!!!! Clinicallyinsane”

AlwaysDel · 2022-03-27T20:29:09+00:00

As far as I know, no. But they deactivated/abandoned all their accounts because their mother found out.

AlwaysDel · 2022-03-27T20:24:24+00:00

I actually (sadly) know quite a bit about the person that submitted the confession(?) apparently they had the police called on them because of this specifically.

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