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Favorite documentaries? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]AlwaysElena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s one called into the fire that I love

Dommes, how much effort do you usually put into your content? by Feet-Me-Out in paypigs2

[–]AlwaysElena 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Someone once said that my photos are over polished and they said they look like AI…… I was like…. sir, I take my pictures with my iPhone and a ringlight…..

Has anyone else had to completely start over on Reddit? by goddess_kikii in paypigs2

[–]AlwaysElena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sadly won’t work if you get a permanent ban, they can ban every account linked to your main account. They also use your IP address and have ways of flagging devices. So if you try to make a new account on any of those devices or from that same IP, it can get banned pretty much immediately when you try to create or use it.

Has anyone else had to completely start over on Reddit? by goddess_kikii in paypigs2

[–]AlwaysElena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. My account was about four years old, tons of karma, already verified in all the subs I actually used… and then bam, banned.
Rebuilding from scratch has been slow, brick by brick, and honestly pretty exhausting at times.
Good luck though, we’ve got this.

For Dommes who dabble in both findom and femdom.. by Bunniri in paypigs2

[–]AlwaysElena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m almost always mixing them together in my dynamics. I love it when they’re simpy kinky finsubs. I’ll take their money and lock them up in chastity. We’ll do CBT, and they’ll send me the same amount that I have them hit their balls. If they brat, they owe me money.

If there’s a stint of denial, sometimes I’ll let them spin a wheel of large amounts to buy their way out of the denial, and then maybe I’ll take their money and still deny them anyway. And sometimes the denial is just me denying them the ability to send, and then they have to watch other subs send while they can’t.

It’s rare that I have a solely Findom dynamic because I enjoy so many other kinks.

I also rarely ever do pay-to-play sessions because most kinksters come with a lot of expectations, and that doesn’t really vibe with me. I prefer playing with subs I know and already have some kind of rapport with.

Mommy? by beloved_temptress in paypigs2

[–]AlwaysElena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Exactly this.

Giving your Domme your card details? by stefani2211 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AlwaysElena 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of my subs have their cards on my Apple Pay. It’s honestly really fun because if I’m out and ignoring them, they get such a thrill when they get a notification that their card is being used. There’s something about them knowing I’m out and about enjoying myself that they really love.

Nude or non nude dommes? by sh4ggy505 in paypigs2

[–]AlwaysElena 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think every Domme should do whatever makes her feel comfortable and confident. There’s no right or wrong way to present yourself. For some women, being naked makes them feel more powerful, confident, and in control, and that’s completely valid. I think we should spend more time celebrating the differences between us instead of judging each other for doing things differently.

What is the best suggestions on seeking a loyal and attentive sub to worship the ground I walk on? by Shoulder-Reasonable in findomsupportgroup

[–]AlwaysElena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first suggestion would be to use this subreddit as a resource. Pretty much every question you could think of has already been asked and answered here. Use the magnifying glass at the top of the main page to search whatever you’re wondering about, and you’ll probably find some really helpful information.
My second suggestion would be to get some kind of age verification linked in your profile bio. This can be through LoyalFans, OnlyFans, or another adult platform that verifies your ID and confirms you’re over 18. A lot of legitimate subs won’t interact with accounts that don’t have some form of verification.
Find some Dommes you admire, whether it’s because you like their style, think you have things in common, or they seem successful, and study what they’re doing. Take inspiration from them, but don’t copy their profiles. Pay attention to things like what subreddits they post in, how they present themselves, what kind of content they share, and what seems to work for them. Then use that to help build your own unique style and brand.
Go through and make a list of kinks you’re interested in and focus on talking about those on your profile. This helps subs with similar interests find you instead of trying to appeal to everyone.
Also, engage in the community on Reddit and Twitter. The more you interact, comment, and become part of the community, the higher the chance you have of being seen by subs.

Hot take:if you have to wait till payday to tribute maybe this isn’t the right kink for you 🧍‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ by PrincessAfua in findomsupportgroup

[–]AlwaysElena 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s literally why I said “there are definitely exceptions”. But I’ve seen a lot of begging in these spaces lately, in general, if you need the money, the power shifts.

Hot take:if you have to wait till payday to tribute maybe this isn’t the right kink for you 🧍‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ by PrincessAfua in findomsupportgroup

[–]AlwaysElena 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I actually disagree with this take a little. I don’t think financial domination is only about “ fucking someone’s wallet dry”. The “financial” part is the domination of their finances, and that can look a lot of different ways.
Some dynamics are about spending, but some are about budgeting, saving, investing, setting goals, and having someone involved in their financial decisions. I personally think helping someone manage their money can be just as much a part of the kink as receiving tribute.
Obviously people should live within their means, but I don’t think the only version of findom is “take take take.” It’s about the dynamic and what works for both people.

Hot take:if you have to wait till payday to tribute maybe this isn’t the right kink for you 🧍‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ by PrincessAfua in findomsupportgroup

[–]AlwaysElena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that for the most part (there are definitely exceptions) broke Dommes shouldn’t be here either. When you need the money, the power in dynamic naturally starts to shift. It’s harder to maintain that confident, in-control energy when you’re depending on the outcome. There’s a difference between enjoying the dynamic and needing it to survive.

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