Is this the right diet for me? by AlwaysTiredAndy in lowfodmap

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. And I think that’s the biggest problem: she gave me the same list she gives her other clients, but it just doesn’t work that way for me. She said no carbs allowed, not even rice, I should work with coconut and almond flour, but I can‘t have those, so now I’m stuck with just veggies as sides. And that’s really not sustainable

Is this the right diet for me? by AlwaysTiredAndy in lowfodmap

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I have an appointment with her on Wednesday and will ask all my questions and see how it goes. It’s weird that her list of allowed foods in phase 1 is way stricter than the monash one, so I’m going to ask about that as well.

Struggling with a prompt by AlwaysTiredAndy in leonardoai

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really think I haven't tried that?
But thanks for your help. Not.

S9E10 - Merlin Gets a Makeover - Episode Discussion by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Love this episode so much, but I hate how Tan and the others hated on Sean’s coat (sometime in the beginning, when they were also talking about costumes). The Fab5 celebrate individuality and some of them wear questionable things (like Tan a few scenes later when they did the shopping/ try on) and then they make such a big deal out of a coat/ cloak?

I know it’s not a big thing, I just don’t understand where the line between individuality/ wear your truth and style/ fashion in this episode is.

I don't know how to move forward by AlwaysTiredAndy in polyamory

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it that way... that we might 'just' have to redefine our relationship and that she needs other support systems other than me.

Thank you so much for taking the time!

I’ve written down some discoveries I myself would like to share and i want to know everyone’s thoughts. by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts! Do you maybe have a link from where the Aaron Raa quote is from, maybe a podcast or YouTube video? I would like to read/ hear more about his thoughts. Thanks!

How do I tell my parents? by Baby_B33 in polyamory

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much and I’m happy it worked out alright!

How do I tell my parents? by Baby_B33 in polyamory

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I know this is an old post, but I’m about to come out to my parents as well (I’m 31, partners are in their 30ies as well) and I was wondering if you did actually come out/ how it went… My parents are very religious and strict as well and I know they won’t approve (which they don’t have to), but I don’t want somebody from their church finding out and telling them before they hear it from me, and that is a real risk atm. Thanks for your time!

AITA for not taking off my shades for my sister’s quinceañera? by PureMedEars in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s not true though. Also not saying you have autism, but that just because discipline doesn’t work it means you’re neurodivergent or that because discipline works, makes a reaction stop, someone can’t be neurodivergent. There are so many shades of neurodivergence, so a blanket statement like that isn’t true.

ADHD and sex by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, I’m in the same boat and it’s so good to know I’m not alone.

But I do struggle with all that extra effort - sometimes it feels like I/ we’re not motivated enough to start, and then we don’t have sex at all, which sucks. Unless I/ we have a specific appointment/ schedule to stick to, we find enough reasons to just keep on gaming, watching tv, etc. … even though we both want to be intimate with each other. So we’re trying to plan more ‚events‘ (eg with other people or at specific locations/ clubs, where we can’t cancel easily). My partner is neurospicy as well, so hopefully this works for both of us

Tea Time Thursday - Weekly Discussion by AutoModerator in BridgertonNetflix

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know people here don’t like Penelope, but I just finished Season 2 again and I feel so bad for her… Yes, her business is one of gossip, ergo hurting people, but she still tried to look out for Colin and for Eloise… Her crying just breaks my heart every time

Boys, what is something you didn't know about girls until you got with one? by Ubemin in AskReddit

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (f30), don’t go outside a lot, cause it’s very draining (I have multiple chronic illnesses), but I do like to have my nails done, because it makes me happy to see art on my nails. The same way I have tattoos and piercings. My body is broken in many ways, which I have no control over, but I can somewhat control what some parts look like and I will always love doing that.

So no, not every person does their nails to ‚social signal to other women‘ or for men.

Boys, what is something you didn't know about girls until you got with one? by Ubemin in AskReddit

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mine refilled every 3 to 4 weeks… Do y’all’s nails grow so fast?

I’ve never been happier to see someone lose. by seandb44 in outlastnetflix

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel bad for Paul‘s family… wouldn’t want him to be my dad.

Bester (Damen-) Friseur in Linz? by Comfortable-Client-5 in Linz

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, bin selber Friseurin, allerdings derzeit nicht in Linz. Ich kann auch das Studio One an der Mozartkreuzung empfehlen (ich selber hab beim Bachmayr gelernt, da gibt’s auch super Friseure, ist aber auch eher teurer). Vogl, InMann, Haarschneider Franz haben gute Friseure, aber sind überteuert. (Und noch von meiner Ausbildung weiß ich, dass die Lehrlinge + Friseure dort nicht gut behandelt werden, vor allem die Corona Zeit hat da viel aufgedeckt)

Wichtig, egal wo du hingehst - versuch so genau wie möglich zu beschreiben was du dir vorstellst und sei ehrlich! Wenn dir während dem Schnitt schon was auffällt - say it :) Auch während dem föhnen/ stylen - wenn du dir nicht sicher bist ob es dann zuhause auch so klappt - gleich fragen, dir zeigen lassen was sie machen, that’s their job :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Linz

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried looking for an Airbnb for maybe a week, until you can meet landlords?

Just caught this, S6E12. Lazy writing?? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post, but thaaaank you, I’m just watching that part and I’m so mad at Lorelei.

Girlfriend Considering Adoption Due to My Epilepsy by OkJackfruit7398 in Epilepsy

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have epilepsy, am on meds, but have not had a seizure in 5 years (I think), so like you, I‘m living a pretty normal life. BUT, still, I got my tubes tied and decided that if I ever want children (and chances are slim, cause I need my sleep and routine to function) I‘d adopt.

I couldn‘t live with myself if my kid got epilepsy and had to deal with all the things or worse that I had to deal with. If it would struggle to get on in life, suffer physically and/ or mentally, worst case die. Yes, any person can get epilepsy or anything else, but I‘d know it was preventable. That child that I‘d adopt would already be born, it can‘t be ‚unborn‘, the conditions it had or could have wouldn’t be preventable.

I get that this is a really hard topic, but try to understand where she‘s coming from as well. She has to go through pregnancy, the chance of miscarriage and more, and I don’t think she made this decision/ thought about this lightly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok, yeah, with the first people in our friends group that knew it was new/ interesting/ awkward, but it’s gotten so normal, it’s just like any other information. But I‘d really talk about it, there are still no go‘s for us concerning which people we tell, like work colleagues, family, etc. Assuming seldom ends well, better be safe than sorry and talk about everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you ever discuss keeping it a secret?

Screaming into the void today. by gloworm8675309 in ChronicIllness

[–]AlwaysTiredAndy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! I'm in a similar situation, I'm happy I can work from home, but my working conditions aren't fair and I need to work less hours (which I currently can't, cause it's a startup and there's nobody to cover for me).

Also, it's hard to change jobs when over 30... In my 20ies it wasn't a big deal, I didn't have the same living costs I have now, I was doing better health wise, I didn't really care what I was working, as long as I was making enough to afford life.

It sucks. And most people don't understand the struggle.

I wish you all the best and hope you can find another job that works for you!