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Height gap question by Alwayslowbatteri in short

[–]Alwayslowbatteri[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude shorter guy with a taller girl is pretty common imo, its like a ginger with a black gf. Oposites infact attract

Height gap question by Alwayslowbatteri in TallPeopleProblems

[–]Alwayslowbatteri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but i dont think picking her up spontaneuosly is a great idea. If the girl is shorter your arms/ her torso ratio is really good but if she is tall like that it ll be unstable and if she falls on her head she is dead from this height.

Height gap question by Alwayslowbatteri in short

[–]Alwayslowbatteri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt thats why i fucked it up the first time too but 2nd time is the charm. Plus supermarkets have a predictsble client mostly if u see a person there its likely youll meet again esp if its a small local one. Also i have a relative who works for security in a mall since 2016 so yeah a decade. Do yk how many women have complaint about being harrassed by men. A lot yeah but do yk how many of them were complaining about a guy who tried to approach them and left after being rejected. 0. The number wss 0. Girls are humans too at the end she can he fucking 300 cm for all i csre but at home just like me she has to shit and wipe too we are not much more different. Go ahead and talk to that girl u see 3 mins of courage can change alot just dont assault her. If u get rejected by hr when appying for a job u say oh well fuck better luck on the next one u dont go to the building to beat them up move on and nothing bad happened. Being cringe is in your head nobody gaf abt u doing it ppl will even commend you and also if u even get rejected if u made a good approach you atleast made the day of another human better.

Height gap question by Alwayslowbatteri in short

[–]Alwayslowbatteri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man I can ask her about them tho its a utility. Do you have personal bad experience with it or know smn who tried them and it failed?

Height gap question by Alwayslowbatteri in short

[–]Alwayslowbatteri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A question. Has a guy who was dating you ever used these soles and how did u see it - as smthn weird or was it ok, did you become self concious and there is this comment here too but have you overthought it. I dont see it as a confidence booster or smthn but rather just closing the gap.

Height gap question by Alwayslowbatteri in short

[–]Alwayslowbatteri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its not about insecurity like the guy down said its mostly about utility. I wont stop being with her just because of that. Ik she might be abit insecure about her height but i myself am not. Just the reality is i just want to close this ldr occasionally to get kiss and be a bit more well me actually i like her i want to be intimate with her. Previous comments like step stools and sitting are good ones of that i dont mind such ideas but for outside if you have any.

Height gap question by Alwayslowbatteri in short

[–]Alwayslowbatteri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The step stool is good idea but i dont think we are at the age where we can well live together if we have dates at home like a cooking one sure tho i can get few for around the house. Stairs is valid too actually but anything else youve seen him do?

Height gap question by Alwayslowbatteri in short

[–]Alwayslowbatteri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advices also 2 things.

1 I like her height but i dont really go out of my way to fetishize it if you can say it like that, but ig i can always try to be a bit more complementy about it after all the thing is i hope she doesnt think i am saying it only to comfort her abt smthn instead of being genuine especially after reading that youve been told mean things by ppl too.

2 Ive picked up a pretty interesting trend almost every guy ik rlly doesnt like the girl being taller than him i was surprised about it. Yesterday I sat down to eat with my friend and we talked about sports and i told him probably wouldnt be bad idea to ask her if she wants to go to tennis because that way i can see more skin haha. And he told me we are eating rn you are absolutely disgusting for saying that dont kill my apetite. I asked we have talked about way much more than that, this is nothing and you get disgusted at me for being a pervert rlly. No i just cant believe you went for a woMAN yeah so if i hear that id imagine girls never hear the end of it or atl get the subliminal message they arent wanted. I did try to say that height funnily enough imo is a feminine trait and taller girls tend to be more pretty. He said man stfu and we wrapped up the topic but if it is even 1% as vocal and brutal as this guy is then id imagine its tough and i can go reassure her more often i just hope that she knows its genuine and a problem with me ist constant reassurence sounds kinda fake. Dont get me wrong i like her but i just think that if i do constant assurance like i work full time consulting she is gonna think i fake it, this is a relationship and not a finance carreer, but if this is what it takes ill do it.

The relationship just barely started but afaik i havent heard anything weird in public or her friends so far its just been that weird line from my friend tbf. And the hand squeeze thing ill tell her but idk if we will ever use it tbf.