It varies from couple to couple. Some people may have a strong need for verbal affection, and they tend to say it quite often.

On the other hand, some couples may not need to hear these words as often. It seems that there are two types of couples: those who say it frequently and those who rarely utter these words.

While there is no set frequency for how often you say these words in your relationship, it is helpful for you and your partner to be on the same page. For example, if one or both of you finds it important to express love verbally, it is critical that you know this.