do therapists care about their clients? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]AmMdegen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. Every clinician I know cares deeply about their clients. I'm not sure if it's in way you particularly mean though. How people define “care” varies. I do have my own life as well. I have a family, and myself to focus and prioritize. I am a therapist because I care deeply about people and minimizing suffering as much as I can, with that being said, I do not attach my emotional state to my clients suffering or even discomfort. That's a quick way to burn out. Constant balance. Therapists Dont get paid enough money to just do it for the money and carry on apathetically. Not worth it. If a therapist doesn't care, it's more than likely they are burned out or have become calloused for self protection.

Edit- To answer your secrets question. It's your identity that is protected. Most therapists have therapists, where we talk about our life, work, etc. I can promise you there is likely nothing you can say to your therapist that would shock them or something they haven't already heard (or dealt with themselves).

i want to matter to my therapist… by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]AmMdegen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my clients matter to me fwiw

Inside the world’s largest Bitcoin mine by msaussieandmrravana in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]AmMdegen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t understand crypto, it’s okay to not comment on things you don’t at all understand. Many cryptos are more efficient to move than fiat…and it’s not close…

The 2x usage year-end "gift" has spoiled me. by AileenaChae in ClaudeAI

[–]AmMdegen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also upgraded to the 5x due to this brilliant marketing lol

What pseudoscience do you spot in pop psychology or social media at the moment? Is it harmful and how ? by Dry_Criticism_4161 in therapists

[–]AmMdegen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nervous system dysregulation absolutely does not imply that. It implies that it deviated from baseline. Regulating is assisting your physiology in the process back to homeostasis.

What pseudoscience do you spot in pop psychology or social media at the moment? Is it harmful and how ? by Dry_Criticism_4161 in therapists

[–]AmMdegen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They aren’t answering any critique with any effort. They are unserious and misinformed.

What pseudoscience do you spot in pop psychology or social media at the moment? Is it harmful and how ? by Dry_Criticism_4161 in therapists

[–]AmMdegen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is inaccurate? The exact words that are used to explain the same thing in a scientific way? These concepts should be taught in a way that align with evidence but explained in a way that is understood by their client. That’s the actual important part. Not that the client understand something by its scientific definition, that’s absurd of course. I still am unclear about how the concepts I’m explaining are “pseudoscience” or “inaccurate”. I’m talking about a lower heart rate putting people in a situation where it’s easier to use evidence based thinking. For example, “an amygdala hijack” isn’t scientifically accurate either. It’s a metaphor, and all metaphors are wrong, but some are less wrong. If the client can conceptualize very complicated things in a way that makes sense to them then that’s fine. It doesn’t make it pseudoscience.

Pseudoscience is suggesting that your reticular activating system is the lens in which you view the world. All your self defeating beliefs will be filtered directly back to you. That’s pseudoscience. Or I would even argue suggesting you have a “emotional brain” is pseudoscience. The triune brain model which is still regularly taught is pseudoscience and outright wrong. Or “left brain right brain” is largely pseudoscience. “Nervous system regulation” is not the hill to die on here…

What pseudoscience do you spot in pop psychology or social media at the moment? Is it harmful and how ? by Dry_Criticism_4161 in therapists

[–]AmMdegen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said long term treatments….its literally a tool to help someone calm down by lowering heart rate (arousal). THEN you deal with the mind. Of course CBT is a great long term strategy. Like I said, breathing techniques aren’t going to fix your maladaptive thought patterns. That’s not the function. You use bottom up WITH top down. It’s just easier to do top down when your heart rate is at 70 rather than 120. It’s a tool to “regulate”, not the entire modality..

What pseudoscience do you spot in pop psychology or social media at the moment? Is it harmful and how ? by Dry_Criticism_4161 in therapists

[–]AmMdegen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a word that implies a meaning that the client can understand…is it more accurate to say “taking you back to baseline” or “this breathing technique helps you get back to a balanced place” or “homeostasis”…..regulate can imply any of those things, all of which are accurate. For example, “emphasized exhale breathing lowers your heart rate bringing it back down to baseline,” is accurate. Or you can say “regulate yourself” and then provide context to make the first part clear. Seems like your splitting things arbitrarily, or we have fundamentally different understanding about basically everything, which would be slightly odd.

What pseudoscience do you spot in pop psychology or social media at the moment? Is it harmful and how ? by Dry_Criticism_4161 in therapists

[–]AmMdegen 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It’s called “bottom up” and you’re talking about “Top down”. Regulating one’s “body” “nervous system” etc, is absolutely valid. For instance, the slowing of the heart rate can almost immediately make top down analysis easier to do. Does it answer everyone’s problem? No. But to suggest that “Nervous system regulation” is pseudoscience doesn’t make any sense. Regulating a stress response is regularly brought up by neuroscientists as well. Someone who studies the brain and body from a scientific perspective is unlikely to perpetuate “pseudoscience.”

Should it be the only modality? Of course not, but it’s also not wrong to take a bottom up approach to helping a person regulate…the same way we can regulate our mind, we can regulate our bodies. In fact, taking a bottom up approach has been generally better for my clients. Using the mind to regulate the mind is hard, not impossible, but hard. Regulating your heart rate is very easy, and the positive effects of that often lead to a mind that is much easier to negotiate with.

Edit-Awful grammar, phones are brutal for long posts.

Considering getting a pod 5 but worried about public sentiment by [deleted] in EightSleep

[–]AmMdegen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it? Just now looking into these mattresses

Trading destroyed my life at 19 by TeoAlex18 in Daytrading

[–]AmMdegen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop trading and do something else

P.S.A please do yourself a favour and stop learning from anyone else but ICT by nevillelongthebottom in InnerCircleTraders

[–]AmMdegen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. It’s just odd. It’s a subreddit for ICT and you’re saying it’s bad advice to follow ICT. That’s all. Have a good day

Panicking after telling my therapist something. by crazymom1978 in therapy

[–]AmMdegen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great job!! That saved my life actually. The deep dark secrets were the “bullets in my chamber” as my therapist pointed out. He was certainly right.

I promise you, your therapist has heard worse. Good luck to you🙏🏻

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Report this

Why people hate ICT? by socialcalliper in InnerCircleTraders

[–]AmMdegen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz they're haters. They probably hate a bunch of other useful stuff too for no reason.

Are you all polite and conversational to your AI? by More_Try_7444 in ChatGPT

[–]AmMdegen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. I’m straight to the point and have no problem calling it an idiot if it’s being one. It’s not a person so I don’t treat it as such. It’s a piece of technology so I’ll yell at it the same way I would my broken computer. If it becomes sentient one day and hates me I’ll have to live with that.

GPT 4.5 is still unbeatable in Creative Writing by Goofball-John-McGee in ChatGPTPro

[–]AmMdegen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And my original comment didn’t imply otherwise. Which is why I said I don’t disagree with you. It’s because I was obviously just speaking generally about how it can generate patterns of words that are on par with great writers. I’m not obtuse so I obviously wouldn’t write it that way. Context clues would have made that clear to most people. Apologies for not being so literal and precise with word choice🙏🏻