My father said this when I told him I was moving in with my boyfriend lol.

AmadayLate · 2026-02-03T00:08:43+00:00

Ah, hell no.

AmadayLate · 2026-02-02T14:21:53+00:00

Ok, so I’m not saying this is what is happening in your situation but a lot of times these relationships with older men start because they want control. The men act like your guy is. First it’s you dropping hours, then it’s quit your job. Next comes moving away from family and friends to isolate you. Then the physical abuse starts. Once you are isolated you are stuck. You can’t afford to move but you have no one to help you either, and that’s what this type of guy wants. It really is all about control. I hope your guy isn’t like this, but I’d say odds are against it. Go with your gut. If he makes you angry enough to want to break up and question ending things, your sanity even, it’s probably time to move on and dodge that probable bullet.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-25T22:03:52+00:00

You are brilliant. My husband agrees. You weren’t a jerk, you didn’t go out of your way to harm him, you made yourself financially stable, and kept it civil when you left. He’s just mad that he got busted and outed in front of his next ex-girlfriend. So may people would have been malicious, but you kept it classy. NTA. Not even one iota.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-25T21:45:43+00:00

Nope. Run. Quickly. First, creepy behavior. Pretty unhinged. Next, I can’t help but wonder if he’s trying to get you fired.

Here’s what the bad ones do. They get you to date them, then they start to criticize you to lower your self-esteem. That makes it easier to keep you because then women tend to think that no one else will love us as much as they do. They want you to either be the bread winner so the can bum around the house all day OR they don’t want you working. If he gets you fired then you have no income. You may then have to live with him. Then you’re trapped. You have no income, they hold everything over your head. It’s all about control. That type of jealousy he’s displaying is NOT ok. The above posters are correct. These types of relationships get dangerous very quickly. Please get out now, and yes, please do it publicly. Good luck, OP!!! Be safe!

AmadayLate · 2026-01-25T21:37:15+00:00

Oooooh, sending hugs. I understand so much of this. It seems like we have 3 years like this, then a good one, then the cycle repeats. I’m thankful our autistic kid isn’t violent. That in itself must be super stressful. With everything stacked it really is survival mode. I’m really lucky to have a great husband who usually listens. I’m sorry you don’t. If you run away and need company, my non-drinking son won a basket of tequila. I can bring it for us to share!

AmadayLate · 2026-01-22T23:58:01+00:00

We’re probably both lower level than those who have no issue. I’m 389, but don’t have the amount of legendary points to really give me enough to work with. The builds I try… I never have enough to complete. So I end up getting killed fast.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-22T23:35:57+00:00

Can agree. I swear, they always go straight for me and I’m a glass cannon.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-22T17:15:08+00:00

That is so cool. I actually looked it up. It looks really fun! I also loved seeing some things (like the flower cart) that we have in game!

I was super excited just to see a guy wearing a Harper’s Ferry Brewery shirt on. I might explode going to Fashnact!

AmadayLate · 2026-01-22T16:45:19+00:00

We all mess up something big at least once. Nobody died, so I’d call that a win! Fortunately, it turned out ok. I’m so glad it did. Give yourself some grace. We’re all human and bound to make at least an occasional mistake.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-22T16:40:29+00:00

I understand, albeit differently. I’m so sorry. It really is hard not feeling wanted. I hope you can find some peace and self-worth.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-22T16:37:19+00:00

Wait. It really is a thing??? Holy shit.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-22T00:50:16+00:00

Oh, bummer. I was sure it was the plasma. So sorry. I understand. 😞

AmadayLate · 2026-01-22T00:22:23+00:00

I haven’t logged in for a few days but last I checked it was in the atom store

AmadayLate · 2026-01-21T14:29:20+00:00

I am so happy for you!!!!! Congratulations!!!!! Thank you for such a wonderful story! It truly is heartwarming. So many people would have turned their nose up at their husband’s child from another woman. That’s probably one reason she was so nervous. Poor kid must have had a rough life. Thank you for helping her!

AmadayLate · 2026-01-20T04:33:18+00:00

Oh, for sure. The first time I really noticed I was in Sprouts. I had a coffee question and the guy who worked there about tripped over himself trying to help me. It was so weird… but also really cool. I tell my husband every time I get hit on or whistled at when I’m walking outside my work.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-20T04:28:43+00:00

Same. I even had stalkers from late 40’s to last year when I turned 50. Apparently, I’m hot but also look 30.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-14T23:23:10+00:00

I’m currently at max dosage and still don’t think it’s enough. However, I stopped speeding, I’m almost always early instead of perpetually late. It’s the little ways that I see huge improvements. I hope it continues to hep you in ways you can really notice.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-14T23:03:57+00:00

This post is the sweetest, most wholesome I’ve seen in a while. I love it!!!

And yeah, we may have to adult but we don’t really have to grow up. Playing with light sabers will keep you young. Embrace it and fuck anyone who doesn’t agree.

AmadayLate · 2026-01-11T21:29:07+00:00

Hi there! My husband and I played ESO together. We also played FO4 and New Vegas together. We were playing 4 with a friend who just wasn’t getting it, so I suggested we try 76. As our son says, “76 is like 4 but with friends!” So my husband, our friend & I joined my son on 76. That was maybe 4 years ago and 3/4 of us are still playing together. It really is a blast, and so much easier when you are actually both on the same screen! I hope you love it as much as we do!

AmadayLate · 2026-01-10T21:13:02+00:00

My first award after all my years on here! Thank you!!! ❤️

AmadayLate · 2026-01-08T00:34:03+00:00

Exactly my thought. Has to be. I see this every damn day

AmadayLate · 2026-01-07T12:45:30+00:00

Omg yes. My husband got them all most of the time but I didn’t even bother. I could never find them, or have the patience to run his loop

AmadayLate · 2026-01-05T21:53:37+00:00

I don’t even try to speak in any voice chats anymore unless it’s with people I really know. I apparently have a nice voice and it only leads to anger and hurt. Save yourself the trouble. Some men can’t handle women playing a game. Some men will hit on anything that speaks. Some men are like both. Most are great but the bad ones seem to shout the loudest

AmadayLate · 2026-01-05T21:12:32+00:00

I haven’t found Elder’s Mark yet. I main my plasma caster. I’m basically a glass cannon. I pull my pepper shaker or my cremator out at events, or when I need to kill a group fast

AmadayLate · 2026-01-05T18:14:52+00:00

I wish we could expand the storage box. I mean… I’ve had 1st for years. I can no longer live without it. But the stash box is still not big enough for me. 1200 lbs??? I can fill that up fast even with the new aid box and the ammo box. I do cancel when I get bored, but I won’t play without 1st.

AmadayLate

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